Badly behaved children.?
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Strictness right from the start.and NO means NO! They learn quickly.
The trouble with the kids on programmes like supernanny is that their parents dont know how to parent very well and the kids rule the roost! Then when the parents cant cope with them they cry "Its not our fault". NEWSFLASH,,,Yes it IS your fault! lol
I hate children, they should be all put back from where they came from!!
we make sure the cattle prod is fully charged at all times..
I'd never let it go that far, no need for behaviour like that
My nephew behaves very badly!
But his mother does not correct him enough.
She also had him when she was 41 years old.
I think that your patience level goes down at a certain age.
I have a niece who is 4 and works less than my 2 yr old. She lies constantly won't get dress and destroyed my childhood doll house. She thinks she is the boss. I hardly see her since she is in preschool, so when you find out about how I should react tell me.
My son is 13 and while he misbehaved a little over the years he is really a little angel. he is polite and wel mannered and does not tantrum.I don't know why some kids are such brats..I was a little terror myself as a kid.
i have 2 girls 12 & 14 i love them very much but i dont like them all the time but no they never play me up like that
i have a young son who behaves quite badly at the moment but that is because he has severe learning problems,i take everyday as it comes,some are good some are bad but ive just learnt to cope with it i think you have to
well, do what i did! just lock-em-up and throw away the key. i recommed a nice dark place, such as an attic or a dark damp dirty basement. i did this and my kids are now angel's. i only let them out to go to school. and i only fed them fish heads-o and some dog food. now i've only done this like 4 times but it's worth it! bart and hugo are the best kids on the block! PS-dont call child protective sevices on me
First of all, I would never let it get that far. I truly believe that some of these must be made up.who in their right mind would allow a 4 yr old to call his parents nasty names and then have the nerve to call a show that plays on national television to get help in raising their own children. I do watch the show and some times in amazement.it just baffles me. My children aren't perfect but I do get a lot of complements on how well they are behaved.even my 4 yr old foster child who has only been with us less than a year!
my youngest child is like that (aged 11) i was told by a psychologist that is was my fault cos sometimes she may not want to brush her teeth, make her bed, get dressed for school and i should just leave her alone instead of making her do these things. aaagggghhhhh. don't think he lived in the real world.
truthfully - i couldn't cope if it wasn't for my husband. i have rheumatoid arthritis and am not very strong so if my youngest doesn't want to tidy her shoes away she will throw them at me when she is asked to do this. she knows i cant hold her tight and contain her anger - so she gets more and more out of control. i have tried ingnoring the behaviour and the shoes and stuff. result. she got more and more out of control over the weeks just to get my attention. i couldn't stand the bruises anymore. have recently been to my gp and asked for a different psychologist - this time to see my daughter. maybe they can teach her anger management or something.
on the other hand she can be brilliant for weeks at a time. the other day i was hanging out washing when the phone rang. by the time i had finished on the phone she had finished hanging the washing and started to make me a cup of tea. see what i mean. brilliant.
no my kids do get on my nerves sometimes but they have never acted like the kids on those programmes.
My kids have never been allowed to be that horrible.
My neice threw a tantrum in the supermarket so my sister threw a louder tantrum as well (just like the tv advert).
Apparently it worked a treat!
My daughter has a four yr. old boy who does not behave in public places, she had talked to his Doctor about it and he says she has to put up with her son until he is eight yrs. old because he has ADHD which is attention dificit hyperarctivity disorder.When my grandson is in his best behavior,he can be a very lovable little boy, and if you asked him that why he does not behave when they take him out, he tells you that he does not want to behave that way, but he can not help it.My daughter knows that sometimes people stare at them but, she says she does not care what they think,since her Doctor told her to ignore the people that are ready to point their finger at them, that she is not going to explain to total strangers about her son's condition.
Sorry ,it may not be politically correct,but spare the rod spoil the child.i dont mean beat them up ,but a few sharp smacks across that little brats legs each time she had a tantrum would have soon put a stop to that,myself and my brother both were disciplened,in that way with no obvious effect,and i treated my kids the same way,ones now a policeman upholding the law,and the other is a teacher,,kids need something to fear,i respected my parents as i got older,and realised that had they not got a grip on me early in life i would have probably gone off the rails.
Children need discipline, no matter what form of it you choose, there should be some form and it should be consistent. I have 3 girls 4,8 and 14. They are well disciplined. I also have 2 nieces 6 & 8 and a nephew 14. THey are not well disciplined. My sister chose to spare the rod and now she is paying for it. They don't do what she says although the little ones do well in school the oldest doesn't and he has no discipline at all until he comes to my house. I don't tolerate it, he is going to respect me and everyone else he has contact with. They know Auntie don't play.
Well, when my sweet little angels are bad I pack em up in the nice big SUV, speed as fast as I can to the ghetto and then drop them off at the crack den in the middle of the projects. Trust me, it works every time. They're really good for the next three months. It's also funny dropping them off and watching them start running as fast as possible away from girls named Marquashay and Bunquisha and their babies' daddies. I should record all of it and send it in to America's Funniest Home Videos.
no i agree with you, the children in these programs have been let down badly by their parents, what are they thinking off they are in the making of little hooligans,
I would smack them. In this day and age, I know it isn't politically correct, but I watched Super Nanny last night too. It is very bad for me, I think. I steam and fume away. I cannot believe that people allow their children to rule their lives like that. Although I don't smack my children often - about once a year, if that - they know I can and will.
That mother sat and cried and tried to control her child by shouting. It was so depressing. I'm sure she was a lovely lady but really, the first time my child bit/hit/scratched me would be the last.
And perhaps that is the difference. If your children know what is acceptable and that you will not tolerate bad behaviour, they don't do it.
BTW I do believe smacking is the easy option. It takes more understanding and patience than I have to keep putting a child in a "reflection" room. Maybe we need a degree in childcare before we have babies.
There are no bad children, just bad parents.when they are young I mean :0
I don't really understand how parents can allow their children to be so bold.
We can only but blame the parents.
My son is well behaved polite and a very good kid.
It doesn't take alot of work to raise good children but it does mean that you have to offer time that you would have otherwise used for yourself.
These are the sacrifices of being a parent for some people but if I am honest its more of a pleasure for me than anything else.
I can say that I am proud of myself and my partner and am therefore proud of my son.
Unfortunately for the children all parents don't take their role seriously enough.
Having brought up two girls who have thank goodness grown up to be reasonably well adjusted. I watch this programme facinated, I look into their eyes, they are desperately unhappy children! Their expression really do change over the period that she works with them. Its quite scary, that possibly a generation of children who do not have any consequence so know no boundaries! Parents, teachers and police cannot TOUCH them, and more scary, these children really KNOW this!
Not sure where they find these families! but you need rules for control and safety .When my 4 or 6yrs old play up I just focus and stay in control,show the love but definately watch that line!
Having that( You dare )look or the voice can be useful too!
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