Im 15 and pregnant and i dont want to tell my parents =[ i dont no what to do :( and im scared...?
im 15 and i am pregant im scared to tell my parents and my dad told me he did'nt want anything to do with it if i did :( what can i do ?
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You really have to tell them. Like it or not @ 15 you are their responsibility. And right now you need all the support you can get. Yes, it's going to suck telling them and they may be very angry. But none the less they need to know, so you guys can plan the best course of action. They are your parents they love you, and trust me every parent worries about this moment for their little girls from the time they hit puberty until they become adults and out on their own. So, though this may be their worst fear, it certainly isn't something that hasn't already crossed their minds.
Shoot our little one isn't even here yet, nor do we know yet whether is a boy or a girl, but papa and I have already discussed how we hope to handle a situation like this if it should arise in our future as parents.
And please don't listen to all the a$$holes above passing judgments about your age. They have no right to pass judgment on you. Until they have taken steps in your shoes they have no understanding of the fear & confusion that you are going through. Whats done is done, and you need to make the most responsible decision that is right for you and yours. Reguardless of what you decide to do, you will have to live with that decision for the rest of your life.so choose wisely.
Take responsibilty for your actions, you need to tell them and just hope it won't be to bad.
You have to tell them, and whether they want to deal with or not, they have to.
You have a big problem. I would suggest getting a job first and then telling your parents because maybe then they would know that you will be dedicated to taking care of it. Maybe the father of the baby will give you some money? ¿
DO NOT BE SCARED tell them even if you face the bad consequences;they know better than you at 15
you have no choice but to tell your parents. They are gonna know eventually when you start showing so the sooner you tell them, the sooner you can all deal with the situation at hand. If you didnt want to go through this then you should have thought about that before you had sex.
YOU SILLY GIRL, GO TO YOUR DOCTOR HE OR SHE WILL BE ABLE TO HELP YOU, AND TELL YOUR MUM. ONCE THEY GET OVER THE SHOCK THEY WILL BE FINE, HONESTLY
Discuss it with the family planning clinic or your school nurse.
Best of luck
Well, they are going to find out sooner or later. As prenatal care is very important for both you and your unborn child, I suggest you tell them as soon as possible. It may be difficult, but they will get over it eventually.
Sweety you need to inform your parents so they can guide you and support you. You cannot go through such a drastic life-change all alone.
They might get upset in the beginning but I am sure they will do anything in their power to help you and support you all the way through.
Good luck.
Go see your doctor. Legally under the age of 16 your parents can know however if you talk to your doctor, he/she will keep it confidential. Do you have anyone close you can talk to..relative, teacher, friend. Don't carry the burden alone. Good luck.
You need to talk to your mom. Pregnancy is challenging and you need people to help you. Its not something you can do by yourself.
Being scared is normal. But the fact is whether you wanted it or not you are prenant now and you can't take that away.
work out what you want first i.e are you keeping it, secondly have you got an older sister or someone that's older than you that you see and someone you can trust, tell them ask them for advice. But if you want to keep it then i'm afraid that you'll have to face the consequences of what has happened, or you could have just gone and got the morning after pill!
By the way parents always say that but once the baby is born, they will not leave it alone!
time to abort
you're too young to be having kids anyway
Being that you're 15 and probably not on your own yet, you're parents will most likely find out one way or another. I know you're scared as Hell to tell them that you're pregnant, but if they truly love you, you should tell them. It'd be better that way instead of them finding out through another source the hard way. Emotions will run high but you'll be doing the right thing.
they are going to figure it out eventually, right? so tell them before they notice for themselves. if they kick you out, you can come live with me ;)
dont worry, it will all work out!
well you wont be able to hide it from her so you better tell her the sooner the better she might help you trough it
Do you have an aunt, favorite teacher school guidance consellor or your clergyman you can go to? O course, you are afraid, but ytou MUST do something immediately. You are too young to cope with nthis alone. God be with you
Whelp you need to tell your parents. The sooner the better.
Suck it up and tell them.. You obviously weren't too scared to have sex.. and we all know that's the only way to get pregnant..
If you weren't ready to have a baby, then you weren't ready to have sex.. You play with fire, you should expect to get burned.. and not cry about it and wonder why when you do.
