Should I be a stripper?
A girl I recently met through a friend told me that she can get me a job as an exotic dancer. She says that I will make very good money which I badly need. The club has sort of a bad reputation and they show everything. Should I do it or not?
Answers:
Depends on how you think you will feel about the decision years down the road. How do you think this might affect future relationships if your boyfriend found out what you did. Are you planning on having children some day? How would you feel if they found out and imagine how they would feel about it.
The decision is completely up to you. But also try to think further down the road. There are other ways of getting money. I don't know how bad your situation is but there are always places to turn. Good luck.
GO ALONG AND HAVE A LOOK WITH A FRIEND AND SEE IF YOU THINK YOU COULD DO IT , AND TALK TO SOME OF THE GIRL'S
hell ya if you are hot .. ill tip ya
Don't go to that club, try a better class of lap dancing establishment and work up from there.
NO!! Keep your dignity!
no my friend did it and only got £20 a night
no you could live to regret it
If you want to behave like a stank ho then go for it. Why not get a normal decent job. Not 1 you will have to lie about when you finally realise you have taken the easy route. Have some decency for gods sake.
NO - Preserve your self-respect, if you don't nobody else will.
if that is what you want to do
GO FOR IT !
If I had the figure I would!
The decision to do it is down to you. Go along and check the place out..if it has a bad reputation then I can understand why you would not want to be associated with it.
Listen to the song from Jerry Springer the Opera.'I just wanna f*cking dance!'
i would like to see you stripping
I dunno.
I have never met anyone who stripped who was happy about it afterwards.
Perhaps you should talk to some dancers yourself and see what they have to say.
How bad of a rep? are the dancers getting hurt? If your safe and OK with the job do it its very good money
It all depeds on what you look like :-).
NO!! wheres your sense of confidence?? you get a waaaaay better job than that!
if you like old sweaty, smelly men just go down to your local retirement home and give someone your company. At least this way you'll be giving back to the community.
NO! become a stripper and your money wont come from dancing it will come from the extra curricular activities. It is not all it is cracked up to be.
Only if you're hot enough. Just kidding. I wouldn't if I were you. There isn't enough money in the world to take away my diginity like that. Especially a place that you say already has a bad reputation. Is that the kind of person you really want to be?
If you have to ask the question, you already know the answer.
Good luck with whatever you do.
No, not if it has a bad name, could be dangerous. Im sure you can get money some other way. there are far more reputable strip clubs that make sure the girls arnt pestered or touched by the clients. if you feel comfortable with doing that then why take second best?
think is good idea ,would kill to do that job as long as u get free prettty underwear , ilove to wear pretty underwear to b paid for it is a dream job!
If you are that hesitant about it, then what do you think you ought to not do.?
Yes! Get 'em off!
that is not the only way to get money but its one of the fastest but if u do decide to do it don't get hooked
If the dummies are stupid enough to pay to look at you, go ahead. They are just boobs and bush. Make the good money but don't get sucked into the darker side of this business, (drugs, prostitution, lap dancing) Have fun taking the suckers money!
I spent 5 years in the Marines and spent alot of time in strip joints. What I can tell you from being friends with the girls is that there is a huge amount of drug usage. Odds are you will be treated extremely poorly by the owner of the club. Nasty guys that you would never give the time of day will be filling you up and you'll have to dance for them. You'll be constantly offered money for sex and you'll be tempted. Once you start making that kind of money, you'll have a very hard time walking away and getting a normal job. You'll end up old and stripping and hating your life.not to mention the impact it will have on your family or future family.
Hope this helps.
no you shouldn't, keep your self respect, plus half those guys are pervs, and the other half are jerks
Personally, i think no. Don't do it unless you're really prepared to strip plus considering the club has a sort of bad reputation, I definitely would say no. They're a lot better jobs out there, though some may not be a high-paying one but it's still decent and you'll be safer. Anyway, it's up to you to decide. Take care :)
why lower your self? why would you want dirty old men all over you? its people like you who cause marriage break ups get a proper life and proper job or before you know it you will be on all the hard drugs aswell if your not already on them.
I reckon you can make excellent money in clubs that don't have bad reputations if you're happy to be a stripper. I guess you'd need to have thick skin though.
Here's a good one I saw the other night, as part of the Edinburgh Festival:
Girl with looooong hair in beautiful ringlets, and a sparkly dress
Stripper music, the guys in the crowd go wild and start shouting
(I behaved myself of course)
The clothes started coming off
And then the bra is unclipped. and at that very moment she also pulls off her entire hair - turns out its a wig and she's a baldy. She swings both bra and hair around above her head. The boys in the crowd stop shouting.
Then, topless and bald, she wanders about and flirts for a while. My friend (lesbian) got a snog. Then she starts getting dressed again - different clothes. Mannerisms change, the music changes. By the time she's dressed, she's a man - a hard, strutting, butch, no messin' man.
Excellent way to weird the hell out of a bunch of tight-assed rednecks. I loved it.
Would have enjoyed an ordinary stripper as well, though; shame, that.
