Little boy pees on his feet?
I am a single mum who has just potty trained her son, He is a really good boy going on his potty, but when we are outside & there is no potty around (quite often) - He often either wees himself, or if I help him with his pants - wees on his clothes / shoes! I have no guy in my life to show him (or to tell me how he should do it) so I would love advice on how he should / where he should wee outdoors, and most importantly how I should teach him. I have read similar q's to mine, but I don't even know the basics as to get him started
Step by step please - Lots of love Becky! xxx
Answers:
Hi Becky,
I too like Karen f am keeping a note of all of these answers for when my son reaches this stage (a long time yet!).
I'm sure that he will learn in his own time, what I have learnt in the short time that I have been a parent is that it is amazing how quick they learn new things.
Sorry I cant be any help, but reading the answers from others I'm sure you will both be fine.
Good luck
Sam
Get him to hold his willy to point it away from him.
When out, find somewhere away from everyone else. If in your car, pull over and use the car doors as a privacy barrier.
becky show him how to hold it out h will get it in time be patient with him
Tell him to hold his willy and direct the wee wee away. Tell him it's like a train (the wee that is) and to get it to go down the street. You make it fun and he will learn OK.
tell hem to hold it out from his pants
im no expert, but somthing i feel may work, is to get your son to "aim" at things with his urnie, maybe draw a target on the toilet, or if outside, tell him to aim for a certain leaf, or branch. try playing the fireman game with him, tell him he is a fireman, and he must put out fires with his urine, should get your son aiming better in no time if he thinks its a game.
how old is your son, you need to let him know he has to direct it! either by showing him or telling him if he is old enough.
A friend of mine taught her son to "go" outside by finding a rock or tree to pee on, give him a target.
my son did that but once id asked him a million times if he wanted to go to the toilet he got the message to ask. as for the other part of your question you need to get him to hold "it" whist he pee's
Carry a bag of cheerios with you. You can use them for the toilet by tossing in a handful & have the little guy aim at them. You can also do the same when he is outdoors too. Make a game out of it.
It might sound stupid. But that how a buddy ended up training his little guy.
That's hilarious but dont worry to much about it i pee all over myself most friday and saturday nights and i'm twenty five
He needs a target.
When outside, trees make great targets.
I've never potty trained a boy before but from what I've been told you've gott show them how to hold it out and straight and how to arch their back. I've heard someone say something about putting their knee into the small of the boy's back so he can arch and wee outwards. :) Good luck. :)
get your little boy to lean forward on a tree or wall. with his legs back further it should incourage him to wee away from his feet or you could always rest your finger under neath his privates to encourage him to pee upwards, encourage him to shake when he as finished. if that fails take his trousers of completley then when he is used to peeing properly he will be able to go without taking his trousers of,or you could always buy a potty for him to use out side if he feels comfatable with that. i used to play a game with my son where we would run around saying hold it, hold it, is it still there, keep holding! and befor you know it you are at a toilet. hope this helps
Maybe a grandfather(your dad) or maybe one of your uncles or if you have a brother to show him how this is done! Maybe a friend with a husband or a Friend with a boyfriend who you could ask to help you with this! Good Luck!
YOU ARE NOT ALONE. MY 3 YR OLD SON DOES THE SAME THING. BE PATIENT WITH HIM. THE COLD AIR MAKES PEOPLE NEED TO URINATE, ITS NORMAL. I WOULDN'T PROMOTE HIM PEEING OUTSIDE. PUT A FRUIT LOOP OR CHERRIOR IN THE TOILET AND HAVE HIM AIM FOR THE TARGET. I'M GONNA START WITH MY SON. IT WORKED FOR MY 2 OLDER BOYS. YOU MIGHT NEED TO DIRECT HIS "FIRE HOSE" FOR THE FIRST FEW TIMES TO SHOW HIM HOW TO PUT THE FIRE OUT. GOOD LUCK AND BE PATIENT WITH HIM.
Cheerios, Fruit Loops, any cereal with a circle will work. Keep some on you at all times. When he's ready to go, then place the cereal somewhere and tell him to aim inside the circle. My son did better with Fruit Loops because the hole was a little bigger. It works like a charm.
When a boy copies a male role model peeing, he will automatically stand with his feet apart, this is somthing you will have to try to get him to do, as this will help. All little boys are bad at aiming to begin with, but a ping-pong ball floating in the toilet will help him get better at this (when he gets really good, he can make it spin!), When he's better at aiming it will be easier to get him to pee into a bush, or down a drain outside, if there is nowhere to go, the most acceptable places when there's no toilet.
i am myself going through this with my 3yr old and he now aims his fire hose (he likes fireman sam) at certain object ie stones, cracks in the floor, or if hes at the side of the car he thinks its hilarious to wee up my car tyre
You must be young?
There is a certain comfort to being in your own home and a cetain anxiety involved in being outside of the home and not being positive where a potty might be? and even if he does know, it may be that it's not HIS potty and children are psychologically attached to their "Business."
Sometimes while all that thinking and contemplating is going on. Time runs out on the bladder meter and it just happens.
