Ciao! What irrelevant 'little' things have you decided to stop stressing about in your life?
How have you chosen to simplify your life and make your days happier to be in?
Have a beautiful day. You look lovely today, by the way.
Answers:
I like your questions, Oliver. What a nice guy you are (makes a change on this site, that's for sure).
Not long ago I read a book called "Don't sweat the small stuff" by some American guy. And it really did change my outlook. He pointed out that, when you think about it, "it's all small stuff". I'm not usually swayed by books like this (esp. US ones - lol) but I liked the sentiment of this one.
My family and I have our health, food in the cupboard and a roof over our heads. Everything else is details - and stressing never makes the slightest bit of difference. So why bother.
(And you're looking damn fine, yourself, if you don't mind my saying!!)
actually i have ! alot . I stopped telling myself negative things . I'm alot better now
I dont stress over my mother and her attitude toward me and my son anymore.
Thanks for the compliment! I tried very hard to look my best today.
Ive tried not to let what other ppl think aboutme effect my own hapiness.if I like something or want somethign then what othre ppl think about it shouldnt matter.wear what I want , see who I want, listen to whom I want..etc etc etc.dotn sweat the small stuff and its all small stuff!
when there are no clean t'spoons in the kitchen for that first cup of coffee, it used to really bug me but now i just wash one up and get on with the day.
toothpaste on the side of the basin, wipe it and its gone - dont bother me anymore just wipe and get on with the day.
How clean my house is..what people think of how I dress..
I've made up my mind not to let a certain co-worker's comments about my work performance bother me. Ditto, those of my former spouse. I don't stress if all my housework doesn't get done. I'm even improving at not unduly worrying or taking it personally if my favorite guy doesn't keep in touch as much as I'd like.
Trying to do EVERYTHING today. Instead, spending time with those whose company enhances me.
After getting some distance from a very busy and stressful year, I am so lucky to be able to look back and appreciate those who supported me! How about you?
Have a beautiful day yourself, handsome!
being good all the time.i am tired of it.
thanks for your sweet words.
lately i've been telling myself to stop worrying 'bout marriage. When d time is come, i will b there!
thank u
first.realize when my stress level is up.then become aware of the cause.think it through.if i am unable to change it at that moment.I've got to let it go for the time being.making the choice to do what is spiritually best for me.
Bad weather (I can't really do anything about it, so why should I be stressed about it), and bad drivers (though for this one I'm going to have to try very hard!).
Enjoy your day too!
I stopped caring about my past and what others think of me in the OCD way I used to.
I have stopped stressing about my laugh lines b/c they show that I've enjoyed my life, the bad and the good.
stop thinking about shagging all the time
I have stopped stressing about how tidy my house is and i let my children play more in the mess. As long as my house/garden is clean i don't mind anymore it has taken me 5 years to decide this but hey better late then never. Your photo is gorgeous are you hiding behind this photo or is really you??
(SORRY)
This is a very good question to ask. I personally have decided to not worry about things I have no control over. I used to worry about everything, but found that certain things I stressed about wasn't needed. I am learning to be happy with me and to make the best out of each day I'm allowed to see. If I'm not truly happy with myself, then nothing in my life will work out. No matter how hard I work at it!
Stopped worrying about things that I can't change.
Love.I've given up love.It only brings about madness and suffering..
do you flirt this much? i shudder because i fear for the women around you, sincerely i hope you are not as manipulative as you sound in your questions, worse still all ladies including me seem to fall for the crap!
anyway maya angelou sums it for me ope you get the answer from the quote
"If you don't like something change it, if you can't change it, change your attitude, don't complain" - Maya Angelou
this is what ave adopted! have a good day too. ciao
Dust
Women.
They **** up everything and take responsibility for nothing.
(For a while anyway!)
Happier, less stressed, unfortunately just as horny as the goatboy himself.
I've destressed about tidying up the house, so long as it's clean who cares!! I've also chucked out the idea that i'm not perfect, i am perfect enough for me.
Thanks for the compliment, feeling lovely today. My day was made more beautiful by your question and message, hope you have a lovely weekend.
i'll stop stressing when i stop being so lazy.
