My wife and baby are coming are coming home tomorrow im so excited.?
my wife and baby are coming home tomorrow and i want to a have a party to celebrate my daughter coming home but do you think its too early or will they need rest!
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Having come home 3 times with new-borns, I'd suggest the following.
Try to put off as many folk as you can for tomorrow, at least. Make it your special time - just for the three of you - you will remember that forever -honest! Have a loaded camera or a digital camera with plenty of batteries.
Have some food in that your wife enjoys, some treats too. She will be really tired, spoil her as best you can, but obviously don't go over the top.
Put up as many pink balloons as possible around front door and hallway. Perhaps a wee banner 'It's a girl' or something similar.
It's a true cause for celebration - enjoy!
Many congratulations to you and your wife!!
;-)
I have just checked this question again - curious to see if the party went ahead or not.
I have found myself checking out your previous questions too. It was a bit like a soap opera with further amazing instalments! You and your wife sound like truly amazing people. I wish you all the success in the world as you bring up your two girls. I have two girls and feel blessed.
I hope the Aubrey's jaundice has already cleared up - if not, I'm sure it will soon.
Good luck to all four of you ;-)
A private party or one with friends?
You can just ask your wife if she's up for it.
The baby won't have a clue what's going on anyway.
It sounds to me that you just want to have a party, so why not have a few people over for when they arrive, and if wifey is tired, they could always leave.
Maybe Its A little early..but i dont know your family..why dont you wait a couple of days let your wife settle in with your new daughter..congratulations by the way :)
Congratulations new dad!
Your wife is probably gonna be purty tired and might not want visitors. But ask her to see if she'd be up for a little get together with family and friends.
In the meantime, just revel in your new daughter and help your missus out as much as you can. She's gonna need it!
Wait at least 2 weeks, the baby needs to rest and build up some immunity. Congrats!!
ok, seriously, your wife will need the rest and your baby is no way ready for a party! take it easy for the next few weeks, spoil your wife, do more than your fair share around the house and with the baby, and just enjoy the time that you have with them! You wouldnt believe how quickly they grow up, so just relax and enjoy! Congratulations by the way!
Yes. Delivering a baby is the most stressful and tiring thing a woman will do. I say love on her lots(mom) and tell her you are so proud of her, but wait about a week or so before you throw a party. Enjoy the baby bliss a little first. It would be a great time for you to bond with the baby while mom recooperates.
Congratulations!
I suggest you ask her first, she may be really tired and just need a few days to rest and settle in with your new baby!
I'd say don't spring a surprise on her at this point, it's the last thing I would have wanted when I came out of hospital after having mine!
Congratualations..... but ...I would wait a day or two ... and ask if she wants people round.... remember she has hormones now !! don't expect the same person to come home as the one who went to hospital!!
Just play it by ear and take it easy and if she cries a lot (your wife not the baby) it'll pass once a new routine develops.
I know i just sat and cried and cried the day I came home - i didn't even know why i was crying.!!
Just give her lots of support.
Too soonjust go and get loads and loads and loads of balloons and fill the house with them
Bless you and Congratulations.When my daughter had her last baby,her husband had arranged a small get together for just family members and it was lovely.My daughter was happy having her family around her and was able to relax and enjoy herself without getting over tired.So I think its a great idea.
ask your wife if she feels up to having people around the baby will settle anyway but best ask your wife she may be feeling a little tired and possily sore but if she is cool with it party away and congrats on your new daughter all the best for the future xxxx
I would wait like a month your wife will be exhausted at first she just went through a really big ordeal, however you can start planning something now and surprise her! I think it is great you are so happy about your daughter congratulations!!
Why not have a little party with just the three of you? When I had my babies, I was so relieved just to be out of hospital that I wanted to dance for joy but (apart from the grandparents and aunties) I didn't want to see anyone. Ask your wife if she's up to it, otherwise, keep it intimate - after all, you'll never have those first precious few days again. Take time to get to know your baby. And congratulations to the three of you!
Savour the moment friend, peace and rest may well be best for a while, it’s time to get to know your daughter, to cherish the two females in your immediate life so get in there and ride on that excitement to make life a lot easier for the women in your life. You can party later when the dust as settled and mum and baby have had chance to chill out a little.
Congratulations and I join you in wetting the babies head?
Congradulations Daddy!
I would definetly think that they would need some rest, so I would wait a couple of days for them to settle in and everything, then I would have everyone over to see your little bundle of joy :)
they need rest dude have like your mom come over to help out i did that when my gfriend came home
i think it a sweet idea, but using you wifes account to cover it is insane try spending the money on the baby since a baby and her mother at this stage could be too early and yes they need rest
don't have a party as your wife is going to feel very tired. the best thing to do is get some flower (not from the local garage) and let your wife rest. look after your wife by doing all the house work and helping with the baby. congrates on the new baby.
When we came home, I sat in the driveway and cried. You DO NOT want to have a party. Your wife will probably never forgive you for something like that. It's exciting, yes, but it's a huge, scary moment.