Hmm..Im In The Same Situation As You.Strange.Anyways. I've Just Told My Antie About It And She Said She'll Help Me Talk To My Partents And If The Don't Want To Help Me She'll Stick By Me.You Could Do Something Like That Too.x
Can't hide it forever.might as well tell them.
What your dad told you before your pregnancy and what will happen when you tell him now are too different things.
You have to tell your parents, in most states there isn't any way around it.
You were "grown up" enough to have sex, now you cannot revert back to a little kid and not take responsibility for your actions. Talk to your parents, there will be a lot of hurt, anger, and things will never be the same, but it will be the second step on your journey to becoming an adult.
okay, come on, your parents love you more than any other person on this earth. tell them. it will doubtless be upsetting to them but they will almost certainly be the best support you will find anywhere, just give them a bit to adjust to the news and realize that the reason they are so upset is because they are so worried for YOU.
dads talk like that as an incentive to you to live right. it's like saying "I'll kill you if you tell on me".not a real threat. this is the guy who has loved you since before you were born..so tell them as soon as possible.
love and hugs,
a mom who's been told
I know how u feel - when me and my ex-girlfriend were 16 i got her pregnant as well. i found it really difficult telling my mum, but i just walked up to her and said it. fair enough, she didnt speak to me for several months aftfer that, but once he was born she couldnt be separated from him. trust me if you decide to have the baby, your mum wont stop trying to bring it up herself! dont be afraid of telling them. they have to deal with it. we all make mistakes, but if you do havethe baby and youre a half decent mother to it then thats all that matters. if u wana talk to me about it u can email/im me if u want. gd luck x
I'd forget about telling your parents for the moment and start thinking about what you're going to do.
Do you want to keep it? If you do, you need to think about the impact this will have on your future and how you intend on bringing up a baby alone.
If you dont want to keep it, then fair enough.
You need to show them that you are mature enough to have sex and mature enough to accept the concequences. You need to show them you can make a decision and be mature enough to ask them for their support. Good luck.
Well 1st off do you wanna even have this baby? If so you need to get parental care and you will probably have to find a place to live. I donno what state you live in but there are many places you can go, like low income housing.. I would put your name on a list right away! Then you need to figure out how you will pay for baby. Finally you have to tell your parents, they love you and may be angry at 1st. I got pg at 16. My parents were sooo angry but over time it was easier, i still had to pay for everything on my own but my parents let me stay at their home till i was able to move. By the time i was 17 i was out on my own with a full time job and living in low income. I am 26 and married now. But i have to warn , cause i've been there it is very hard and you really have to be the adult ! That baby depends on you. Good Luck and i hope everything works out!
i was in the same situation,but i new the right thing to do was to till my parents.and my parents were mad but they got over it,and they love her so much.
How you got an aunt or female relative who you could confide in, they might act as a go between you and your parents. If not phone the Samaritans they will guide you in the right direction, but for your sake and the babies don't wait, do something now this minute, take care.
You need to tell them - sorry. They will blow a fuse to start with probably - but they will calm down, they love you and want whats best for you.
Your dad probably only said what he did as a warning - he will be okay.
Bite the bullet!
RATHER YOU CHOOSE TO KEEP OR GET AN ABORTION YOU CAN'T DO IT ALONE. YOU HAVE TO TELL SOMEONE. TALK TO SOMEONE. THERE ARE PLENTY OF PROGRAMS A SUPPORT GROUPS OUT HERE TO HELP YOU THROUGH IT. YOUR DAD SHOULDN'T DISOWN YOU BECAUSE OF A MISTAKE. YOUR A TEENAGER THAT WHAT YALL DO. I WAS 17 WHEN I GOT PREGNANT NOW HIS 9. IM 28 GETTING READY TO HAVE MY 3RD CHILD. NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS YOU WILL BE O.K.
GOOD LUCK.
you are very young, there is no many solutions, and you know that: talk to you're family
oh sweetheart. i feel so sorry for you. i was young when i had my daughter and was terrified. my parents soon got used to the idea and everything worked out OK for me. you have to see your doctor asap like tomorrow morning, they will see you if you explain the situation. secondly you have to decide if your keeping the baby or not. it is a life not a toy. can you give it the best quaility of life? where will you live? what about school? can you cope? its a big decion. you should tell your parents though, you cant face this alone.
