I'm a brunette, my boyfriend keeps asking me to dye my hair blond, I'm just worried about my complexion??
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tell him :dye your then we'll talk"
Don't dye your hair if you don't want to, especially for that lame excuse "My boyfriend wants me to do it."
Tell him to dye his hair for you and see what he does.
Would make more sense to change your boyfriend.
(Happily married to a brunette for 22 years.)
u will look more attractive when u do blondy highlights
Um, hello!
Don't do it because your boyfriend asked you to...
don't do it..stay brunette..it's so much more sophisticated!!
You can colour yo blond,but try not to go to light.
If it's something you want, try to start with some highlights and gradually add more blonde to them if you like it. If you don't want this, don't do it just for him. He should like you for the person you are, not the colour of your hair
try on a wig and look at yourself in the mirror? O_o dont ask me where your gonna find a wig jus find one its better then experimenting wit your hair but I have ghostly pale skin I dyed my hair blonde and people thought I looked good but id say you should try on a wig first ..xD I tried on a wig before I dyed my hair =P yes it sounds strange but still
try getting high lights that r Blonde then if u like it die it all blonde!(help much!)
I totally agree with Dazed and Confused. If you start doing as your b/f says then you will be forever doing as he says or wants. you are your own person..
Tell him if he doesnt like your hair the way it is, to find himself a blonde. Who does he think he is? What is he going to do next? Choose your clothes? Your friends? What to say and think? There are plenty of men out there who will love you, brunette and all!
You could try it with a wig?
Well,don't get platnum blonde.
Could you not get blonde streaks through your hair?
Or dye your hair blonde but leave the roots your natural colour?
Because once you start dying your hair you'll have to keep doing it unless you let the dye grow out..
Which takes a long time and your hair would look dreadful.
Make sure its something that YOU want..
NOT what your boyfriend wants.
Good Luck,
I hope everything works out well for you.. :]
DONT DO IT. Stay natural, ask him to shave his head because you like it and see what he says!
it all depends on the look you're going for- you could use a moisturiser and tan in one if its the complexion you worry about. but you don't necessarily have to go for light blonde. caramel / darker blonde shades shouldnt wash you out.
Hey, its your hair not his. if you really dont want to dye your hair blonde then dont. if he really likes you for who you are it doesnt matter what color your hair is. Also if you dye your hair blonde and your hair is dark it will make your eye brows look much darker and you will need to get your roots touched up every 4-5 weeks. Trust me, if your brunette and you dye your hair blond its a pain to keep up with. It's also expensive if you get it done at the salon, and the roots done there too.
if you dont know if blonde will look good on you, the next time you pass by a salon go in it and ask a stylish there what they think and what type of blonde would look good on you (ex: platnum, wheat, honey, gold, dirty)
Well first of all don't do it cause your boyfriend wants oyu too if he wants you to dye your hair blonde ask him if he would dye his hair a different color and if not you don't either, also if you want to dye your hair to try somethign new get the non-permanent color and try it that way first to see if you like it or not, and if not then go back your natural color! Simple as that
If you REALLY want to know whether it will suit you or not, then
- for one day e.g. - try to use a blond peruke. If that convinces you and
1. You WANT to be blond, then you can dye your hair blond.
2. You DO NOT think it will suit you, then CHANGE your b.f.
OKAY ?
Personally, I wouldn't change my haircolor for my boyfriend.
If you want to try it out, I'd suggest Color Pulse from Loreal. It's a non-permanent dye that will wash out in about 10 days. They have a range of colors, including blonde that you could try out. (I tried the purple, and loved it!) This way you can see if you like it, and if you don't, it'll wash out soon enough!
Show your personality and not your looks to overcome
your boyfriend. Once he gets it his way against yours
he will abuse you in the future.
Why would you do that b/c you bf said it. Unless you want to dye your hair blonde go ahead. But its you dont want to dont do it. If he dont accept it then find someone that does.
Dont dye your hair if you dont feel like it, dont do things just because "my bf tells me to"
If he doesnt like your hair what more the other things, if he still insists then dump the superficial jerk.
You'd look dreadful if you go blonde, especially just because your boyfriend tells you to. Why would he want to change the person he fell in love with?
If your BF wants a blonde, maybe he should go get one. Maybe you should go find someone who loves you for who and what you are, Brunette!
Brunettes are a darn sight sexier than blondes anyway and definitely sexier than bottle blondes.
Stay true to yourself.
there are websites that let u put different styles/colours onto a picture of urself.
just think long and hard about why he wants u to change ur appearence and make sure its what YOU want!!
Don't do it - you will look pale and washed out and very odd! Your colouring suits you! If YOU want to change your hair colour go to a salon and get professional advice. If you really want blonde then just get hi-lights don't get the whole head done!!
Your boyfriend is giving you a helpful suggestion. They can be sweet like that. I would try blond highlights first and see if that suits.
Could go into a department store and try on a blond wig and see if it suits you.
Gosh, don't worry about your complexion - worry about your boyfriend! If he doesn't like you the way you are, he's not much of a pal! Point out a few things you'd like HIM to change (his attitude, for one!), & he'll either get the message, or dump you, but better off without him, I'd say.
go for highlight first, it is much better than the total blond look. It is take a big commitment to do the whole blond look as you have to keep bleach your hair every few months otherwise will look horrible when the roots start growing. If your boyfriend do not happy with your natural hair, I think you should ditch him - before you get older and he will leave you for young blond girl half your age.
You can go online to all the hair coloring companies and take a hair color test. They send you the results and you can see if you like the change before you die your hair . I agree that you should color your hair only if its something that you want to do, not what some boyfriend wants !
well, ur boyfriend should be ready to accept u as u are if he really loves u. If he thinks dying ur hair blonde is cool then e might be blown off his feet when he sets eyes on a real blonde who posses ur features.Anyways u can go ahead since i see black women in blonde and its cool.U only ve a tanned skin so there is no problem. :)
I like brunettes better.
I would think pale would go better with blonde though. What looks bad is when your bottom 3 inches are dark and the rest is blonde.
There's nothing wrong with doing something for your bf/gf.
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