I'm 15 And I'm Pregnant..I Dunno How To Tell My Mam And Dad.. I Dunno How They'll Take It =( What Can I Do?
Pleasee Help!
Answers:
SHUT UP you nasty evil self righteous idiots, she's 15 who the hell are any of you to judge her, i bet none of you are that perfect yourselves so stop and think before you are so selfish.heartless and insensitive.
Now hunny, i know your probably going through mixed emotions right now and are probably very scared and feel very lonely but your right you do have to tell your parents and they might be upset but at the end of the day you are their baby daughter and they Willl love you no matter what. Talk to them calmly and honestly and if you are that worried see your doctor and ask if they can be there when you tell your parents.
It wil be hard but you can do this and one way or another it will make you a stronger wiser person.
I was pregnant at 15 and my parents reacted badly but they are my best friends now and we got through it together. I did have an abortion which i did really regret but now i have 2 gorgeous daughters who i love dearly so everything worked out in the end.
You will get through this, good luck hun, I'll be thinking of you. xxx
your 15 and pregnant, well just tell your mam u are and see what she says u can easyly get a mis carraige and if not get your dad to kill tht person who made u pregnant..
jus tell the truth, they have to take it since youre their daughter n they shuld suport u all the way.
Should have thought about that you silly girl. Pfft teenage pregnancy.. no time for it. Don't think about living on benefits
Blah blah blah. I have more sympathy for the spider I chucked out of my window last week. Dont do the crime, if you cant do the time. And you gotta lot of time ha ha ha. Dont expect others to take responsibility, or to sort out YOUR **** UP darling.
You my friend are Foked. Better hope your parents are rich
Just tell them. if they are any kind of parents, yes they will be disappointed, but the y will support you through this
I became pregnant when I was 13 and am now almost 26. Everything worked out, even though my parents were disappointed. The most important thing is to know what you want. Do you want to raise the baby? Would you want a family member to raise it? would you want to give it up for adoption? Or (if it suits you) have an abortion? Just remember, it is YOUR choice. If you want to have and raise your child, then don't let ANYONE try to change your mind. This is the time.You wanted to do grown up things, so now you have to make grown up decisions. And this should be your first one. Try to find a support before you tell your parents who actually say what you would like to do is a good idea. If you don't you may have a difficult time sticking to your guns and could regret the decision for the rest of your life. There aren't any regrets when it is your decision and only yours. Then tell your parents, and your wishes/ plans, and ask for understanding and advice. Let them know you love them and didn'tr do this to hurt, or embarrass them, and trust they will help you through this difficult time.
By the way. I have a lovely 11 year old daughter who I raised on my own, and also a 4 year old son. I worked and had my own place, finished school, and am now in college. It definately wasnt easy, and I wanted to give up so many times, but what got me through was having someone there to support me in the decisions i made.
Good luck!
Your Mum and Dad will undoubtedly be shocked and upset, but no more so than you are and you need their support right now. If you find it to hard to tell them perhaps you could talk to a teacher you trust, or your family GP who will keep your confidence and they could advise you on how best to approach your Mum and Dad. Good Luck!
You should have thought of this when you were having unprotected sex. Just tell them and accept whatever they have to say. You must be a major disappointment to them.
Hi sweetheart, You poor thing, you must be SO scared. You need to tell your mum and dad as soon as possible, so that you have time to examine the options.
If it was me, I would tell my mum and leave her to tell your dad.
If you cant face it, then write her a letter.
She may be cross, but she will be glad you told her, and she will come around.
You should also see your GP and get some advice about your options.
Please have a clear idea in your head about what you want to do, and don't let anyone change your mind. Go with your heart.
Good luck sweetheart, Take care, xxxxx
lol. when i was fifteen i should have got pregnant as i did my fair share of sleeping around. lucky i'm a bloke really
been there.. there is no easy way out.. you just have to tell them.. remember that every thing will work out ok.. no matter how hopeless and horrible it may seem.
If you need some one to talk email me.
I know how stress ful it can be
Tell them the truth, that you're fifteen, can't financially provide for yourself, and are pregnant. They'll be upset, and you're gonna have to grow up, and take responsibility for your action. Good luck.
You have to tell your parents, then you have to get the father,as soon as he can work start supporting you thru child support,then go to God and ask HIm to help you,because your gonna need it.
if you are really scared to tell them in person, write them a letter and you can also explain your feelings as well.
