Is letting a man go on a boozy bender of a day out with his mates - a no-no?
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Let him go! So long as you allowed to go on a boozy girl day out sometime! It's gotta work both ways!
yes
stopping him is a no no,
no way get real women
Let him go.. what's the harm as long as he's safe.
its not bad once in a while, you cant keep a bird caged forever.
what is good for the goose is good for the gander.. as long as its mutual thing,, then no problem
As long as it's not an everyday occurance, why not once in a while? Besides, he's gotta live with the hangover the next day!
So long as it doesnt become a habit or a addiction, then there is no problem letting him out on the town.
Every guy needs to be out on his own with his buddies and get drunk once in a while. But if you dont let him out and about once in a while then things will start to go stale or he will get very irritating around the house. I speak from experience.
He needs his freedom (even if it is getting boozed up once in a while with "the guys")
If he likes to drink, he will drink. I have been sober a long time, but when I drank, no one would stop me.
He just out having a good time
first of all how is it that your "letting" him go. do u control all of his actions. he needs to ask permission to go? can he not do what he wants he needs you to let him go. no wonder he needs to go drink all day. if i was him i would go drink and never return.
The only no-no is even asking this question. How would you like it if you're man was on here asking "Is letting her go shopping for pixie dust and flying brooms a no-no?"
its not very smart. but how do you stop him without him getting agro
No don't stop him he will think you don't trust him, and then the rot will set in.
no, i let my boyf go off and do his thing and i do mine with my friends, if you have trust then it shouldnt be a problem, we all need our own space and time to be with our friends sometimes. and if it means getting drunk then so be it.
If you think so, than your relationship will fail. I guarntee it
Its women like you that make a man cheat! What do you own him man that pi$$ me off!!
If you stop him, you might start packing your stuff now because he probably won't want a woman that is overbearing.
men don't generally like to be told what to do.let him go
depends on if you trust the man or not, if you cant trust him then you will probally not like the idea of him going out with his friends.. but if you wanted to go out with girls how would he feel, or how would you feel if he did not let you go out with them?
If it's a very rare occasion it's perfectly fine. If this is something that happens like once a week, you might want to hang him out to dry.
Lmao.I would like to see my wife stop me goin out. Especially as i work 70 hours per week and never complain when she goes to bingo or arm wrestling classes lol
we all need our space your no no is a no no
Why would it be a nono? its a yes yes, let em have fun!
no
Oh come one . . . . Let him go have couple of beers, 10 shots, get slopy and hook up wit couple of girls :) Jk i feel bad for ur man that you even had to bring this up to Yahoo.com
Letting him go? Are you that controlling? If he's old enough to drink, he doesn't need your permission to do so.
It's fine if it's not a recurring thing. Every now and then men and women for that matter need to cut loose. As long as he isn't doing anything wrong (obviously I mean hurting people or cheating) during the event than there is no need to worry.
Personally I think it is correct behavior for a difficult world filled with restraints save for the fact that one must consider the individual's character and what he may do out on this bender and with who and to whom. If it just a boozy bender than OK but if it is to lead to all sorts of sordid behavior and the hurting of others and the said boozer in question well than hell I think the person should be careful as booze is at times a really bad trip.
Not to me. If you're truly in love you should be able to trust each other. Do you know his friends and trust them to not get him into trouble? That also helps if you're weary of letting him let loose.
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