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You really have to tell them. Like it or not @ 15 you are their responsibility. And right now you need all the support you can get. Yes, it's going to suck telling them and they may be very angry. But none the less they need to know, so you guys can plan the best course of action. They are your parents they love you, and trust me every parent worries about this moment for their little girls from the time they hit puberty until they become adults and out on their own. So, though this may be their worst fear, it certainly isn't something that hasn't already crossed their minds.
Shoot our little one isn't even here yet, nor do we know yet whether is a boy or a girl, but papa and I have already discussed how we hope to handle a situation like this if it should arise in our future as parents.
And please don't listen to all the a$$holes above passing judgments about your age. They have no right to pass judgment on you. Until they have taken steps in your shoes they have no understanding of the fear & confusion that you are going through. Whats done is done, and you need to make the most responsible decision that is right for you and yours. Reguardless of what you decide to do, you will have to live with that decision for the rest of your life.so choose wisely.
Take responsibilty for your actions, you need to tell them and just hope it won't be to bad.
You have to tell them, and whether they want to deal with or not, they have to.
You have a big problem. I would suggest getting a job first and then telling your parents because maybe then they would know that you will be dedicated to taking care of it. Maybe the father of the baby will give you some money? ¿
DO NOT BE SCARED tell them even if you face the bad consequences;they know better than you at 15
you have no choice but to tell your parents. They are gonna know eventually when you start showing so the sooner you tell them, the sooner you can all deal with the situation at hand. If you didnt want to go through this then you should have thought about that before you had sex.
YOU SILLY GIRL, GO TO YOUR DOCTOR HE OR SHE WILL BE ABLE TO HELP YOU, AND TELL YOUR MUM. ONCE THEY GET OVER THE SHOCK THEY WILL BE FINE, HONESTLY
Discuss it with the family planning clinic or your school nurse.
Best of luck
Well, they are going to find out sooner or later. As prenatal care is very important for both you and your unborn child, I suggest you tell them as soon as possible. It may be difficult, but they will get over it eventually.
Sweety you need to inform your parents so they can guide you and support you. You cannot go through such a drastic life-change all alone.
They might get upset in the beginning but I am sure they will do anything in their power to help you and support you all the way through.
Good luck.
Go see your doctor. Legally under the age of 16 your parents can know however if you talk to your doctor, he/she will keep it confidential. Do you have anyone close you can talk to..relative, teacher, friend. Don't carry the burden alone. Good luck.
You need to talk to your mom. Pregnancy is challenging and you need people to help you. Its not something you can do by yourself.
Being scared is normal. But the fact is whether you wanted it or not you are prenant now and you can't take that away.
work out what you want first i.e are you keeping it, secondly have you got an older sister or someone that's older than you that you see and someone you can trust, tell them ask them for advice. But if you want to keep it then i'm afraid that you'll have to face the consequences of what has happened, or you could have just gone and got the morning after pill!
By the way parents always say that but once the baby is born, they will not leave it alone!
time to abort
you're too young to be having kids anyway
Being that you're 15 and probably not on your own yet, you're parents will most likely find out one way or another. I know you're scared as Hell to tell them that you're pregnant, but if they truly love you, you should tell them. It'd be better that way instead of them finding out through another source the hard way. Emotions will run high but you'll be doing the right thing.
they are going to figure it out eventually, right? so tell them before they notice for themselves. if they kick you out, you can come live with me ;)
dont worry, it will all work out!
well you wont be able to hide it from her so you better tell her the sooner the better she might help you trough it
Do you have an aunt, favorite teacher school guidance consellor or your clergyman you can go to? O course, you are afraid, but ytou MUST do something immediately. You are too young to cope with nthis alone. God be with you
Whelp you need to tell your parents. The sooner the better.
Suck it up and tell them.. You obviously weren't too scared to have sex.. and we all know that's the only way to get pregnant..
If you weren't ready to have a baby, then you weren't ready to have sex.. You play with fire, you should expect to get burned.. and not cry about it and wonder why when you do.
