Ive been trying to conceive for 20 months , and nothing! any tips?
Ive had a child already - 8 years ago - and have decided id like another , ive had tests (fallopian xrays , blood tests etc. ) and so has my partner and we are all fine - yet nothing for nearly 2 years .help!
Answers:
Maybe its time to step back and take a break-you could be trying to hard. Maybe taking a trip and forgetting about it for a while. The other thing you may want to consider is if you want to try another route with medications. It depends on how strong your desire is. There is no guarantee and if medications don't work--how far to you want to go? It would be wise to check into your insurance to see if certain procedures (hormone medication) etc is covered and how much is it covered. Is adoption a possibility? Also you might want to check into the adoption tax credit. These routes can be expensive and whether or not you want to invest the time and money and emotionally and if you and your husband or significant other can handle it is another consideration. It took my husband and I three years before we conceived. We had all kinds of tests and didn't find anything wrong except the post coital test in which the sperm were dead. I also tried IUI (intrauterine insemination) twice and it did not work. In vitro was our next step and since we didn't have time on our side we went through in vitro fertilization at 39 and I got pregnant with twins. We had transferred three embyros. One was little on the small side which was baby "B" and baby "A" was in a huge sac which is my son I have today Michael who is 7 years old. I turned 40 two months after I delivered and if I was to try again my doctor told me no more than six months on my own. Our finances and circumstances dictated things differently. We settled for the one and never tried again. We are happy with the one. Good luck.
Adopt - there are many kids who need loving families all over the world.
Unless you are NOT MARRIED -- you referneced you partner not your HUSBAND --
Do not have kids if you are not marries.
Relax. you might be trying so hard, that your body is rejecting conception. You need to relax and be calm, so that your body can prepare itself for the eventual pregnancy. GOOD LUCK!
well first of all i know its tough but stop trying and start enjoyin!! dont look at is as im trying for a baby, enjoy your sex life!! when you start to fink thats it cant have them it will happen! when you have sex apparantly if your partener takes you from behind(dont mean to be crude)and your head is more to the floor its meant to be the ,ost popular way to get pregnant? heard that off alot of people? also watch your diets too xxx also keepin the male testicles warm can also increase fertilty!!xxxx good luck xx hope it happens soon xxx
You ned to find out when your window of opportunity is best within your cycle then baby smile and bang away. It will happen if you lay back and relax. Stress is a great inhibitor of many things
see your obstetrician or gynecologist to make sure you are capable of conception.
the more u try and think about it ..the hardest it gets.i had the same problem 4 4years and i couldnt stop thinking.didnt leave 1 test.but when the dr told me.it will take more time and that i needed more treatment.i stoped every thing left it 2 god and had avacation from thinking.believe me i was pregnant the same month the dr said i couldnt
Gravity honey. lay on your back and put your fanny in the air. Help those sperm swim down.
ok i have a son that is 9 and i got with my partner when he was 3 we tried for a long time and nothing all the test sperm count e/thing finally i just gave up and just put in my head maybe it wasnt meant to b but, one nite i went out with some friends and came home relaxed had sex to really just enjoy and next thing i knew i found out i was pregnant. i have a 9yr. old and a 3 yr.old maybe if u can invest in a fertility monitor. good luck!!!!!
Enjoy sex more. During orgasm, the chemistry in the vagina becomes much MUCH friendlier to sperm. The vaginal walls also contract and stay that way for a good hour.so get your rocks off first before he does and it doesn't matter how, then he's got about an hour of a very "friendly environment" for his little soldiers to come up with an attack plan and carry it out.
Doctors will recommend (seemingly illogically) the woman be "on top". The simple reality is that women orgasm easier in this position which is far more meaningful in conception than the gravity swimmers. Even if half the seminal fluid leaks right back out, the stuff that remains will be more than happy to cling to the spongy walls and frolick in the Ph-Balanced fluids.
Also, make sure the sperm are in top training shape. Lots of natural sugars (fruits), lay off the heavy meats, ESPECIALLY fast food, and the highly acidic stuff like soda and artifical citrus drinks (get your vitamin C from vegetables). Spicy food, however, is a plus (like small amounts of Cayenne pepper or garlic).