I'm not sure to be pregnant at this point but my rents dont know a thing about it. I am 15. My first wrong choice was having them take me to the dr. then hiding things from them. I dont want to say I am until I am told I am, when my doctor sent me home wondering. I would just straight forward tell your parents. Yes they will be mad at first but at least in the end they can have a choice to help you out. GOOD LUCK, if you need anything you can IM me on yahoo messenger (gurley2109) or you can just email me on here....
If you are or not.do you think you are going to get bona fide 'advice' from the man or lass in the street (on a web page)? Obviously you didn't need advice to get pregnant.but it's time to get in touch with a social worker, your G.P., then your parents. Something tells me you reside in the UK.
.Sophie-star - warned the lass! She would somehow become unstuck with some of us on UKQnA.com, be they, as you put it, 'self-righteous' - but if the message is in fact true, she also doesn't want someone like you turning the room into a slanging match. Some of us cannot help being conceited, but could be she can sift out the good and bad answers without assistance from someone who thinks rushing into the ring with arms flailing is 'best'.
You need to get proper advice, the quicker the better. Take a look at the site below that is aimed at teenagers and gives advice on what to do if you are pregnant and where to go for advice. Good luck
http://www.likeitis.org/teenage_pregnanc.
You must let your parents know,because you will need their support.Is there anyone you know who will break the ice for you,a friend,an aunt?You are still only a child,if the father is an older person,then he has committed a criminal offence.If you have no-one to help you,go to your local social services & they will look after you,& tell your parents for you.Good luck.
Hey we are human and we all make mistakes !, I'm sure your parents love you and they will support you, i would have supported my daughter if she was in your situation, So please tell your parents and get this out in the open and then you can start to plan your future.
Good Luck sweetheart.
Are your parents understanding?..I'm 18 and I have a 9 month old daughter. I got pregnant when I was 17 I didn't know how to tell my mama either. I really didn't want to, but I eventually did my mom is the type of person where she takes things out of proportion. My situation is different from yours my baby's father wanted to be in her life. My mom wouldn't let him.Anyways to make the point here.see if you can tell your mom first, then you could tell your dad. I think your baby's father would change his mind. I hope everything works out for you.
I agree with 1 or two of the answers above. Basically, I think the best thing you could do is to find out more about what options you have. Go to your doctor and ask him for advice, it is completely confidential meaning your parents won't find out from him/her. At least this way, you know where you stand. When you feel ready, tell your parents. It will probably be quite difficult and a lot of awkward questions are bound to be asked. I think you should tell them both at the same time, that way neither of them feels left out and you can all discuss it. Although you may feel that telling your Mum and Dad will be one of the worst things you could do. E.g. it may upset them, they may be angry etc. just remember that everyone makes mistakes, they love you and that can't be changed just because of one mistake. Try not to put any of this off for too long. If an abortion is an option you would consider, there are limits on the length of time you can wait and the sooner the news is in the open, the better you will feel.
DONT KILL THE BABY JUST KNOW HOW THE BABY IS CRYING I THINK U SHOULD JUST TELL YOUR MOM AND TELL UR MOM DONT HIT ME I AM PREGANT
IF YOU DONT KNOW REALLY IF YOU R MAKE SURE
Your under age. You should have been a little more careful. Whats done is done though and I hope you are able to work out what you believe is best. You are your parents little girl. I think they will stick by what ever you want to do. Its not something you can hide for long and not something you can face by yourself. Brace yourself for an awful time but this will pass. The sooner you do something the sooner the difficult time will be over. Remember they are your parents and just want whet is best for you but you also need to remeber its your body your life and your choice what to do. It will be tough whatever happens or is decided. You are still a child yourself and although you think you can still do a lot you will be limited but you will have a beautiful baby. I really wish you well and hope you choose what YOU want to do not what anyone else wants.
Dealing with parents is the easy part. The hardest part is knowing what your options are and what YOU want to do. If you decided on abortion make sure that you are fully aware of what you are letting yourself in for before you go ahead with it. Don't let anyone, including your parents talk you into doing something you DO NOT want to do. It is your choice. You don't know for sure how your parents will react until you tell them. I figured my mum would kill me, but when I finally plucked up the courage to tell her (when I was 3 months pregnant) she was great about it, and she was very supportive. Granted, some parents can be awful when they have a situation like this to deal with, but you have to take control of the situation. Don't be bullied into doing something you don't want to do. If you want an abortion, make sure you know the facts and do it as soon as possible, the longer you leave it, the harder it will be. After 3 months you will have to give birth to it, abortion is still an option, but it will be harder for you. If you don't want an abortion don't let anyone talk you into it. Tell your parents love, the sooner you know how they feel about it the sooner you can deal with it. In the meantime you are just spending time worrying about a reaction that might not happen. Get it over and done with. Worrying will just make you ill. If it makes it easier, maybe you could have a friend or another family member tell your parents?
