Girls, not found your ideal man. Would you consider marrying a very handsome/kind gay man who wanted a family?
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OMG - yes I would. Perfect scenerio, a good friendship is often missing in marriage as well as common goals and ideals. Sex is only a part of marriage, companionship is everything.
Yeah! Then he could cook and clean and buy me nice gifts that he would know I like. I told this to my friends and they thought I was crazy though.
How long would this gay man stay, just long enough to have his baby, then leave? Think of the risks ladies! Mine left after trying to have it all, (being heterosexual, he thought), now I'm struggling financially, etc., while he's out having fun with his male partners, blah! BEST ADVICE: TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF, YOU ARE SMART CAPABLE WOMEN! Don't depend on others!
Absolutely. (But if you get to have a boyfriend on the side so do I.)
I actually did this once, but the man in question was a very bad husband and a worse (step)father- leaving porn in the video machine where the kids could discover it, filling up the bathroom with pot smoke every damn morning, he quit his job and didn't work for six months and wouldn't even watch the kids during that time, and sat home buying stuff on the home shopping network all day without contributing to the household budget (he didn't cook or clean either, otherwise I woudln't've minded so much).
I tell people (and it's the truth) that his sexual orientation had absolutely nothing to do with our divorce. (He became openly gay after, I didn't out him.) I would be perfectly happy married to a gay man because I believe marriage is about companionship, cooperation, honesty and respect, not about sex. So if that man was my friend and willing to work at maintaining a smoothly running household and family (and budget) I'd be all for it. And I'd love to adopt more kids, but alas, I can't carry anymore because of health reasons.
no, because the sex i'm sure would be awful, the man wouldn't really be into it, and would most likely leave you after he got what he wanted. living a lie is never good.
yeah...they arent at all dickheads like straight men are...if you are happy..then just get married to him.. good luck!!
Interesting question.true story.I don't have this issue and have a wonderfully content, heterosexual marriage. My sister, on the other hand, we are ALL nearly positive her husband is gay. NO ONE in the family would ever say this to their faces. She seems very unhappy and I KNOW the issue is not financial. I think it would be okay if they were both open about it, at least with each other. I think it would improve their relationship, but doubt it would cause them to part. They have been the very best of friends since childhood and have a beautiful child together.
It hurts to see my sister so unhappy with her best friend. Worse, it makes me sad to think how it will eventually effect my sisters child.
I don't see anything wrong with it. If you're looking for love and acceptance in an established, beautiful family, without hang ups, here is wishing you well in your pursuit!
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