Help!! im 16 and might be pregnant!!?

i no it seems like i already asked something simuler to this but i now have more details right i missed the pill about 1 month ago and had sex before i realised i had a period on the 9th september lasting for nearly 2 weeks and then had another 1 on the 26th as suggested by alot of people on here i did a pregnancy test and it came back negative and i went to the doctor and he said to wait 2 weeks and do another 1. im so scared incase i am pregnant as i will have to stop going to college and my mum will go bannanas. i dont really seem to have any symtoms except for i have been feeling a little bit sick and i have very mild pains in my lower abdomen and 1 of my nipples is a little sore. i dont know if i am imagining these things as i am so worrid or if they really are happening has anyone ever got pregnant while being on the pill?and do you think it is likely that i am pregnant?please help as it is killing me not knowing. please only give sensible answers as i really need advice

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my daughter came home at 16 and dropped the bombshell "mum I'm pregnant"it was last thing i wanted to hear ,she was taking the pill but forgot to take it the odd day here and there.i 've stood by her and the baby is nearly a year old.now My daughter was in the middle of a hairdressing course at college she finished her first year and went back to start her second year in September baby due December".big bump "it wasn't easy and definitely not recommended but if you have a supportive family and partner it doesn't have to be the end of the world.I'm really proud of my daughter she has passed her hairdressing course and now her driving test.maybe you could go back to college after the baby is born .its not impossible to finish college just alot harder but if you want something enough you have to work hard to get
wat!!!! omg!! u 16 and u pregnant!!!
Your mind is playing tricks on you with those symptoms.
if you done a test in in came back neg then you probaly aren't they are very acurate! maybe do another one just in case!
that serves you right for not using a condom. just coz you take the pill you should still use a condom.
why DID U HAVE SEX AT 16 !!
U should have waited till ur married
I know it's hard to wait, but thats really the only way to know for sure. Try one of the early detection pregnancy test.
Oh! Cross ur fingers and pray nothing happens. Also, consult ur doctor asap. Even if something happens you can get it aborted. Ask ur partner to have it safe each time you go ahead.
You don't need our advice. You are seeking comfort and sometimes only time can bring it. My best advice though would be to hope for the best and plan for the worst. Everything can work out well no matter what the outcome is. Have faith in God and yourself. Good luck and may God bless you.
16? i had my first baby at that age.. and my 3rd baby was a "pill baby" so if the test come back neg. stop having sex then next month do another test and if neg. you are good to go. but remember if you are going to play the game you have to pay. so stay on the pill and maybe try other things like condoms. it's not easy raising a baby when you are a teen so think of your schooling and your parents and friends before you say yes to a boy. there is plenty of time for sex later after you get out of school.
yea i agree, it may be your mind, it may be just the stress or you may be pregnant. i'm living proof that you can get pregnant on the pill. i'm not trying to scare you though sweetness.

once you get through this scare, remember it always and use condoms as well as the pill. you know the pill doesnt protect against std's and aids. think about that. ur too young to have these worries.

i wish u good luck though! *hugs* dont stress too much, that only makes it worse.
i think it is your mind playing tricks on you.

You have had a period already, 2 in one months, which baffles me.