Good luck
I read your question with great interest, at the end of the day tell mum & dad whats happened ask for their support but the last say is yours. Kids can bring a lot of joy but can be hard work-very hard work.
------------------------------.
Let me tell you our story we are at the other end of the age group we have one son 20 years old then we found out my wife was
pregnant (we are both in our 40's).
Our young son is now 4 years old (big son 24) both my parents
died, inlaws died big son don't help much loverly young lad we both love him but no time for ourselves very difficult.
im 15 and pregnant and i was scared to but i was brave enough to tell them by myself and i didnt have my boyfriend with me because he was to mad and didnt want to do nothing with me or the baby because he was with another girl and look at him now hes happy just think about it but dont have an abortion cause if you was girl enough to open ur legs you should be girl enough to admit your mistake give your boyfriend time if not take hi sorry *** to jail and u be happy and have ur baby there are so many programs 4 teen moms and they will help you alot you just gota look for them if you wana talk this is my email Edeliz4@msn.com and goodluck
it sucks to be you right now but first of all your baby daddy is gonna get his and when you tell your parents please don't lie and say you were raped just tell them that you are sorry and want to give the baby up for adoption no matter how much you want to abortor keep it (it just sounds better when you first tell them). I not saying this because I feel its wrong(I do) but because your so young that if you do this now it will change the way that everyone looks at you and your parents(they still will) but look at it this way
if you abort what if you have a complication and you can no longer have kids you will be bitter at everyone involved and how can you put a price on someones life and soul? and once you terminate you can never take it back and everyone I know that has gotten one regretted it 'cept for this one nasty who had 5 but the 9th grade and people will think that your a killer....or
you can have the baby in a much more safe environment and give it a chance at life with another family who might not be able to have children and it will teach you(more) about responsibility
as far as telling mom and dad you have two choices be a women since that's what you though when you got pregnant or wait til you start showing and get in even more trouble....oh yeah you might want to get a job or find somewhere else to stay cause they might call you out your name and then kick you out the house....I have had more than my share of these expiriences...and be prepared to be seemingly grounded for the rest of your teenage years because as soon as you tell them you may have just lost all of your parents trust.
or if it all works out in a strange matter you might have a misscariage...but do NOY try to induce one it might or might not work and will do more harm than good either way
just have faith I was in your situation more than once and each time I had a misscariage but my parents still love me and your parents more than likely will to but you will need to do some studying on parenting and pregnancy(not in that order)
Good Luck and God Bless You and watch over you
Let's Pretend
'Mum? Dad? Please, I must talk to you both for a minute. Can we sit down please.
I am so unhappy and it's my own fault and no one else.
Bobby and I wanted to do it and we both pulled away but last month we tried it and now I am carrying a baby.
I don't know what to do and it's making me ill with worry.'
(Pause and let it sink in or stop moaning, but if they start firing questions at you say,)
'Please mum I need help and I want your comfort. I feel so miserable.'
(Things calm down)
Let them recover and say, 'Please dad let me make you both a cup of tea while you talk about it.'
If they say they don't want one tell them , 'My mouth is dry and I feel parched,I won't be a minute.'
You leave the room run the tap and have a drink then sit on the floor with your head in your hands and feel sorry for yourself.
When one of them comes in and starts to talk ignore what they are saying and run up to whomever or both and throw yourself into their arms.
Have a cry, and you will want one, and pour your heart out.
You dad will tell you not to worry and your mum will lead you off for a chat.
Wait until they ask about your plans and tell them about the boy's decision. You don't want to marry anyone like that either.
This is me talking now.
Please don't feel bad about this and regardless of what you feel for the boy, you will love your child with a feeling and depth that only mum's know.
You might have to be a little tactful when they try to take over pushing the pram, but let them have a go if they want to, well just for a few yards anyway.
I don't know you and I want to cuddle you just writing this, so I am sure your Mum and Dad will feel the same.
It will be better than Christmas for you every day when your baby is born.
Good Luck and Bless You.
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Answers:
SHUT UP you nasty evil self righteous idiots, she's 15 who the hell are any of you to judge her, i bet none of you are that perfect yourselves so stop and think before you are so selfish.heartless and insensitive.