Sounds like you're not sure. Go along and have a look first. If you need the money that badly surely there are some clubs who treat strippers decently you could go and do it in!
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Answers:
Depends on how you think you will feel about the decision years down the road. How do you think this might affect future relationships if your boyfriend found out what you did. Are you planning on having children some day? How would you feel if they found out and imagine how they would feel about it.
The decision is completely up to you. But also try to think further down the road. There are other ways of getting money. I don't know how bad your situation is but there are always places to turn. Good luck.
GO ALONG AND HAVE A LOOK WITH A FRIEND AND SEE IF YOU THINK YOU COULD DO IT , AND TALK TO SOME OF THE GIRL'S
hell ya if you are hot .. ill tip ya
Don't go to that club, try a better class of lap dancing establishment and work up from there.
NO!! Keep your dignity!
no my friend did it and only got £20 a night
no you could live to regret it
If you want to behave like a stank ho then go for it. Why not get a normal decent job. Not 1 you will have to lie about when you finally realise you have taken the easy route. Have some decency for gods sake.
NO - Preserve your self-respect, if you don't nobody else will.
if that is what you want to do
GO FOR IT !
If I had the figure I would!
The decision to do it is down to you. Go along and check the place out..if it has a bad reputation then I can understand why you would not want to be associated with it.
Listen to the song from Jerry Springer the Opera.'I just wanna f*cking dance!'
i would like to see you stripping
I dunno.
I have never met anyone who stripped who was happy about it afterwards.
Perhaps you should talk to some dancers yourself and see what they have to say.
How bad of a rep? are the dancers getting hurt? If your safe and OK with the job do it its very good money
It all depeds on what you look like :-).
NO!! wheres your sense of confidence?? you get a waaaaay better job than that!
if you like old sweaty, smelly men just go down to your local retirement home and give someone your company. At least this way you'll be giving back to the community.
NO! become a stripper and your money wont come from dancing it will come from the extra curricular activities. It is not all it is cracked up to be.
Only if you're hot enough. Just kidding. I wouldn't if I were you. There isn't enough money in the world to take away my diginity like that. Especially a place that you say already has a bad reputation. Is that the kind of person you really want to be?
If you have to ask the question, you already know the answer.
Good luck with whatever you do.
No, not if it has a bad name, could be dangerous. Im sure you can get money some other way. there are far more reputable strip clubs that make sure the girls arnt pestered or touched by the clients. if you feel comfortable with doing that then why take second best?
think is good idea ,would kill to do that job as long as u get free prettty underwear , ilove to wear pretty underwear to b paid for it is a dream job!
If you are that hesitant about it, then what do you think you ought to not do.?
Yes! Get 'em off!
that is not the only way to get money but its one of the fastest but if u do decide to do it don't get hooked
If the dummies are stupid enough to pay to look at you, go ahead. They are just boobs and bush. Make the good money but don't get sucked into the darker side of this business, (drugs, prostitution, lap dancing) Have fun taking the suckers money!
I spent 5 years in the Marines and spent alot of time in strip joints. What I can tell you from being friends with the girls is that there is a huge amount of drug usage. Odds are you will be treated extremely poorly by the owner of the club. Nasty guys that you would never give the time of day will be filling you up and you'll have to dance for them. You'll be constantly offered money for sex and you'll be tempted. Once you start making that kind of money, you'll have a very hard time walking away and getting a normal job. You'll end up old and stripping and hating your life.not to mention the impact it will have on your family or future family.
Hope this helps.
no you shouldn't, keep your self respect, plus half those guys are pervs, and the other half are jerks
Personally, i think no. Don't do it unless you're really prepared to strip plus considering the club has a sort of bad reputation, I definitely would say no. They're a lot better jobs out there, though some may not be a high-paying one but it's still decent and you'll be safer. Anyway, it's up to you to decide. Take care :)
why lower your self? why would you want dirty old men all over you? its people like you who cause marriage break ups get a proper life and proper job or before you know it you will be on all the hard drugs aswell if your not already on them.
I reckon you can make excellent money in clubs that don't have bad reputations if you're happy to be a stripper. I guess you'd need to have thick skin though.
Here's a good one I saw the other night, as part of the Edinburgh Festival:
Girl with looooong hair in beautiful ringlets, and a sparkly dress
Stripper music, the guys in the crowd go wild and start shouting
(I behaved myself of course)
The clothes started coming off
And then the bra is unclipped. and at that very moment she also pulls off her entire hair - turns out its a wig and she's a baldy. She swings both bra and hair around above her head. The boys in the crowd stop shouting.
Then, topless and bald, she wanders about and flirts for a while. My friend (lesbian) got a snog. Then she starts getting dressed again - different clothes. Mannerisms change, the music changes. By the time she's dressed, she's a man - a hard, strutting, butch, no messin' man.
Excellent way to weird the hell out of a bunch of tight-assed rednecks. I loved it.
Would have enjoyed an ordinary stripper as well, though; shame, that.
Sounds like you're not sure. Go along and have a look first. If you need the money that badly surely there are some clubs who treat strippers decently you could go and do it in!
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