Straight up.. Looks or Personality??
I know someone who's mother probably fed him by catapult but who has the kindest, funniest and most beautiful personality.. still couldn't go out with him tho.I know.I know.fickle!!
Answers:
Personality,hands down.
fickle lol?
personality.
For a one nighter..looks.
For a repeat one nighter..personality.
oooo toughy i like both but if i had to choose1 id say personality
personality straight up what are looks if the inside is rotten
Looks draw me in.
Personality makes me stay.
Personality.
what is fickle
I know him!! And DON"T be talkin' about my brother that way!LOL
I would rather go out with somebody with good looks and a bad personality rather than a good personality but ugly, but atm none of them concern me as i have the perfect girl! looks personality the lot! and her mum makes good butties :P
ye need a bit o both
personality
(hey you said straight up)
With me personalty every time, you can have looks but nothing else and then becomes boring whats inside that counts
Well for me anyway, its the looks that attract, but its the personality that counts. I have been out with ugly women and not so ugly women, but always their personality has let them down. They have all turned out to be either thieves, cheats or liars.
i would normally say looks because you wouldnt go up to an ugly stranger to hook up with. but if you already know the person, personality is probably more important
For the one's that matter deffinetly personality!
You just gotta have something to attract you.and most of the time its looks, at least to begin with.
There are those of course whose personality is irrelevant - I just want to $h@g them..not have a conversation!
personality, but you have to have standards.
I know some wonderful octogenarians but I'm 36.
So no.
looks. personality=out of style!
My ex was very, very handsome. Girls often told him he looked somewhere between Brad Pitt and David Beckham (Blond hair, button nose, blue eyes, rugby player physique)
He was the worlds biggest @hole!! He was domineering, possessive, bullied me. That's why he became my ex.
Trust me, there's no fun in walking the street with a stunner at you're side, but when you get home, he turns into a ugly troll!
Reality is, we can't truly force ourselves to feel a connection or chemistry with another person, sometimes people grow on us over time, although they were not someone we would find appealing initially.humor and wit and charm, kindness, a nice smile, can become truly sexy and attractive.and aesthetically appealing men can become very unappealing.alot of it has to do with energy and how he carries himself. confidence can go a long way as well. plus, beauty and sex appeal is truly subjective.subject to individual taste. some wonderful love affairs begin as friendships. my friend is married to her best friend, truly in love w/ him, he is wonderful. however, ask her if three years ago she would have looked twice..there you go.
looks attract you to someone but the personality is what makes you stick around for more than a few seconds, i have dated some of the most beautiful ppl yet couldn't stay with them cause i couldn't hardly stand there personality and the opposite is true as well i have dated some REAL uggo's because i loved being around them but then again i didn't stay with them either..so an equal mix is good but really personality is the most important looks will fade with time when your 80 personality will get you by we will all be ugly someday there aren't very many 50+ year old super models but there are plenty of 50+ year old happily married couples. lol so that turned into a long one the short answer is both with a lean toward personality :P
i know that its the personality that really counts but everyone always sees the person on the outside rather than the person on the inside. You feel attracted to the looks of a person. If someone is big and ugly, you dont even get to know them.
However, i got chatting to a guy from work, he's attractive to me but i did hold back for a while cos of his size. We both flirted with each other and when he asked me out, i jumped at the chance!! He's turned out to be the best bloke in the world. Good thing is, i got to know him as a person first and now i'm with him, i like him even more! We've been together for 3 months and can honestly say, i'm in love with him!
Part of me was worried what other people would think when they saw him but that's there problem not mine. i'm happy with him and thats all that matters.
You can have a drop dead gorgeous, fit guy who's just full of himself and is a complete and utter b***ard! Then you have Mr. Average who has a heart of gold and would worship the ground you walk on!
Therefore, in answer to your question, PERSONALITY, any day!
For me it's a little of both but personality takes it.
Personality - everybody's got potential particularly if you squint and daydream!!
It really does have to be both with me ! You can't go out with an ugly bloke just coz hes nice and vice versa x
A person's personality traits determine who they are. Does it matter what they LOOK like? Under the skin, whatever race or creed we are, we are people. What makes us really different, what sets us apart, what attracts us to others - is our personality. Personality is the basis of human chemistry - it is either there or it isn't. Personality is what instinctively draws us to someone else - I say go with your instincts. Someone's looks are only superficial after all - and who knows that those looks are real, and not the result of plastic surgery!
what good is beauty if the other person can't carry on a conversation?
You should only date guys who you sincerely like for their personality. However, I know what you mean - sometimes guys are attracted to me and I love their personalities but I just can't get over their looks/hygiene, etc.
Sometimes however, your first impression may be that they are unattractive, but as you get to know them better, their wonderful personality makes them look better too. I would say that you should get to know this person better - maybe they won't seem unattractive afterall.
Another suggestion: if you aren't worried about a ruined friendship or things becoming awkward, why not go out with him on a first date? That way you can get to know him, see him dressed up for a date, etc. Maybe that way you can see if you can live with his looks. If not, there isn't a whole lot of harm done.