Now hunny, i know your probably going through mixed emotions right now and are probably very scared and feel very lonely but your right you do have to tell your parents and they might be upset but at the end of the day you are their baby daughter and they Willl love you no matter what. Talk to them calmly and honestly and if you are that worried see your doctor and ask if they can be there when you tell your parents.
It wil be hard but you can do this and one way or another it will make you a stronger wiser person.
I was pregnant at 15 and my parents reacted badly but they are my best friends now and we got through it together. I did have an abortion which i did really regret but now i have 2 gorgeous daughters who i love dearly so everything worked out in the end.
You will get through this, good luck hun, I'll be thinking of you. xxx
your 15 and pregnant, well just tell your mam u are and see what she says u can easyly get a mis carraige and if not get your dad to kill tht person who made u pregnant..
jus tell the truth, they have to take it since youre their daughter n they shuld suport u all the way.
Should have thought about that you silly girl. Pfft teenage pregnancy.. no time for it. Don't think about living on benefits
Blah blah blah. I have more sympathy for the spider I chucked out of my window last week. Dont do the crime, if you cant do the time. And you gotta lot of time ha ha ha. Dont expect others to take responsibility, or to sort out YOUR **** UP darling.
You my friend are Foked. Better hope your parents are rich
Just tell them. if they are any kind of parents, yes they will be disappointed, but the y will support you through this
I became pregnant when I was 13 and am now almost 26. Everything worked out, even though my parents were disappointed. The most important thing is to know what you want. Do you want to raise the baby? Would you want a family member to raise it? would you want to give it up for adoption? Or (if it suits you) have an abortion? Just remember, it is YOUR choice. If you want to have and raise your child, then don't let ANYONE try to change your mind. This is the time.You wanted to do grown up things, so now you have to make grown up decisions. And this should be your first one. Try to find a support before you tell your parents who actually say what you would like to do is a good idea. If you don't you may have a difficult time sticking to your guns and could regret the decision for the rest of your life. There aren't any regrets when it is your decision and only yours. Then tell your parents, and your wishes/ plans, and ask for understanding and advice. Let them know you love them and didn'tr do this to hurt, or embarrass them, and trust they will help you through this difficult time.
By the way. I have a lovely 11 year old daughter who I raised on my own, and also a 4 year old son. I worked and had my own place, finished school, and am now in college. It definately wasnt easy, and I wanted to give up so many times, but what got me through was having someone there to support me in the decisions i made.
Good luck!
Your Mum and Dad will undoubtedly be shocked and upset, but no more so than you are and you need their support right now. If you find it to hard to tell them perhaps you could talk to a teacher you trust, or your family GP who will keep your confidence and they could advise you on how best to approach your Mum and Dad. Good Luck!
You should have thought of this when you were having unprotected sex. Just tell them and accept whatever they have to say. You must be a major disappointment to them.
Hi sweetheart, You poor thing, you must be SO scared. You need to tell your mum and dad as soon as possible, so that you have time to examine the options.
If it was me, I would tell my mum and leave her to tell your dad.
If you cant face it, then write her a letter.
She may be cross, but she will be glad you told her, and she will come around.
You should also see your GP and get some advice about your options.
Please have a clear idea in your head about what you want to do, and don't let anyone change your mind. Go with your heart.
Good luck sweetheart, Take care, xxxxx
lol. when i was fifteen i should have got pregnant as i did my fair share of sleeping around. lucky i'm a bloke really
been there.. there is no easy way out.. you just have to tell them.. remember that every thing will work out ok.. no matter how hopeless and horrible it may seem.
If you need some one to talk email me.
I know how stress ful it can be
Tell them the truth, that you're fifteen, can't financially provide for yourself, and are pregnant. They'll be upset, and you're gonna have to grow up, and take responsibility for your action. Good luck.
You have to tell your parents, then you have to get the father,as soon as he can work start supporting you thru child support,then go to God and ask HIm to help you,because your gonna need it.
if you are really scared to tell them in person, write them a letter and you can also explain your feelings as well.
I'm not sure to be pregnant at this point but my rents dont know a thing about it. I am 15. My first wrong choice was having them take me to the dr. then hiding things from them. I dont want to say I am until I am told I am, when my doctor sent me home wondering. I would just straight forward tell your parents. Yes they will be mad at first but at least in the end they can have a choice to help you out. GOOD LUCK, if you need anything you can IM me on yahoo messenger (gurley2109) or you can just email me on here....