The best advise it to stop trying. As soon as you stop the pressure of trying to get pregnant you will. thats how it always happens!
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Answers:
Maybe its time to step back and take a break-you could be trying to hard. Maybe taking a trip and forgetting about it for a while. The other thing you may want to consider is if you want to try another route with medications. It depends on how strong your desire is. There is no guarantee and if medications don't work--how far to you want to go? It would be wise to check into your insurance to see if certain procedures (hormone medication) etc is covered and how much is it covered. Is adoption a possibility? Also you might want to check into the adoption tax credit. These routes can be expensive and whether or not you want to invest the time and money and emotionally and if you and your husband or significant other can handle it is another consideration. It took my husband and I three years before we conceived. We had all kinds of tests and didn't find anything wrong except the post coital test in which the sperm were dead. I also tried IUI (intrauterine insemination) twice and it did not work. In vitro was our next step and since we didn't have time on our side we went through in vitro fertilization at 39 and I got pregnant with twins. We had transferred three embyros. One was little on the small side which was baby "B" and baby "A" was in a huge sac which is my son I have today Michael who is 7 years old. I turned 40 two months after I delivered and if I was to try again my doctor told me no more than six months on my own. Our finances and circumstances dictated things differently. We settled for the one and never tried again. We are happy with the one. Good luck.
Adopt - there are many kids who need loving families all over the world.
Unless you are NOT MARRIED -- you referneced you partner not your HUSBAND --
Do not have kids if you are not marries.
Relax. you might be trying so hard, that your body is rejecting conception. You need to relax and be calm, so that your body can prepare itself for the eventual pregnancy. GOOD LUCK!
well first of all i know its tough but stop trying and start enjoyin!! dont look at is as im trying for a baby, enjoy your sex life!! when you start to fink thats it cant have them it will happen! when you have sex apparantly if your partener takes you from behind(dont mean to be crude)and your head is more to the floor its meant to be the ,ost popular way to get pregnant? heard that off alot of people? also watch your diets too xxx also keepin the male testicles warm can also increase fertilty!!xxxx good luck xx hope it happens soon xxx
You ned to find out when your window of opportunity is best within your cycle then baby smile and bang away. It will happen if you lay back and relax. Stress is a great inhibitor of many things
see your obstetrician or gynecologist to make sure you are capable of conception.
the more u try and think about it ..the hardest it gets.i had the same problem 4 4years and i couldnt stop thinking.didnt leave 1 test.but when the dr told me.it will take more time and that i needed more treatment.i stoped every thing left it 2 god and had avacation from thinking.believe me i was pregnant the same month the dr said i couldnt
Gravity honey. lay on your back and put your fanny in the air. Help those sperm swim down.
ok i have a son that is 9 and i got with my partner when he was 3 we tried for a long time and nothing all the test sperm count e/thing finally i just gave up and just put in my head maybe it wasnt meant to b but, one nite i went out with some friends and came home relaxed had sex to really just enjoy and next thing i knew i found out i was pregnant. i have a 9yr. old and a 3 yr.old maybe if u can invest in a fertility monitor. good luck!!!!!
Enjoy sex more. During orgasm, the chemistry in the vagina becomes much MUCH friendlier to sperm. The vaginal walls also contract and stay that way for a good hour.so get your rocks off first before he does and it doesn't matter how, then he's got about an hour of a very "friendly environment" for his little soldiers to come up with an attack plan and carry it out.
Doctors will recommend (seemingly illogically) the woman be "on top". The simple reality is that women orgasm easier in this position which is far more meaningful in conception than the gravity swimmers. Even if half the seminal fluid leaks right back out, the stuff that remains will be more than happy to cling to the spongy walls and frolick in the Ph-Balanced fluids.
Also, make sure the sperm are in top training shape. Lots of natural sugars (fruits), lay off the heavy meats, ESPECIALLY fast food, and the highly acidic stuff like soda and artifical citrus drinks (get your vitamin C from vegetables). Spicy food, however, is a plus (like small amounts of Cayenne pepper or garlic).
The best advise it to stop trying. As soon as you stop the pressure of trying to get pregnant you will. thats how it always happens!
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