I love my boyfriend im havein his baby but im sure he has still got feelings 4 his ex and has a kid with her?
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ooo girl im in the EXACT situation. im having his baby but i believe the same thing. Okay Do what i do,
don't worry. Trust him. he loves you. Espically enough to being having a child with him. how does he treat his kid with her? how long were they together? the best thing i can tell you is not to worry. he thinks you are beautiful and he wants to be with you NOT HER of he would be with her! sit down and talk to him about it. Did they just break up not to long ago? Tell him how you feel. Tell him that it makes you mad/jealous/scared and make him understand that you will be here for him no matter what and that you love him. good luck
sounds like you picked out a real winner!
leave it alone. he will always have feelings for her, they have a kid together. but he has chosen to be with you not her. so just leave it alone or you will end up pushing him away, and you will lose him.. love him, trust him, and enjoy your baby
go with your instincts
Leave it alone, he is with you now that should tell you something, he is bound to have feelings for his child he had with her otherwise he wouldn't be human.
take it from me hun my boyfriend has two kids with his ex and we have one together,its normal to have feeling for ur ex be they good or bad he had a history with her they had kids together,u just cant turn off feelings like a tap, i suggest talking to him to reasure urself u shouldnt be getting stressed if ur pregnant.
Id say leave it alone. You're having a baby enjoy it. I cant help sadly, i'm what you would call the 'ex with the kid' my sons dad is married now with a new baby and he still loves me. I think no matter what he always will, u dont chose to have a kid with anyone, but hes with you now and you're having a babay, enjoy it, he'd not be there if he didnt want you.x
An ex is exactly what it says on the tin...AN EX. He is with you, of course he will have feelings for her but just memories not present. Congrats on the coming baby by the way. Andy
Why would you fool around with, let alone get pregnant by, a man who has a child with another woman. The laws will view your children as secondary, as regards child support, estates, etc.
bet you couldnt wait to get pregant,now your boyfriend willhave to find another girl to have sex with,if his ex aint willing,bet you love it when he vist the kids{give the ex a good seeing to} wont be long before he dumps you and runs off with your best mate,class act the pair of you.{hope he works hard all that child support to pay}and dont forget to vote him boyfriend of the year
Force him to marry you as soon as possible and then he won't have feelings in that girl.
shouldn't you thought of this before getting pregnant, your showing vast amounts of stupidity getting pregnant to someone you don't trust..don't try and say it was an accident, an accident is knocking a cup off the table. it isn't having unprotected sex to get pregnant to try and keep a man that has got to show some responsibility for an existing child that will always be his child your child should not be a replacement for his child from a previous relationship which sounds exactly like what you've tried to do, it will be your own fault if he leaves you with a baby as well because you didn't prevent it yourself from getting pregnant with relatively simple precautions eg the morning after pill..
well yea go with your instincts
that's why he is with you now she is a ex and i don't suppose he has feeling for her now only as his child's mother and possible stayed good friends for the sake of their child. If he haden,t of loved or wanted to be with you especially you having his baby he would have left by now.He loves you and your unborn child you only have to look to the future and be happy good luck
I know whay your going though hun my boyfriend has a child by his ex and i had thoughts he might still have feelings for her so i asked him without seeming un trustful of him. Tell him you have thoughts he stills likes here & he will tell you. Don't be worried of scared to ask you need to know.
I'm sorry, but things do not look good for you. Has he even offered to marry you. If not, better plan on raising this baby alone. If he didn't stick around for the first one, he's not going to stick around for you either. Good Luck
confront him and ask for the honest truth-even if it hurts you.Then depending on his answer either trust him or leave him.Your baby and your health are the most important things right now, get this sorted before your child is born and it gets even more complicated.Good luck.
seems like your boyfriend is developing a pattern. who's next? you should have married the man before having his baby. the man needs to grow up and make a commitment to you. how sure are you that he isn't going to leave you like his ex?
GIRLLLLL why did you do it !
You shouldn't be having his baby while it's "boyfriend" and not "husband". He wasn't commited for the long haul for his first baby, he isn't commited to you, either.
I think he always will have some sort of feelings for his ex cos they have a child together and are bonded in a way because of that,its what my ex told me.If he didn`t want to be with you then he wouldn`t be there would he?Speak to him and let him know how your feeling and hopefully he`ll put your mind at rest,xx
THAT IS A QUESTION YOU SHOULD HAVE ASKED BEFORE YOU GOT PREGNANT! IF YOU THOUGHT HE STILL HAD FEELINGS FOR HER THAN YOU SHOULD HAVE LEFT HIM ALONE!
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