If you are or not.do you think you are going to get bona fide 'advice' from the man or lass in the street (on a web page)? Obviously you didn't need advice to get pregnant.but it's time to get in touch with a social worker, your G.P., then your parents. Something tells me you reside in the UK.
.Sophie-star - warned the lass! She would somehow become unstuck with some of us on UKQnA.com, be they, as you put it, 'self-righteous' - but if the message is in fact true, she also doesn't want someone like you turning the room into a slanging match. Some of us cannot help being conceited, but could be she can sift out the good and bad answers without assistance from someone who thinks rushing into the ring with arms flailing is 'best'.
You need to get proper advice, the quicker the better. Take a look at the site below that is aimed at teenagers and gives advice on what to do if you are pregnant and where to go for advice. Good luck
http://www.likeitis.org/teenage_pregnanc.
You must let your parents know,because you will need their support.Is there anyone you know who will break the ice for you,a friend,an aunt?You are still only a child,if the father is an older person,then he has committed a criminal offence.If you have no-one to help you,go to your local social services & they will look after you,& tell your parents for you.Good luck.
Hey we are human and we all make mistakes !, I'm sure your parents love you and they will support you, i would have supported my daughter if she was in your situation, So please tell your parents and get this out in the open and then you can start to plan your future.
Good Luck sweetheart.
Are your parents understanding?..I'm 18 and I have a 9 month old daughter. I got pregnant when I was 17 I didn't know how to tell my mama either. I really didn't want to, but I eventually did my mom is the type of person where she takes things out of proportion. My situation is different from yours my baby's father wanted to be in her life. My mom wouldn't let him.Anyways to make the point here.see if you can tell your mom first, then you could tell your dad. I think your baby's father would change his mind. I hope everything works out for you.
I agree with 1 or two of the answers above. Basically, I think the best thing you could do is to find out more about what options you have. Go to your doctor and ask him for advice, it is completely confidential meaning your parents won't find out from him/her. At least this way, you know where you stand. When you feel ready, tell your parents. It will probably be quite difficult and a lot of awkward questions are bound to be asked. I think you should tell them both at the same time, that way neither of them feels left out and you can all discuss it. Although you may feel that telling your Mum and Dad will be one of the worst things you could do. E.g. it may upset them, they may be angry etc. just remember that everyone makes mistakes, they love you and that can't be changed just because of one mistake. Try not to put any of this off for too long. If an abortion is an option you would consider, there are limits on the length of time you can wait and the sooner the news is in the open, the better you will feel.
DONT KILL THE BABY JUST KNOW HOW THE BABY IS CRYING I THINK U SHOULD JUST TELL YOUR MOM AND TELL UR MOM DONT HIT ME I AM PREGANT
IF YOU DONT KNOW REALLY IF YOU R MAKE SURE
Your under age. You should have been a little more careful. Whats done is done though and I hope you are able to work out what you believe is best. You are your parents little girl. I think they will stick by what ever you want to do. Its not something you can hide for long and not something you can face by yourself. Brace yourself for an awful time but this will pass. The sooner you do something the sooner the difficult time will be over. Remember they are your parents and just want whet is best for you but you also need to remeber its your body your life and your choice what to do. It will be tough whatever happens or is decided. You are still a child yourself and although you think you can still do a lot you will be limited but you will have a beautiful baby. I really wish you well and hope you choose what YOU want to do not what anyone else wants.
Dealing with parents is the easy part. The hardest part is knowing what your options are and what YOU want to do. If you decided on abortion make sure that you are fully aware of what you are letting yourself in for before you go ahead with it. Don't let anyone, including your parents talk you into doing something you DO NOT want to do. It is your choice. You don't know for sure how your parents will react until you tell them. I figured my mum would kill me, but when I finally plucked up the courage to tell her (when I was 3 months pregnant) she was great about it, and she was very supportive. Granted, some parents can be awful when they have a situation like this to deal with, but you have to take control of the situation. Don't be bullied into doing something you don't want to do. If you want an abortion, make sure you know the facts and do it as soon as possible, the longer you leave it, the harder it will be. After 3 months you will have to give birth to it, abortion is still an option, but it will be harder for you. If you don't want an abortion don't let anyone talk you into it. Tell your parents love, the sooner you know how they feel about it the sooner you can deal with it. In the meantime you are just spending time worrying about a reaction that might not happen. Get it over and done with. Worrying will just make you ill. If it makes it easier, maybe you could have a friend or another family member tell your parents?