Hmm..Im In The Same Situation As You.Strange.Anyways. I've Just Told My Antie About It And She Said She'll Help Me Talk To My Partents And If The Don't Want To Help Me She'll Stick By Me.You Could Do Something Like That Too.x
Can't hide it forever.might as well tell them.
What your dad told you before your pregnancy and what will happen when you tell him now are too different things.
You have to tell your parents, in most states there isn't any way around it.
You were "grown up" enough to have sex, now you cannot revert back to a little kid and not take responsibility for your actions. Talk to your parents, there will be a lot of hurt, anger, and things will never be the same, but it will be the second step on your journey to becoming an adult.
okay, come on, your parents love you more than any other person on this earth. tell them. it will doubtless be upsetting to them but they will almost certainly be the best support you will find anywhere, just give them a bit to adjust to the news and realize that the reason they are so upset is because they are so worried for YOU.
dads talk like that as an incentive to you to live right. it's like saying "I'll kill you if you tell on me".not a real threat. this is the guy who has loved you since before you were born..so tell them as soon as possible.
love and hugs,
a mom who's been told
I know how u feel - when me and my ex-girlfriend were 16 i got her pregnant as well. i found it really difficult telling my mum, but i just walked up to her and said it. fair enough, she didnt speak to me for several months aftfer that, but once he was born she couldnt be separated from him. trust me if you decide to have the baby, your mum wont stop trying to bring it up herself! dont be afraid of telling them. they have to deal with it. we all make mistakes, but if you do havethe baby and youre a half decent mother to it then thats all that matters. if u wana talk to me about it u can email/im me if u want. gd luck x
I'd forget about telling your parents for the moment and start thinking about what you're going to do.
Do you want to keep it? If you do, you need to think about the impact this will have on your future and how you intend on bringing up a baby alone.
If you dont want to keep it, then fair enough.
You need to show them that you are mature enough to have sex and mature enough to accept the concequences. You need to show them you can make a decision and be mature enough to ask them for their support. Good luck.
Well 1st off do you wanna even have this baby? If so you need to get parental care and you will probably have to find a place to live. I donno what state you live in but there are many places you can go, like low income housing.. I would put your name on a list right away! Then you need to figure out how you will pay for baby. Finally you have to tell your parents, they love you and may be angry at 1st. I got pg at 16. My parents were sooo angry but over time it was easier, i still had to pay for everything on my own but my parents let me stay at their home till i was able to move. By the time i was 17 i was out on my own with a full time job and living in low income. I am 26 and married now. But i have to warn , cause i've been there it is very hard and you really have to be the adult ! That baby depends on you. Good Luck and i hope everything works out!
i was in the same situation,but i new the right thing to do was to till my parents.and my parents were mad but they got over it,and they love her so much.
How you got an aunt or female relative who you could confide in, they might act as a go between you and your parents. If not phone the Samaritans they will guide you in the right direction, but for your sake and the babies don't wait, do something now this minute, take care.
You need to tell them - sorry. They will blow a fuse to start with probably - but they will calm down, they love you and want whats best for you.
Your dad probably only said what he did as a warning - he will be okay.
Bite the bullet!
RATHER YOU CHOOSE TO KEEP OR GET AN ABORTION YOU CAN'T DO IT ALONE. YOU HAVE TO TELL SOMEONE. TALK TO SOMEONE. THERE ARE PLENTY OF PROGRAMS A SUPPORT GROUPS OUT HERE TO HELP YOU THROUGH IT. YOUR DAD SHOULDN'T DISOWN YOU BECAUSE OF A MISTAKE. YOUR A TEENAGER THAT WHAT YALL DO. I WAS 17 WHEN I GOT PREGNANT NOW HIS 9. IM 28 GETTING READY TO HAVE MY 3RD CHILD. NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS YOU WILL BE O.K.
GOOD LUCK.
you are very young, there is no many solutions, and you know that: talk to you're family
oh sweetheart. i feel so sorry for you. i was young when i had my daughter and was terrified. my parents soon got used to the idea and everything worked out OK for me. you have to see your doctor asap like tomorrow morning, they will see you if you explain the situation. secondly you have to decide if your keeping the baby or not. it is a life not a toy. can you give it the best quaility of life? where will you live? what about school? can you cope? its a big decion. you should tell your parents though, you cant face this alone.
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