Personality definately - but as i've always found large bald men attractive i'm easily pleased :-D
both
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Answers:
Personality,hands down.
fickle lol?
personality.
For a one nighter..looks.
For a repeat one nighter..personality.
oooo toughy i like both but if i had to choose1 id say personality
personality straight up what are looks if the inside is rotten
Looks draw me in.
Personality makes me stay.
Personality.
what is fickle
I know him!! And DON"T be talkin' about my brother that way!LOL
I would rather go out with somebody with good looks and a bad personality rather than a good personality but ugly, but atm none of them concern me as i have the perfect girl! looks personality the lot! and her mum makes good butties :P
ye need a bit o both
personality
(hey you said straight up)
With me personalty every time, you can have looks but nothing else and then becomes boring whats inside that counts
Well for me anyway, its the looks that attract, but its the personality that counts. I have been out with ugly women and not so ugly women, but always their personality has let them down. They have all turned out to be either thieves, cheats or liars.
i would normally say looks because you wouldnt go up to an ugly stranger to hook up with. but if you already know the person, personality is probably more important
For the one's that matter deffinetly personality!
You just gotta have something to attract you.and most of the time its looks, at least to begin with.
There are those of course whose personality is irrelevant - I just want to $h@g them..not have a conversation!
personality, but you have to have standards.
I know some wonderful octogenarians but I'm 36.
So no.
looks. personality=out of style!
My ex was very, very handsome. Girls often told him he looked somewhere between Brad Pitt and David Beckham (Blond hair, button nose, blue eyes, rugby player physique)
He was the worlds biggest @hole!! He was domineering, possessive, bullied me. That's why he became my ex.
Trust me, there's no fun in walking the street with a stunner at you're side, but when you get home, he turns into a ugly troll!
Reality is, we can't truly force ourselves to feel a connection or chemistry with another person, sometimes people grow on us over time, although they were not someone we would find appealing initially.humor and wit and charm, kindness, a nice smile, can become truly sexy and attractive.and aesthetically appealing men can become very unappealing.alot of it has to do with energy and how he carries himself. confidence can go a long way as well. plus, beauty and sex appeal is truly subjective.subject to individual taste. some wonderful love affairs begin as friendships. my friend is married to her best friend, truly in love w/ him, he is wonderful. however, ask her if three years ago she would have looked twice..there you go.
looks attract you to someone but the personality is what makes you stick around for more than a few seconds, i have dated some of the most beautiful ppl yet couldn't stay with them cause i couldn't hardly stand there personality and the opposite is true as well i have dated some REAL uggo's because i loved being around them but then again i didn't stay with them either..so an equal mix is good but really personality is the most important looks will fade with time when your 80 personality will get you by we will all be ugly someday there aren't very many 50+ year old super models but there are plenty of 50+ year old happily married couples. lol so that turned into a long one the short answer is both with a lean toward personality :P
i know that its the personality that really counts but everyone always sees the person on the outside rather than the person on the inside. You feel attracted to the looks of a person. If someone is big and ugly, you dont even get to know them.
However, i got chatting to a guy from work, he's attractive to me but i did hold back for a while cos of his size. We both flirted with each other and when he asked me out, i jumped at the chance!! He's turned out to be the best bloke in the world. Good thing is, i got to know him as a person first and now i'm with him, i like him even more! We've been together for 3 months and can honestly say, i'm in love with him!
Part of me was worried what other people would think when they saw him but that's there problem not mine. i'm happy with him and thats all that matters.
You can have a drop dead gorgeous, fit guy who's just full of himself and is a complete and utter b***ard! Then you have Mr. Average who has a heart of gold and would worship the ground you walk on!
Therefore, in answer to your question, PERSONALITY, any day!
For me it's a little of both but personality takes it.
Personality - everybody's got potential particularly if you squint and daydream!!
It really does have to be both with me ! You can't go out with an ugly bloke just coz hes nice and vice versa x
A person's personality traits determine who they are. Does it matter what they LOOK like? Under the skin, whatever race or creed we are, we are people. What makes us really different, what sets us apart, what attracts us to others - is our personality. Personality is the basis of human chemistry - it is either there or it isn't. Personality is what instinctively draws us to someone else - I say go with your instincts. Someone's looks are only superficial after all - and who knows that those looks are real, and not the result of plastic surgery!
what good is beauty if the other person can't carry on a conversation?
You should only date guys who you sincerely like for their personality. However, I know what you mean - sometimes guys are attracted to me and I love their personalities but I just can't get over their looks/hygiene, etc.
Sometimes however, your first impression may be that they are unattractive, but as you get to know them better, their wonderful personality makes them look better too. I would say that you should get to know this person better - maybe they won't seem unattractive afterall.
Another suggestion: if you aren't worried about a ruined friendship or things becoming awkward, why not go out with him on a first date? That way you can get to know him, see him dressed up for a date, etc. Maybe that way you can see if you can live with his looks. If not, there isn't a whole lot of harm done.
Personality definately - but as i've always found large bald men attractive i'm easily pleased :-D
both
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