They do say that you should do a test three weeks after the unprotected sex.
You probobly have nothing to worry about. Depending on what pill you are on, it may be to strong for you. That could be the reason you had such a long period and have these symptoms. If your hormone dose is to high it will make you feel a little bit sick, and breast tenderness is a side affect of the pill.
I went through a simaler situation last month and i just went and had my pill changed to a lower dose. Im fine now. So talk to your doctor, get another test done, and if it comes back negative again change your prescription and you should feel better.
People need to back off of you a little bit really, they do. It will be ok either way, I promise you hun it will be fine. I first got pregnant when I was 17 and I was already set to go into the Marine Corps. IF you are pregnant, you will still be able to go to college. Yes, your Mum will probably have a REALLY hard time at first, but it will be ok after she has time to accept it. Now, back to your symptoms. When I was pregnant with my first daughter I didn't realize I was pregant until I was 16 weeks along because I was having a period every two weeks, I thought that was odd, but didn't talk to my Mum about it. My Dr began running all types of tests on me and did a routine prenancy test, I was scared to leave the Drs office with my Mum because I thought she would kill me, seriously, lol. Some of the things you are mentioning sounds like you may be pregnant. Two people in my class got pregnant while on the pill. It's not always as safe as they act like it is, not to mention who is really to say if the pill you were on was working for your system, it may work for millions of women, but not work on thousands. Drs don't mention these things, because most of them are just in it for the $$$ I think you should wait until October 9th or so & then do a test. A negative so soon may be a false negative. There ARE false negatives, but NEVER false positives. Take Care :)
Well you might be or you might not be but plenty of other girls and women have babies in far worse situations. You are naive if you think you have to stop going to college just cos you got pregnant, loads of women go to college, and work etc despite being pregnant. In fact you should take a look at today's papers, one of the magazines, think it is the one that came with the People, is chronicling a girl who got pregnant had a baby at 13. Last week's papers there was a girl of 17 had triplets, so if you don't want it, cross your fingers that you are not pregnant, and if you are pregnant, then learn to handle it the mature way. You felt old enough and mature enough to have sex with someone, you need to be mature enough to deal with the consequences.
Here is a sensible answer: Yes, you can get pregnant while taking the pill. If you have a bilious attack with diarrhoea, the pill will be of no use. Also, as in your case, if you forget to take it, you are possibly no longer covered for the month, so always abstain or use condoms for at least a month. Not a bad idea to use them anyway, even with the pill if you have several partners - better than catching stds
Worrying could cause your period to be late, so try and relax until your period comes.
As a Grandmother, I know how nervous you are at the thought of telling your Mum if you are pregnant. I have been on the receiving end of such news and although I wasn't pleased, I was determined to support my Son and his girlfriend, (later wife). Give your Mum the chance to do the same for you.. she will eventually find out anyway and be even more hurt at you not telling her sooner.
Good luck.
Don't worry.and don't want to visit doctors also. Go to the medical store and ask for the pregnancy self checking equipment (I really forgot the name of that equipment). Collect your urine (early morning, after wake up, the first one). Put 3 drops in the middle of that instrument (You can see a white paper in the middle of the instrument), wait for 3 minutes. After 3 minutes, if there is 3 red lines appear, and then the result will be positive (It means you are pregnant). If there is no colour changes, Result will be negative. Weather it's less than two months, tablets are available for abortion, with out any pain.
i don't think that you have anything to worry about, if you have done a test already and it was negative then its unlikely that you are pregnant, but it is possible to also get pregnant while you are on the pill even though its 99% safe but there is always that 1% risk and as you had intercourse without your b/f wearing a condom as well as missing the pill the risks are increased, i believe the symptoms you are experiencing are due to the stress you are going through over all of this so i can only offer you two pieces of advice, the first is to do another test if this one comes back negative then your not pregnant as you will only get a positive result if the hormone HCG is present and that's only present in your body when you are pregnant, or you could ask your doctor to do a blood test for you as well, my second advice is to always have protected sex, don't just rely on the pill if your b/f wanted to wear a condom you should have let him because you wouldn't be going through all this stress now, anyway if you need to talk about things message me and don't stress things will be OK good luck.
unfortunately the only thing you can do is wait for the test. i can imagine that you must be so worried. please try not to think about it until you are able to do the test. you may be feeling sick and pained due to the stress of worry, you dont know if these are pregnancy symptoms yet.
as for college, nothing should stop you from going to college. if you are pregnant you could study up until the end of your pregnancy and resume afterwards. a good education is very very important. I think if you are under 19 years old then your local authority has an obligation to help you with continuting your studies. your college will probably have some advisors that you could talk to about being pregnant also.
dont despair, there are a lot of people you can talk to. start with your gp. if you are not happy with your gp, go to a different one. it is your choice.
again, if you are pregnant, your mum probably will go bananas. it is a huge responsibility raising a child, and a mother always wants the best for her children. getting pregnant young is a worry that most mums have for their daughters, but that does not mean that the mums will love their little girls less. keep a smile on your face for the time being until you find out one way or the other. i wish you all the best.