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Have a beautiful day. You look lovely today, by the way.
Answers:
I like your questions, Oliver. What a nice guy you are (makes a change on this site, that's for sure).
Not long ago I read a book called "Don't sweat the small stuff" by some American guy. And it really did change my outlook. He pointed out that, when you think about it, "it's all small stuff". I'm not usually swayed by books like this (esp. US ones - lol) but I liked the sentiment of this one.
My family and I have our health, food in the cupboard and a roof over our heads. Everything else is details - and stressing never makes the slightest bit of difference. So why bother.
(And you're looking damn fine, yourself, if you don't mind my saying!!)
actually i have ! alot . I stopped telling myself negative things . I'm alot better now
I dont stress over my mother and her attitude toward me and my son anymore.
Thanks for the compliment! I tried very hard to look my best today.
Ive tried not to let what other ppl think aboutme effect my own hapiness.if I like something or want somethign then what othre ppl think about it shouldnt matter.wear what I want , see who I want, listen to whom I want..etc etc etc.dotn sweat the small stuff and its all small stuff!
when there are no clean t'spoons in the kitchen for that first cup of coffee, it used to really bug me but now i just wash one up and get on with the day.
toothpaste on the side of the basin, wipe it and its gone - dont bother me anymore just wipe and get on with the day.
How clean my house is..what people think of how I dress..
I've made up my mind not to let a certain co-worker's comments about my work performance bother me. Ditto, those of my former spouse. I don't stress if all my housework doesn't get done. I'm even improving at not unduly worrying or taking it personally if my favorite guy doesn't keep in touch as much as I'd like.
Trying to do EVERYTHING today. Instead, spending time with those whose company enhances me.
After getting some distance from a very busy and stressful year, I am so lucky to be able to look back and appreciate those who supported me! How about you?
Have a beautiful day yourself, handsome!
being good all the time.i am tired of it.
thanks for your sweet words.
lately i've been telling myself to stop worrying 'bout marriage. When d time is come, i will b there!
thank u
first.realize when my stress level is up.then become aware of the cause.think it through.if i am unable to change it at that moment.I've got to let it go for the time being.making the choice to do what is spiritually best for me.
Bad weather (I can't really do anything about it, so why should I be stressed about it), and bad drivers (though for this one I'm going to have to try very hard!).
Enjoy your day too!
I stopped caring about my past and what others think of me in the OCD way I used to.
I have stopped stressing about my laugh lines b/c they show that I've enjoyed my life, the bad and the good.
stop thinking about shagging all the time
I have stopped stressing about how tidy my house is and i let my children play more in the mess. As long as my house/garden is clean i don't mind anymore it has taken me 5 years to decide this but hey better late then never. Your photo is gorgeous are you hiding behind this photo or is really you??
(SORRY)
This is a very good question to ask. I personally have decided to not worry about things I have no control over. I used to worry about everything, but found that certain things I stressed about wasn't needed. I am learning to be happy with me and to make the best out of each day I'm allowed to see. If I'm not truly happy with myself, then nothing in my life will work out. No matter how hard I work at it!
Stopped worrying about things that I can't change.
Love.I've given up love.It only brings about madness and suffering..
do you flirt this much? i shudder because i fear for the women around you, sincerely i hope you are not as manipulative as you sound in your questions, worse still all ladies including me seem to fall for the crap!
anyway maya angelou sums it for me ope you get the answer from the quote
"If you don't like something change it, if you can't change it, change your attitude, don't complain" - Maya Angelou
this is what ave adopted! have a good day too. ciao
Dust
Women.
They **** up everything and take responsibility for nothing.
(For a while anyway!)
Happier, less stressed, unfortunately just as horny as the goatboy himself.
I've destressed about tidying up the house, so long as it's clean who cares!! I've also chucked out the idea that i'm not perfect, i am perfect enough for me.
Thanks for the compliment, feeling lovely today. My day was made more beautiful by your question and message, hope you have a lovely weekend.
i'll stop stressing when i stop being so lazy.
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