You will need to listen carefully to your wife. She will not have the energy to argue with you or tell you what she wants while you are so excited about helping. My husband was very overeager and wanted to give our baby a bottle so he could help, even though I was breastfeeding. He wouldn't listen to me, so I was the one who ended up getting the lecture from my mother in law about how bottle feeding can confuse a baby who is learning to breastfeed--stuff I already knew and tried to tell my husband, who was so busy "helping," he wasn't paying attention to me.
Too early spend spme intimate time getting to know your new baby and be a proud husband and father.
Congratulations!!!
First I would ask your wife if she wants people around!! Then do it the day after. Let the first time home be for your family (you, your wife, and your new baby!!!!!
I know when I ot out of the hospital that I was tired and trying to adjust to having a newborn. Freinds and family will be stopping by from time to time to visit, but not as one big group. I suggest holding off on a full blown party until your wife has recovered and your new family is adjusted to the changes.
I would wait to have a party, your wife needs to get a grip with having a new baby in the house, now that she is out of hospital she is on her OWN, (not including you obviously), leave it up to her to decide if and when she wants a party, when i came out of hospital with my daughter I just wanted to get home with her and my husband... the three of us together.
A quick tip, if shes coming home tomorrow, be in bed by 8'o'clock tonight, and sleep all you can cause for the next 6 months, you ain't going to get any hahahaha...
Congratulations on becoming the greatest person in the world from your baby's point of view...
I personally feel it is too early. Give them a week or two giving birth is hard work. Also you don't want to many people around the baby especially since your child has not had any shots yet. This will lessen the chance they can get sick.
They will want a rest. allow mum and baby to settle into a routine before allowing a mob of people to visit the house.
I didn't really want to see anyone when I came home from hospital I just wanted to spend time with my new baby.
Give it a few weeks.
I hope she's a good baby.. when are you getting your little neice?
My advice give her a week or two to rest first then have your family and friends over.
I have 3 children and I know from my experiences that when you get home you just want to be able to relax and enjoy that time with your husband and child with no interference coming home to a bunch of people is the last thing on my mind.
I know your excited and want to world to know as a mother they want to rest and re coop. So give it a week or 2 like I said and then have the family over. Trust me your wife will thank you for it
Wait a few days, let your wife and baby get settled into being at home. It can be a very strange transition coming home and suddenly finding yourself truly in charge of this little life. She's probably very tired and sore as well. And talk to your wife about it, see what she's up for. No matter what your intentions a big surprise party could be devastating to her right now.
the best thing would be rest
its to early but to be a husband i would give them a rub on both feet and back it will help her and the baby get relaxed wait until shes 2 months old where she can handle the noise and get her some healthy food and a flower with a card shell love you forever
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Answers:
Having come home 3 times with new-borns, I'd suggest the following.
Try to put off as many folk as you can for tomorrow, at least. Make it your special time - just for the three of you - you will remember that forever -honest! Have a loaded camera or a digital camera with plenty of batteries.
Have some food in that your wife enjoys, some treats too. She will be really tired, spoil her as best you can, but obviously don't go over the top.
Put up as many pink balloons as possible around front door and hallway. Perhaps a wee banner 'It's a girl' or something similar.
It's a true cause for celebration - enjoy!
Many congratulations to you and your wife!!
;-)
I have just checked this question again - curious to see if the party went ahead or not.
I have found myself checking out your previous questions too. It was a bit like a soap opera with further amazing instalments! You and your wife sound like truly amazing people. I wish you all the success in the world as you bring up your two girls. I have two girls and feel blessed.
I hope the Aubrey's jaundice has already cleared up - if not, I'm sure it will soon.
Good luck to all four of you ;-)
A private party or one with friends?
You can just ask your wife if she's up for it.
The baby won't have a clue what's going on anyway.
It sounds to me that you just want to have a party, so why not have a few people over for when they arrive, and if wifey is tired, they could always leave.
Maybe Its A little early..but i dont know your family..why dont you wait a couple of days let your wife settle in with your new daughter..congratulations by the way :)
Congratulations new dad!
Your wife is probably gonna be purty tired and might not want visitors. But ask her to see if she'd be up for a little get together with family and friends.
In the meantime, just revel in your new daughter and help your missus out as much as you can. She's gonna need it!
Wait at least 2 weeks, the baby needs to rest and build up some immunity. Congrats!!
ok, seriously, your wife will need the rest and your baby is no way ready for a party! take it easy for the next few weeks, spoil your wife, do more than your fair share around the house and with the baby, and just enjoy the time that you have with them! You wouldnt believe how quickly they grow up, so just relax and enjoy! Congratulations by the way!
Yes. Delivering a baby is the most stressful and tiring thing a woman will do. I say love on her lots(mom) and tell her you are so proud of her, but wait about a week or so before you throw a party. Enjoy the baby bliss a little first. It would be a great time for you to bond with the baby while mom recooperates.
Congratulations!
I suggest you ask her first, she may be really tired and just need a few days to rest and settle in with your new baby!
I'd say don't spring a surprise on her at this point, it's the last thing I would have wanted when I came out of hospital after having mine!
