Thanks for all your support!?

that last response really touched me. thank u so much. i'm glad i'm no the only one who has the problem! you do get used to it but the tiredness catches up on you and it really throws you. like one of you said, other mothers have it worse with their babies up all nite and i really feel for them. my daughter is really good going up to bed, she's in bed by 7 and i dont cuddle her up or anything. we have cuddles and songs downstairs then i go up, put her in her cot and leave the room and she goes to off sleep.when i go into her in the nite i don't pick her up or fuss her,i tuck her up and just make sure she goes off to sleep but like you all say,it so hard to leave her cry. its heart breaking esp when she's calling 'muuuum'!that really creases me!

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Kimmy, the greatest joy is to love your child, not get attached with her. When she cries and you respond, you respond not because you love her, but because you respond. Love without attachment teaches you to do the right thing, NOT NICE THINGS. Its a joy to see someone you love grow beyond you. Its a joy to see your loved one take flight, never to come back again... Only if you know what love is...
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That could be a reason she is getting up in the middle of the night (going to bed at 7). I know that when i go to bed too early, I always tend to wake up in the middle of the night. I really think 7PM is way too early.
Good luck! It seems like you're doing the right thing, which means you're a great mum.
Some of the responses are awfully nice or funny yes. I really like this site.
The Nanny is English and she says. take em to bed hug and kiss and an 'i love you' the first time.
Second time they get up, back to bed no hug and kiss just an I love you.
Thisrd time, back to bed silently no hug and kiss, repeat step three till morning. Of sourse you didnt say how old the kid is.
Yesits hard,but & it breaks your heart,but it has to be done,my son whos now 9,is a great sleep as i never fussed him when he woke in the nite. He might come into my bed,but thats only if hes had a nightmare & wants the reasurrance.
You are doing an excellent job,keep up the good work.

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