Good luck
I read your question with great interest, at the end of the day tell mum & dad whats happened ask for their support but the last say is yours. Kids can bring a lot of joy but can be hard work-very hard work.
------------------------------.
Let me tell you our story we are at the other end of the age group we have one son 20 years old then we found out my wife was
pregnant (we are both in our 40's).
Our young son is now 4 years old (big son 24) both my parents
died, inlaws died big son don't help much loverly young lad we both love him but no time for ourselves very difficult.
im 15 and pregnant and i was scared to but i was brave enough to tell them by myself and i didnt have my boyfriend with me because he was to mad and didnt want to do nothing with me or the baby because he was with another girl and look at him now hes happy just think about it but dont have an abortion cause if you was girl enough to open ur legs you should be girl enough to admit your mistake give your boyfriend time if not take hi sorry *** to jail and u be happy and have ur baby there are so many programs 4 teen moms and they will help you alot you just gota look for them if you wana talk this is my email Edeliz4@msn.com and goodluck
it sucks to be you right now but first of all your baby daddy is gonna get his and when you tell your parents please don't lie and say you were raped just tell them that you are sorry and want to give the baby up for adoption no matter how much you want to abortor keep it (it just sounds better when you first tell them). I not saying this because I feel its wrong(I do) but because your so young that if you do this now it will change the way that everyone looks at you and your parents(they still will) but look at it this way
if you abort what if you have a complication and you can no longer have kids you will be bitter at everyone involved and how can you put a price on someones life and soul? and once you terminate you can never take it back and everyone I know that has gotten one regretted it 'cept for this one nasty who had 5 but the 9th grade and people will think that your a killer....or
you can have the baby in a much more safe environment and give it a chance at life with another family who might not be able to have children and it will teach you(more) about responsibility
as far as telling mom and dad you have two choices be a women since that's what you though when you got pregnant or wait til you start showing and get in even more trouble....oh yeah you might want to get a job or find somewhere else to stay cause they might call you out your name and then kick you out the house....I have had more than my share of these expiriences...and be prepared to be seemingly grounded for the rest of your teenage years because as soon as you tell them you may have just lost all of your parents trust.
or if it all works out in a strange matter you might have a misscariage...but do NOY try to induce one it might or might not work and will do more harm than good either way
just have faith I was in your situation more than once and each time I had a misscariage but my parents still love me and your parents more than likely will to but you will need to do some studying on parenting and pregnancy(not in that order)
Good Luck and God Bless You and watch over you
Let's Pretend
'Mum? Dad? Please, I must talk to you both for a minute. Can we sit down please.
I am so unhappy and it's my own fault and no one else.
Bobby and I wanted to do it and we both pulled away but last month we tried it and now I am carrying a baby.
I don't know what to do and it's making me ill with worry.'
(Pause and let it sink in or stop moaning, but if they start firing questions at you say,)
'Please mum I need help and I want your comfort. I feel so miserable.'
(Things calm down)
Let them recover and say, 'Please dad let me make you both a cup of tea while you talk about it.'
If they say they don't want one tell them , 'My mouth is dry and I feel parched,I won't be a minute.'
You leave the room run the tap and have a drink then sit on the floor with your head in your hands and feel sorry for yourself.
When one of them comes in and starts to talk ignore what they are saying and run up to whomever or both and throw yourself into their arms.
Have a cry, and you will want one, and pour your heart out.
You dad will tell you not to worry and your mum will lead you off for a chat.
Wait until they ask about your plans and tell them about the boy's decision. You don't want to marry anyone like that either.
This is me talking now.
Please don't feel bad about this and regardless of what you feel for the boy, you will love your child with a feeling and depth that only mum's know.
You might have to be a little tactful when they try to take over pushing the pram, but let them have a go if they want to, well just for a few yards anyway.
I don't know you and I want to cuddle you just writing this, so I am sure your Mum and Dad will feel the same.
It will be better than Christmas for you every day when your baby is born.
Good Luck and Bless You.
I THINK THE ONLY FRIENDS IN THIS WORLD ITS OUR PARENTS. I THINK YOU TALK TO YOUR PARENTS NICE AND CALM. AT THE BEGIN THEY WILL BE MAD BUT AT THE END THEY WILL SUPPORT YOU. I WANT TO TELL YOU HAVE THE BABY BUT LOOK FOR THE GUY ANYMORE OK?
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