14 an long distance aint gonna work?
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Explain that adult relationships are monogamous and that if she doesn't want her boyfriend to meet other girls then she should act the same way with other boys. If they want it to last, it will. Your daughter is old enough to make her own decisions, and if its the case, mistakes. This should not be down to you.
It is only 10 weeks, so it isn't the end of the world.
She is 14, so tell her that she is young and that this shouldn't be her top priority. Summer is a busy time. Be patient and see what happens later on when they are reunited.
tell her she is young but the real reason is that she can not drive to see him
She will see on her own. Unfortunatley girls this age are "hard-headed," so most of the time they don't listen anyway. That is how we all develop through personal experiences. She will be sad at first, but it will soon subside. Tell her to try to have fun, and if it is meant to be, their relationship will be stronger despite the seperation.
Could you try to learn English for starters? Encourage your daughter to meet lots of people. She is too young to even be dating let alone involved with one person. The only way she will learn about guys is to know all kinds of different guys --- as friends! Maybe you could throw a little party and she can invite boys and girls over. Please supervise them. She needs you to be a parent, not a friend. She already has friends.
unfortunally she will have to learn by experience that things like these don't work. if you try and stand in her way she will just be resentful and stick her head in the sand more, it will make her more determined to stay with him. don't make her do anything that will jepardise her safety or get her in dangerous situations ( you wouldnt want her to get pregnant would you!), but for the rest of it be there to watch over her from the sidelines and she'll come to terms with the "eventual" end of the relationship in time.
if she has to spend the summer being upset about it, so be it, it's the only way she'll learn not to make the same mistake again in the future
tell her to see his point of u and atleast be open with him if she does want to date other guys
When you have forever, whats the rush.
10 weeks is nothing, it's hard, but it will fly by, it's not like there splitting, there just going to be apart for a few weeks.
They should both do there things, enjoy themselves and think of all the things they have to tell each other when they see each other again.
works if its true luv
trust in the lord and support ur kid. if u interfere u mite lose your bond with ur daughter.
She will forget all about him after the first 2 weeks, she will meet someone else and it will be over. I was 14 not so long ago and the same thing happened to me. If its really ment to be then they will make it work when they come home and see each other. Lots of things can happen in 10 weeks.x
I think she's just to to learn these things for herself, all part of the rich tapestry of life ;-) If you've advised her nicely thats all you can do. When I Was 14 I had been going out with a girl who then moved to America haha, but we did love each other, but then she cheated on me after being away for about 3 months, guess I loved her more than she did me. I know it was very remote that it would have lasted, but it still hurt a lot.
Afterall she's 14 so old enough to go out with boys and make her own decision, just gotta be there for her and go with it I think. Being there to support her whatever happens is the main thing.
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