My 13 year old son smashed a class mates head through a window because he wouldn't give him some money!?
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I think this is more than one parent can handle. He needs serious therapy and may need to go to a school that specializes in behavior disorders. You should be able to find several in your state, have a talk with your sons guidance counselor and see what they recommend as far as schools, therapy, and what you can do at home.
send him to boot camp =] ha
Keep him inside for a while and remove his items until he starts behaving.
Is something happening that he does this is he being provoked ,have a talk with him and see if there isnt an underlying reason.
Put him a juvenile detention center.
Lock him in a room for 2 weeks.
U must be so proud of yr little darlng !
Smack him in the facxe & say thats enough of your sh!t you horrible little b astard.
hurt him where it hurts ground him for the rest of the holidays-if you cant control him speak to social services and see if they can
let him take the consequences of his actions and have him spend some time in confinement before he really hurts somebody
Turn him in he needed a father to kick his *** and set him straight.
Send him to some sort of boot camp.
This child is out of control and it is unlikely since it has gone this far that you can regain control unfortunately so it is time to intervene with outside help. Contact your local mental health providers. Follow through with their advise. Read a book on tough love, too.
wow..
i think you should make him take yoga haha
or take him to a phsycologist.or something.
or..maby bootcamp would work lol
He's a little coo coo, I can tell you that. He needs therapy and attention.
have you tried grounding his butt have you tried taking his games/music things he enjoys? have you taken him to the the jail/prison for a trip show him where he is going to end up unless he straightens his butt up . good luck
well If he has been in trouble with the law before you can try to get him into a center for boys or boot camp because if he is 13 and acting like that he need a eye opener because it will just get worse and you as a parent need to put fear in him so he can be scared because he will not act all big and bad then. And this can lead to drugs and not going to school you need to do something now because if you don't it is going to get worse. good luck and stay strong
Wow you really have your hands full. Please do not strike your son, if he is that violent with others he may be with you. I would start with asking the police if they know of any help available and then the school system and children's services. Good luck, I know you love your son very much and this must be very hard on you.
take away all privelages punish him ground him and if none of that works humiliate him and send him to boot camp or on rikki lake lol
definate anger issues you need to get professional help NOW.
is there a negative influence (where did he learn this behavior - was he abused by you or your spouse or an older sibling- is their violence in the home?)
seriously this will not end up anywhere good unless you do something NOW to fix it.. headbutting a girl is a sure sign of things to come, as is the other instance you mentioned..
please unless you want to create a potential monster GET HELP FOR HIM NOW - PROFESSIONAL HELP!!
YOU CANNOT DO IT YOURSELF this is big big big - dont ingore the warning signs
tough love, send him to a juvenille detention centre or maybe bad lads army or better yet (if ya have £20 thou,) to a boot camp.
best of luck to ya all
do what ever you need to do just don't let this behaviour carry on. I know kids have a mind of there own and "let" is not always help full no one would let there kid do these things. Try taking every thing out of his room apart from the mattress and lock him in. some body one day will beat him back and he will lose
Boot Cam or takeaway he's things!! (BOTH)
Send him to a juvenile detention center when the cops are called next that way he learns that you wont tolerate his behavior. by you not doing anything about his behavior he just assumes you dont care what he does and he will keep on. Lock him up a few times and he will see how good he had it on the outside.
put his butt in an rotc boot camp. first time give him a warning, second time start actin crazy sayin if he don't stop somethin bad will happen, third time have is bag packed and tell him that he's goin to rotc boot camp for about a month. thats what i would seriously do.
Its time to stop blaming and start acting.
Grounding and punishing only delay the inevitable, he'll act up again. Violence against him will only reinforce his behaviour as acceptable.
Let's look at what is triggering his behaviour, any major events in his life happen? Changes, recent death or loss of someone close?
After trying to deal with his emotional issue which may entail bringing in a counsellor- perhaps you might want to review his diet.
Yes- his food intake can have a profound influence on his behaviour.
Please visit www.feingold.org for more information.
Many blessings and good health to you and your family.
Get the belt out and teach him that when it comes to hurting others and no respect, 2 can play that game. I would not tolerate it. If he threatens you, smack him one, and carry on til he realises who the boss is. All this providing there are no underlying factors for this unacceptable behaviour.
set a better example than the racist abusive rubbish you've been putting on here.
No wonder your son is acting the way he does I just read you answers and questions and what kind of roll model are you to that child? You need to seek help before you can help him..Children lean what they see and hear so its not his fault
Before you consider sending him off to a 'boot camp' or 'behivaior camp' I suggest you read up on such place, as well as on the tough love mumbo-jumbo. A lot of that has turned out to be a very, very bad idea, as shown by people who are actually more violent because of these places. They can also mentally unbalance someone that young more so than he is already.
If you want to seek professional help find a psychologist and try to set a good example. If he's grown up in an environment that promotes violence, that will be how he acts when he's older.
give the bastard a beating with the buckle of your belt. Worked for my kid. Harsh but fair
get him locked up
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