Congratualations..... but ...I would wait a day or two ... and ask if she wants people round.... remember she has hormones now !! don't expect the same person to come home as the one who went to hospital!!
Just play it by ear and take it easy and if she cries a lot (your wife not the baby) it'll pass once a new routine develops.
I know i just sat and cried and cried the day I came home - i didn't even know why i was crying.!!
Just give her lots of support.
Too soonjust go and get loads and loads and loads of balloons and fill the house with them
Bless you and Congratulations.When my daughter had her last baby,her husband had arranged a small get together for just family members and it was lovely.My daughter was happy having her family around her and was able to relax and enjoy herself without getting over tired.So I think its a great idea.
ask your wife if she feels up to having people around the baby will settle anyway but best ask your wife she may be feeling a little tired and possily sore but if she is cool with it party away and congrats on your new daughter all the best for the future xxxx
I would wait like a month your wife will be exhausted at first she just went through a really big ordeal, however you can start planning something now and surprise her! I think it is great you are so happy about your daughter congratulations!!
Why not have a little party with just the three of you? When I had my babies, I was so relieved just to be out of hospital that I wanted to dance for joy but (apart from the grandparents and aunties) I didn't want to see anyone. Ask your wife if she's up to it, otherwise, keep it intimate - after all, you'll never have those first precious few days again. Take time to get to know your baby. And congratulations to the three of you!
Savour the moment friend, peace and rest may well be best for a while, it’s time to get to know your daughter, to cherish the two females in your immediate life so get in there and ride on that excitement to make life a lot easier for the women in your life. You can party later when the dust as settled and mum and baby have had chance to chill out a little.
Congratulations and I join you in wetting the babies head?
Congradulations Daddy!
I would definetly think that they would need some rest, so I would wait a couple of days for them to settle in and everything, then I would have everyone over to see your little bundle of joy :)
they need rest dude have like your mom come over to help out i did that when my gfriend came home
i think it a sweet idea, but using you wifes account to cover it is insane try spending the money on the baby since a baby and her mother at this stage could be too early and yes they need rest
don't have a party as your wife is going to feel very tired. the best thing to do is get some flower (not from the local garage) and let your wife rest. look after your wife by doing all the house work and helping with the baby. congrates on the new baby.
When we came home, I sat in the driveway and cried. You DO NOT want to have a party. Your wife will probably never forgive you for something like that. It's exciting, yes, but it's a huge, scary moment.
You will need to listen carefully to your wife. She will not have the energy to argue with you or tell you what she wants while you are so excited about helping. My husband was very overeager and wanted to give our baby a bottle so he could help, even though I was breastfeeding. He wouldn't listen to me, so I was the one who ended up getting the lecture from my mother in law about how bottle feeding can confuse a baby who is learning to breastfeed--stuff I already knew and tried to tell my husband, who was so busy "helping," he wasn't paying attention to me.
Too early spend spme intimate time getting to know your new baby and be a proud husband and father.
Congratulations!!!
First I would ask your wife if she wants people around!! Then do it the day after. Let the first time home be for your family (you, your wife, and your new baby!!!!!
I know when I ot out of the hospital that I was tired and trying to adjust to having a newborn. Freinds and family will be stopping by from time to time to visit, but not as one big group. I suggest holding off on a full blown party until your wife has recovered and your new family is adjusted to the changes.
I would wait to have a party, your wife needs to get a grip with having a new baby in the house, now that she is out of hospital she is on her OWN, (not including you obviously), leave it up to her to decide if and when she wants a party, when i came out of hospital with my daughter I just wanted to get home with her and my husband... the three of us together.
A quick tip, if shes coming home tomorrow, be in bed by 8'o'clock tonight, and sleep all you can cause for the next 6 months, you ain't going to get any hahahaha...
Congratulations on becoming the greatest person in the world from your baby's point of view...
I personally feel it is too early. Give them a week or two giving birth is hard work. Also you don't want to many people around the baby especially since your child has not had any shots yet. This will lessen the chance they can get sick.
They will want a rest. allow mum and baby to settle into a routine before allowing a mob of people to visit the house.
I didn't really want to see anyone when I came home from hospital I just wanted to spend time with my new baby.
Give it a few weeks.
I hope she's a good baby.. when are you getting your little neice?
My advice give her a week or two to rest first then have your family and friends over.
I have 3 children and I know from my experiences that when you get home you just want to be able to relax and enjoy that time with your husband and child with no interference coming home to a bunch of people is the last thing on my mind.
I know your excited and want to world to know as a mother they want to rest and re coop. So give it a week or 2 like I said and then have the family over. Trust me your wife will thank you for it
Wait a few days, let your wife and baby get settled into being at home. It can be a very strange transition coming home and suddenly finding yourself truly in charge of this little life. She's probably very tired and sore as well. And talk to your wife about it, see what she's up for. No matter what your intentions a big surprise party could be devastating to her right now.
the best thing would be rest
its to early but to be a husband i would give them a rub on both feet and back it will help her and the baby get relaxed wait until shes 2 months old where she can handle the noise and get her some healthy food and a flower with a card shell love you forever
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