19 year old, got a question for parents?
Would you let her stay the night round his house after 7 weeks of dating?
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Well i think she`s all the woman she`ll ever be,she`s not a kid anymore,she`s 18 and it`s not really upto the parents to decide is it?As for the age difference it`s only a number after all and at 18 she`s probably not ready to settle down anyway and the more you tell her not to do something the more she`ll want to do it anyway.
If I had a kid and she were eighteen, I would mind my own business, unless her boyfriend needed to have the crap beat out of him.
im not a parent, but my answer if it were my daugher. no freaking way.
Isn't there something wrong with a 30yr old man dating an 18 yr old?
Its not so much the age gap but the ages of the girl at 18! Perhaps if she was 25 and he was 37 this would be a much different story.
Yes w/ birth control
My 18 year old daughter can do what ever she wants.. she is 18 and should know what is right and wrong..
That would have to be HER Choice. She would have to be aware of the dangers. Pregnancy, AIDS/HIV, etc.
Erm no way - that is way to old and nearer the parents age!
Just wouldnt be happy with my little girl seeing a guy that much older.
Honestly, when they're 18 they are adults and can make their own decisions. If they live with me I will expect the common courtesy of letting me know if they will be home that night,
i am a parent, and not too far away from having a teen
I think that 30-year old man is too old (or should we say "mature") for the 18-year old girl. I don't have a daughter, but sons. But if I had one. No. I would not let her go out with him, let alone spend a night at his house.
I rather have them around my house then they fool around somewhere else.
You will never prevent them from doing what they want, so why not let him stay.
The better I know that guy the better for the daughter.
Well, if she is 18 she is an adult, so she would not need my permission. I would stay out of it unless I suspected he was abusive.
You dont need to ask what people on her think , do what your heart tells you . You will know if it feels right or wrong .Go for it and good luck, dont listen to others because its not them that might regret no going for it .
No i wouldnt mind.
But only if i had a daughter.
I tkink u r facing this situation right now.
Well love is a personal choice. u have the right to love the person u like. It may be anyone. Age comes next. i wouldnt mind dating a woman double my age if i like her.
sorry but there already doing it,the guys got a car and appartment,all she wants is permisson to have a night of sex with no time limits,just make sure she on the pill,maybe she find someone her own age soon
i don't really see anything wrong, i am 29 and would love to date a 18 year old girl again!
Well wot can parents do if 18 or older,but I would hope that my Daughter had been brought up to respect herself and no when something is a wrong choice in life! good luck!
just do the right thing
No, no i wouldn't!
i would be concerned that a 30 year old guy was interested in an 18 year old girl - he must be sick!
i'm not a parent but i am 31 myself and although i remember feeling very grown up at 18 it wasn't until i got older that i realised how immature 18 year old are. (i dont mean to patronise you but it is true)
i also went out with a guy in his 30''s old when i was 18 and it made me feel very grown up etc but the truth was he was getting a kick out of having such a young girl and he used AND abused me - BE CAREFUL!
My advice is don't be in too much of a hurry to grow up, find a lad of your own age and experiment together.. it's fun!
I can totally understand your concern - but 18 is 18 after all. Adult in other words.
If they're sleeping together they are going to do so whether or not you agree to it. That sort of thing will find away.
The age gap is quite large - but not alarmingly so, in my opinion. At her age, I was seeing someone of 44!
It's great that the two of you are being open about things at least.
Yes I would although I would prefer her not to have a boyfriend so much older than her. I will have to accept though that she is 18 and old enough to make her own decisions and mistakes (if they occur).
If I saw that my daughter was making decisions that weren't good for her, yeah, I would probably have to step up. I have read some of your questions and there is something wrong with a 31 yr old man who clubs on the weekends and claims to be a boyfriend to a 19 yr old. You are just beginning your "free" life, it probably isnt in your best intrest to start it with a 31 yr old. Especially a 31yr old who has obvious issues of his own. Don't get caught up in the turmoil he has created for himself. He does not sound like the ideal mate. You have to ask yourself, why is he 31yrs old and hasn't found a suitable mate yet. I'm sure he has given you several excuses but do you honestly believe him.
You parents probably sense what type of man he is, trust them, they have gotten you this far safely. It is probably hard for them to even let you date him.
I guess the answer to your question would be NO WAY!!
no
In my opinion, 12 years is rather great as an age gap, and given the rather young girl, plus the fact that a 30 year old man is undoubtedly going to expect sex, I would be unhappy with her spending the night with him.
A lot depends on those involved, of course, and the situation must be judged on the merits of the individuals. How commited do they seem, is she relatively mature, will they use protection reliably, what is his history, for exapmle
Alan, single parent of two girls in this age range.
Not in my house!
If they want to play house, show me a marriage certificate.
She is 18 and should be old enough to make decisions like that for herself.If she feels it is what she wants, then let her.
Just tell her to be responsible(contraception)
I would say many men in their 30's or 40's would fancy having a 18 year old in their bed !
I would let my daughter take her decision if shes 18, but also give her a word of advise to be careful what she is getting into
I am not against lovers who have age gap, but the worlds nasty out there and there are many b*st^rds about so my advise BE CAREFUL ..
trust that there is a man out there for you, 'the one' the right person for you to spend your life with .
Are you done with your studies, your first priority goes towards education.
And look at the age difference its huge. Is there shortage of younger ppl.
Infatuation !1child stay away
Im not a parent but if i was HELL NO.
NO NO NO not after only 7 weeks, you 19yrs old your heart rules your head and you need to get to know this person alot better before going there.This man is 31yrs old and should not be in a rush so he will wait if he love you. You have a lot to learn so take your time be sure he is a genuine person and not some prev only after one thing PLEASE BE CARE FULL I hope he is o.k and that you find your knight in shining arm .
as she is an adult she is able to make up her own mind so i would but i would just remind her that she is an adult and has to make responsibility for anything that might happen as a consequence
You need to remember that you still live in their house, you need to respect them, remember how would you feel knowing you little girl was going to you know. it's just inapproiate if you want that to happen i think you need to find an apartment for your self.
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