I really wanted a girl...?
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I wish those people wouldn't answer if all they are going to say is that you should just want the baby healthy. DUH!!! Of course we all want that but normally we have questions that we want answers to _so PEOPLE just answer the question.
I was pregnant for the third time and really wanting a girl since my other 2 were boys. I had been pregnant earlier which I had lost the baby. I knew in my heart that the baby we lost was a girl. My husband and I went to get our routine ulrasound for this pregnancy and found out it was a boy. I started crying. I couldn't help myself. This was my husbands first child and he wanted a girl so bad. I was disappointed but by the time he was born I was used to the idea, and now I wouldn't trade him for anything.
My little boy gave us all a show on His ultrasound too! We paid to get 3-D ulrasound a few months after the first one, and my husband, myself and the ultrasound tech were all laughing because of his show, if you know what I mean! LIVE,LAUGH, and LOVE!!
Yes and no, but I think when he is born, you will love him more than anything else in the world, and you never know, the next time, you may have a girl, and she will have her big brother to look after her as she grows up. :0)
At least you wont have to worry about them coming home at 13 telling you they're pregnant.
is the baby healthy?
isn't that the main thing?
no its not wrong!
not at all, but i,m sure your son will be loved just the same, you wait and see.
No you're not wrong to be a little disappointed, but I guarantee you that when you first see his little squidgy face, having huffed and puffed, you will fall in love with him instantly! You can have a girl next time!
You might have a girl the next time..My mum had 8 boys before she finally had me but she loved us all exactly the same!
he still might be a girl. I was. LOL
I had a girl first and thought nothing could be as great as this. My second child was a boy and I am so glad I had one of each. I love my children equally, but my son is my little sweetheart. Mamas boy really means exactlly that. You will be surprised at that attachment you will form with your boy. It really is amazing!!
Are u going to ill treat the baby.?
you should be happy that your baby is healthy and well ! many people would love to be able to have children and cannot , you should be happy whatever the outcome x
Not at all , But you know deep down that no matter what the baby was , you would love them to death ! Congrats !
Of course not. You cant help your feelings. You will get used to the idea though and in the end love your little boy so much that you will realise you are so glad he was a boy!
Dont feel guilty. Just give yourself time to adjust.
xoxoxo
When i was pregnant with my first one i really wanted a boy but i got a girl. I was disappointed for about a day, but now i cant imagine being without my girl.
PS Due the second one any day now..still dont know what im having!
I have 4 Girls ..during an ultrasound for the 4th I offered my OB a million dollars if he could find a penis. Of course it was another girl and I cried like a baby. She is now 20 months and I couldn't be happier. She is a doll. Good luck w/ the new baby.
yes it's ok to feel disappointed but it is healthy and that's all that maters :-)
I don't think so, I really want a girl too. I don't find out for awhile but I know I will be a little disappointed if it is a boy. I feel like I would know how to raise a girl better than a boy. There is a reason for everything though, hope he comes out healthy. I am sure he will still look cute in girl's clothes for the first few months, lol.
Not at all. Please don't worry, I felt the same when I had my scan last time around. I now love my little boy to bits. Although I am hoping for a girl this time.!
It's not your fault if that is how you feel and you don't need to feel guilty about it. I think if you were considering drowning him at birth that would be a different matter..; ) We can't help our feelings only our actions. Maybe try to figure why you so wanted a girl? Might help feel more justified if you understand your motives.
Best wishes hun. Lots of people will understand.
Absolutely not the same thing happened to me. I was very upset but what can you do it is still your child. You will come around and love your child with all your heart. Hang in there, things will work out in the end.
Good Luck and congratulations on your baby boy.
Not really but I am sure you will love him regardless when he is born.by the way mate, you say he's well endowed, you sure you're not looking at his umbilical cord! ;p
I've often thougth about this, as I would really like a girl too, I think I would be disappointed, but then I remember the lovely caring boys I've met (I work with children) and I think I would love to be a paretn to any one of them, and in my old age it will be lovely to have a handsome strong son who can come home and do my jobs for me.
I'm sure you'll be a lovely mother, if your worrying about it, it only means you're more aware to ensure your feelings are dealt with in a way that won't negatively affect the baby.
Good luck!
no its not but just remeber you have a beautiful healthy baby boy every mum wants a girl to dress in pretty clothes but youll get other the inital disapointment and get ready for the birth of your child.
I think every woman wants a girl to dress in pretty dresses. I think that sometimes our bodies think that we are carrying a sex that we want! (Hormones!), I think that you will love your little boy and yes you do feel disappointed but this is normal. Why don't you nip out and buy a blue baby grow and your love will grow for your little boy. Congratulations.
Sorry mis-read the question Its quite normal for any man to want a daughter after all little girls are daddies girls I know mine are.
no, i think you have a right to be dissapointed. Not saying that it's right to think that but you always wish you have a certain sex baby. I want a boy but no doubt with my luck i'll have a girl. No matter what sex your babay is you will love it no matter what.
No, when the little man is here, you will adore him! Trust me!
no it's not wrong to be disapointed same thing happend to my wife but we had a girl she wanted a boy and that was 10 years ago we have spent the last 10 years enjoying our daughter her smile her laugh and the way she looks at us when she tells us she loves us you just wait the best is yet to come . when he is born you will realize that he is just what you needed in your life and you will not be able to imagine your life without him
It's not wrong, just don't dwell on your disappointment too long. Becoming a parent to a boy OR girl is amazing.
This same thing happened to a friend of mine, she was sad for a day or two, then she was ecstatic about her son. :)
Is this your first child? I already had a little girl aged 13 months when my second child came along and when I had the scan which showed he was a boy I too felt a certain degree of disappointment. Having already had a perferct little girl I wanted another but the little boy that I did get is perfect too. No matter what the sex so long as they are happy and healthy, and you are too, that is all that matters.
no it is not wrong to be a lil disappointed but when the bay is born you wil be happy with what you got. my husband wanted a boy first and we got a girl he was disappointed but now she is a majopr daddys girl. your feelings will change once he is here. congrats
i was just the same, i was the only girl in my whole family for 30+ years and was desperate for a girl and was sure i would get one but i got 3 boys, when i had my san for #3 i asked what it was so that i didnt get my hopes up, but right up to the birth i was still hopeful- he is 10 now and he is still my baby, he lights up the room-boys are ery affectionate, but i still didnt get y little girl-dont worry, he`ll be welcome when he gets here!
I guess it is not wrong to have that feeling as this feeling is part of the human. It doesn't mean that you're not going to love your boy as much as if he has been a girl. Don't worry
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