Children have to learn to USE their bladder and their lower sphincter muscles.
The only way to deal with this is to verbally remind him when you notice him struggling to hold it in. Symptoms include pulling at it, holding it or adjusting it a bit too much, (Boys testies don't fully drop right away and there is not need for a child that young to be adjusting, as a man might, other than a need to pee.)
You have to teach him and it is not a matter of physical differences between you and him. It is actually easier to potty train a boy than it is a girl. THat is just something that you are feeling guilty about and should not internalize it or incorporate into his learning ability.
I put cheerios into the potty and we played sink and float. It got them dead on target and they never missed and always wanted to try. Use his natural competitive nature as a male to play games to get him to the potty on time.
I used to carry jars in the car and stroller in case of just such an emergency. Easy to carry easy to empty better than carrying around a pissy kid too or having to explain it away if he needs to pee on the side of a building!
Omg! I'm so dreading it. My son is 16 months old and I have this fear that I'll be keeping him in nappies until he's about 6 or something stupid! I don't want to go through all this. It sounds like you're having a nightmare. I've took note of the answers for future ref. Good luck...
Get him to practice at home in the toilet shooting cherrios.
Try not peeing into the wind. If his penis is long enough to reach his feet and wet them then you should be a very proud mum.
you need to teach him to aim while he's in the house so when he's outside he will already know you can use cheerios int the toilet and tell him to pee on the cheerios ... also the cheerios will dissolve and are safe to flush
I had to train my daughter and 3 sons. Before the boys reached the aiming it stage, I held them under the knees and armpits and let it hang down. I held my daughter the same way until she was ready to squat herself.
It's quite common you'll just have to persevere God love you,if it really bothers troubles you try pull ups and avoid giving him drinks when outside if possible
Step 1 - EXTREMELY IMPORTANT WARNING: Don't use the word "fireman" or "firehose" or use cheerios or anything like that, that'll make him grow up to be a f@ggot.
Step 2 - every time he pisses on his clothes, slap him in the face and then rub his nose in the pissy clothes.
Step 3 - If he cries, kick him.
Step 4 - If he doesn't learn, resort to making him eat your shite everytime he pisses on his clothes.
I'll apologize in advance for this is going to sound strange - and it might be more than your willing to do. There is a urinary device for females called the freshette. It basically allows you to go standing up, like a dude! It could help you out when your trying to demo for him. It's awesome and really easy to use. It's primarily for travel or camping and is a lifesaver. I have heard that targets really help a kid out, like cheerios in the bowl and such. Possibly do the same outdoors?
The best way is to show him how to aim it . Make a game out of it. Put a piece of tp in the toilet and see if he can hit it.
have him take all his cloths of to pee or get a older couins to teach him how to do it right
let him go in the mens room and use a urinal
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Step by step please - Lots of love Becky! xxx
Answers:
Hi Becky,
I too like Karen f am keeping a note of all of these answers for when my son reaches this stage (a long time yet!).
I'm sure that he will learn in his own time, what I have learnt in the short time that I have been a parent is that it is amazing how quick they learn new things.
Sorry I cant be any help, but reading the answers from others I'm sure you will both be fine.
Good luck
Sam
Get him to hold his willy to point it away from him.
When out, find somewhere away from everyone else. If in your car, pull over and use the car doors as a privacy barrier.
becky show him how to hold it out h will get it in time be patient with him
Tell him to hold his willy and direct the wee wee away. Tell him it's like a train (the wee that is) and to get it to go down the street. You make it fun and he will learn OK.
tell hem to hold it out from his pants
im no expert, but somthing i feel may work, is to get your son to "aim" at things with his urnie, maybe draw a target on the toilet, or if outside, tell him to aim for a certain leaf, or branch. try playing the fireman game with him, tell him he is a fireman, and he must put out fires with his urine, should get your son aiming better in no time if he thinks its a game.
how old is your son, you need to let him know he has to direct it! either by showing him or telling him if he is old enough.
A friend of mine taught her son to "go" outside by finding a rock or tree to pee on, give him a target.
my son did that but once id asked him a million times if he wanted to go to the toilet he got the message to ask. as for the other part of your question you need to get him to hold "it" whist he pee's
Carry a bag of cheerios with you. You can use them for the toilet by tossing in a handful & have the little guy aim at them. You can also do the same when he is outdoors too. Make a game out of it.
It might sound stupid. But that how a buddy ended up training his little guy.
That's hilarious but dont worry to much about it i pee all over myself most friday and saturday nights and i'm twenty five
He needs a target.
When outside, trees make great targets.
I've never potty trained a boy before but from what I've been told you've gott show them how to hold it out and straight and how to arch their back. I've heard someone say something about putting their knee into the small of the boy's back so he can arch and wee outwards. :) Good luck. :)
get your little boy to lean forward on a tree or wall. with his legs back further it should incourage him to wee away from his feet or you could always rest your finger under neath his privates to encourage him to pee upwards, encourage him to shake when he as finished. if that fails take his trousers of completley then when he is used to peeing properly he will be able to go without taking his trousers of,or you could always buy a potty for him to use out side if he feels comfatable with that. i used to play a game with my son where we would run around saying hold it, hold it, is it still there, keep holding! and befor you know it you are at a toilet. hope this helps
Maybe a grandfather(your dad) or maybe one of your uncles or if you have a brother to show him how this is done! Maybe a friend with a husband or a Friend with a boyfriend who you could ask to help you with this! Good Luck!