this is from the childline website: "It can really help if you talk to someone in your family, a carer, one of your friends or maybe a teacher. And you can call our helpline on 0800 1111 at any time."
you have in effect chosen to have a child by your actions. If you are having a child congratulation, you are doing better than me.
Hope your relative treat you well.
Best of luck
Hi, yes I got pregnant while on the Pill. I guess your only option is to wait a while like the doctor said. If you've had a period in the last month, you probably are not pregnant. When you get pregnant, menstruation ceases altogether for most women. Good luck!
hey i was in the same situ an i have a wonderful daughter i am a single mum it is hard i had no symptons didnt know i was pregnant till i was 8 weeks even then tests were neg dc can check your bloodi had a scan to to be sure so just make sure it is very hard when your young
Ok well at least you are 16 and at a resposable age and you know what you want in life well i think this could just be a mind game, but as i aint no doctor i would do another test and ask the doctor to take blood sample best wishe kristomann :-)
you should be able to detect your pregnancy after 1-2 weeks after missing your period. Why don't you wait for another 2 weeks and do another test. Do you feel tired most of the time? I am 11 weeks pregnant and some of the symptoms are lethargy, sore breasts, occassional mood swings. If you are really pregnant, please opt for an adoption if you can't keep the baby.
you might just have to wait to take a test, things go through your mind when you think u are so you start to believe things that arent really there, but just get a test or go to the doctor to take one, and hopefully u will get your answer! good luck on yours, and i will keep you posted about my situations
wow! you know, you are probably pregnant. you have the symptoms. you should really sit down and think this through, as it is a very serious situation. you are young and you have a lot going for you. im not trying to discourage you, but you will have to care for your child- financially and you have to be there for him/ her. i was only 17 when i got pregnant on my first time having sex. i was so distraut. i did graduate, but i couldnt go to college right away like i wanted.
you know, its not the end of the world-pregnancy, it couldve been worse for me. i couldve gotten aids or something. but i now have a baby who is 4 months now. it is so hard for me. she doesnt have a father. i work, i come home to get her and i am just exhausted. i have to pay darn near $150 a week for her daycare. truthfully, its stressful and yes sometimes i have regrets, but i love my baby so much and i wouldnt give her up for the world. its easier if you have your husband or babys father there for you. he can work or pay child support and you can stay home and nuture baby or vice versa, but a lot of women, like myself are doing it all alone. i just wish you the best of luck and i hope it goes well with you and if youre not pregnant, please thank god and learn from this and wait!. i know this sounds impossible with you being in high school and alround sex all day, but try, ok? think about your future. you want to go to college and you dont want to dissapoint your parents or have to put your life on hold. im not trying to sound harsh, im just trying to tell the truth. stop the cycle!

thanks for reading and thanks for helping me with my question.
love ashley
negative tests can be false..i had 5 with my last one..do another test or ask the doctor for a blood test..your mum should be the best person to help you..of course she will probably go mad at first but after the initial shock im sure she will calm down, but there is no point in telling her untill you are sure.if you are pregnant try to have someone with you when you tell her and present it in a positive way, that you know its a shock to her but all children are welcome once they arrive..good luck sweetheart and i hope it goes o.k for you
You may very well be pregnant. Then, you may very well not be. Thing is, you can't change the past. If you are pregnant, then there is nothing you can do about it. So, use protection until you know for sure, and if you aren't, continue using protection. Yes, this is a wake up call either way. 16 is young regardless if you have finished high school or not. You're still a kid yourself. If you aren't ready, adoption is an option and I believe that it is in God's will. If you aren't pregnant, be aware that the pill is only like 99.3 percent accurate. Stop worrying right now because if you are, it isn't good for the baby and if you aren't, it isn't good for you. Get your mind off of the problem at hand and do something fun. If you do turn out to be pregnant and you decide to keep it, it will just be a little postponement to your plans. You can still have a future. It will be harder, take longer, and you will be poorer, but, it isn't like its the end of the world. God bless you.
Hi, first of all calm down! Stress can be the cause of aches and pains and sickness so try and relax. Are you still taking the pill? If so, you will still have periods of sorts as it is the break in taking the pill that makes you bleed. Good pregnancy tests can detect the pregnancy hormone 3 days before your period is due. If you are really worried and dont want to wait, find the test you can do 3 days before your period is due.

I think, if you are still getting negative results you are not pregnant. Tests nowadays are so good.

I also think you should confide in your mum. You will really need her support and as a mum of a teenager, i would rather know right at the beginning than find out after other people have found out.

Good luck and p.s. there is no reason why you should give up college. I decorated the nursery, up a ladder (not a sensible thing to do I have to say!) the day before I went into labour.

Good luck xx
It doesn't sound like you're pregnant, but you could be. RELAX.at least you're done with high school. You could stay in college until there's a problem, then give the baby up for adoption. You're too young to take care of a child financially and emotionally.

If you are pregnant tell your mom ASAP, she'll just get mad if you hide it. Good luck, I hope you're not pregnant!
I think you are just worried about it so much and hope your not so much that you a deceiving yourself. If your test came out negative then you are probably not pregnant at all. The symptoms have tricked me a thousand times because pregnancy symptoms are the same as PMS symptoms. So, don't go by symptoms go by the hpt and doctors answers. Its simpler. Just relax okay. Keep me posted if it helps to talk it over, im going thru stuff myself and im married and 28 years old and mine are worse. Good luck

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