YOU ARE NOT ALONE. MY 3 YR OLD SON DOES THE SAME THING. BE PATIENT WITH HIM. THE COLD AIR MAKES PEOPLE NEED TO URINATE, ITS NORMAL. I WOULDN'T PROMOTE HIM PEEING OUTSIDE. PUT A FRUIT LOOP OR CHERRIOR IN THE TOILET AND HAVE HIM AIM FOR THE TARGET. I'M GONNA START WITH MY SON. IT WORKED FOR MY 2 OLDER BOYS. YOU MIGHT NEED TO DIRECT HIS "FIRE HOSE" FOR THE FIRST FEW TIMES TO SHOW HIM HOW TO PUT THE FIRE OUT. GOOD LUCK AND BE PATIENT WITH HIM.
Cheerios, Fruit Loops, any cereal with a circle will work. Keep some on you at all times. When he's ready to go, then place the cereal somewhere and tell him to aim inside the circle. My son did better with Fruit Loops because the hole was a little bigger. It works like a charm.
When a boy copies a male role model peeing, he will automatically stand with his feet apart, this is somthing you will have to try to get him to do, as this will help. All little boys are bad at aiming to begin with, but a ping-pong ball floating in the toilet will help him get better at this (when he gets really good, he can make it spin!), When he's better at aiming it will be easier to get him to pee into a bush, or down a drain outside, if there is nowhere to go, the most acceptable places when there's no toilet.
i am myself going through this with my 3yr old and he now aims his fire hose (he likes fireman sam) at certain object ie stones, cracks in the floor, or if hes at the side of the car he thinks its hilarious to wee up my car tyre
You must be young?
There is a certain comfort to being in your own home and a cetain anxiety involved in being outside of the home and not being positive where a potty might be? and even if he does know, it may be that it's not HIS potty and children are psychologically attached to their "Business."
Sometimes while all that thinking and contemplating is going on. Time runs out on the bladder meter and it just happens.
Children have to learn to USE their bladder and their lower sphincter muscles.
The only way to deal with this is to verbally remind him when you notice him struggling to hold it in. Symptoms include pulling at it, holding it or adjusting it a bit too much, (Boys testies don't fully drop right away and there is not need for a child that young to be adjusting, as a man might, other than a need to pee.)
You have to teach him and it is not a matter of physical differences between you and him. It is actually easier to potty train a boy than it is a girl. THat is just something that you are feeling guilty about and should not internalize it or incorporate into his learning ability.
I put cheerios into the potty and we played sink and float. It got them dead on target and they never missed and always wanted to try. Use his natural competitive nature as a male to play games to get him to the potty on time.
I used to carry jars in the car and stroller in case of just such an emergency. Easy to carry easy to empty better than carrying around a pissy kid too or having to explain it away if he needs to pee on the side of a building!
Omg! I'm so dreading it. My son is 16 months old and I have this fear that I'll be keeping him in nappies until he's about 6 or something stupid! I don't want to go through all this. It sounds like you're having a nightmare. I've took note of the answers for future ref. Good luck...
Get him to practice at home in the toilet shooting cherrios.
Try not peeing into the wind. If his penis is long enough to reach his feet and wet them then you should be a very proud mum.
you need to teach him to aim while he's in the house so when he's outside he will already know you can use cheerios int the toilet and tell him to pee on the cheerios ... also the cheerios will dissolve and are safe to flush
I had to train my daughter and 3 sons. Before the boys reached the aiming it stage, I held them under the knees and armpits and let it hang down. I held my daughter the same way until she was ready to squat herself.
It's quite common you'll just have to persevere God love you,if it really bothers troubles you try pull ups and avoid giving him drinks when outside if possible
Step 1 - EXTREMELY IMPORTANT WARNING: Don't use the word "fireman" or "firehose" or use cheerios or anything like that, that'll make him grow up to be a f@ggot.
Step 2 - every time he pisses on his clothes, slap him in the face and then rub his nose in the pissy clothes.
Step 3 - If he cries, kick him.
Step 4 - If he doesn't learn, resort to making him eat your shite everytime he pisses on his clothes.
I'll apologize in advance for this is going to sound strange - and it might be more than your willing to do. There is a urinary device for females called the freshette. It basically allows you to go standing up, like a dude! It could help you out when your trying to demo for him. It's awesome and really easy to use. It's primarily for travel or camping and is a lifesaver. I have heard that targets really help a kid out, like cheerios in the bowl and such. Possibly do the same outdoors?
The best way is to show him how to aim it . Make a game out of it. Put a piece of tp in the toilet and see if he can hit it.
have him take all his cloths of to pee or get a older couins to teach him how to do it right
let him go in the mens room and use a urinal
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