What should i do falling pregnant 7 months after my last one which i had at 17?xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx?
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first of all don't panic i know lots of people this has happened to just decide what is the best option for you right now, discuss it with your boyfriend/partner then make and adult decision based on your thoughts and feelings. this can be done so you'll cange more nappies big deal i have faith in you go for it girl and good luck xx
Stop having sex.
Learn from your mistakes!!
learn to say no or get that stutter sorted
stop having sex
Learn how to use birth control or condoms!
And love your two children~they didn't ask to have a parent that didn't know how to take care of them or herself.
stop get n it pushed n u
get yourself fixed or be smart enough to use protection
keep ur legs closed, lol!
Learn about contraception
condoms damnit
I thought of saying something like stop having sex or use protection but those are just flippant so I'll leave that kind of comment to the other plebs <lol>
you have a number of considerations - putting it up for adoption, bringing it up yourself, having an abortion. Those are the obvious ones. Of course the best suggestion is speak to your mother and the father (if you're still seeing each other and on speaking terms of course) and decide together. You could always go to a family planning clinic for advice, as well as free condoms incidently, plus there are a variety of helplines and advice lines and centres you could choose.
Hope it helps and good luck.
You need to be breast feeding you next child for at least 2 years, and up to 4 years. Your chances of developing breast cancer in your 30s has gone up several hundred percent with each child born while in your teens. The female body is not fully ready to be pregnant until age 24. Breast feeding helps repair the damage to your immune system, caused when the baby is suppressing your immune system to prevent your body from expelling it.
Stop and think how it happened! Thats correct, sex. Stop having sex! I bet you still live at home with mom and expect her to help you out babysitting while you're out having more sex.
its a bit late to ask now.
you need to think if you can cope physically, mentally and financially with 2 so close together.
good luck
:-)
Seriously, how hard (no pun intended) is it to use contraception? you silly girl.
You should have your *** kicked. GET ON BIRTH-CONTROL PINHEAD!! {I can't believe I just said "pinhead"..but I couldn't leave my first choice..Don't tell her that I think she's a complete idiot who has no business reproducing!}
Look for your family for support.
Love your children.
Try to get an education.
My friends has two children, ages 3 months and 13 months. Yeah, really close. She is 19 years old. She doesnt regret having them but knows it makes her life very hard, and will be for the next 19 years or so!
She is now taking some night classes, her mom watches the children while she is in class.
There are programs to help you out, if you want to continue your education.
Good luck
use protection
Have an abortion and after that use birth control.
And stop handing it out like there was no tomorrow.
You're making yourself cheap!
I think you should have the baby and if you don't want it give it up for adoption. There are very many people who are unable to have babies that want one. DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTION! I am telling you that you will regret it forever. I got pregnant at 17 and had her then I had my middle daughter when I was 18. I could not really afford it at the time but between their daddy and me working we managed.
Well you haven't been the most responsible of people have you? At the end of the day you have a child to look after and another one on the way. You will just have to hope that you have supportive family, friends and partner.2 children are alot of hard work. I suggest you talk the situation over with your midwife who will know what help is available. I really do wish you all the best but please go straight on the pill when this baby is born.just think of the well being of your children. xx
BIRTH CONTROL.. are you married? silly question. honey you need to talk to someone before you completely ruin your life. where is your mother? if you want to talk email me offline. you have so much potiental. please use your head and not your body. women have come so far yet some persist in staying stuck in the old rut of barefoot and pregnant. women can do so much more. we are empowered to change our lives for our own good. how much education do you have? second child at 17 is not a good thing. please don't throw your life away. there is so much our there now that can help you find your own way in life and not rely on anyone but yourself. you are capable of doing this. we all are. i don't personally believe in abortion for there are many adoption agencies for that. God gave the baby to you, whether it be to raise or to adopt out. there are many choices so please take time to think over your life and decide what is important in life to you and do something to make your life better for you and the child you already have. think about them first and how you can improve the life you are giving them.
let God guide you and let him help you make the decision that is right for you. he will not steer you wrong.
honey i hope i have helped you and i will pray for you. good luck.
blessed be,
Elizabeth
I fell pregnant with my daughter just 8 months after my first daughter was born.You may not think you can cope but you will.There are always people you can go to for help eg(health visitor) friends, family?Good luck.I know you can do it.
use condoms
depends, do u want it? Are you in a relationship with the babys father?
do you think you could cope with another child?
if you want a chat contact me,
Wow. You're probably going to get alot of flippant answers, or have alot of people point you to an abortion clinic, so you'll need to proceed with some caution here.
First, consider it done. You're pregnant again, so you need to see this thing through. The major decisions have already been made (to be sexually active, to use or not use any birth control - and if you did use birth control, it obviously wasn't an effective method). What you will need to decide is what's best for your children..the one you already have, and the one who is already on the way.
Are you financially, emotionally, spiritually grounded enough to take care of yourself and them, or do you need to consider giving them up for adoption? Is your family willing to help you, to take on the care of these children while you attend school and prepare yourself for a job that will enable you to support your family? Be as brutally honest with yourself as you can..there are worse things than giving children up for adoption, and there are many loving families who can't have children of their own who would be eager to take care of your babies.
If you do choose abortion, then do so with your eyes wide open. Don't buy into the lie that this baby is merely a clump of cells that it's okay to flush out of your body when it isn't a convenient time to have a child. Abortion IS murder, don't believe anything that tells you otherwise. I won't tell you that you don't have the choice, I'm just saying know what you're doing to the baby and to yourself if you decide to do it. Looking at the baby you've already have should tell you the truth about this...
Finally, ask yourself this question: Why do I keep getting pregnant? I'm sure you understand the basics of procreation, and how to prevent such an occurance from happening. There are too many reliable methods widely available to you for this to keep occuring.
Are you trying to get someone to commit to loving you? Young ladies who have sex and continue to get pregnant outside of marriage are usually trying to compensate for something they don't have enough of from other sources..love, understanding, people who are committed and faithful and accepting towards you.
Love and respect and committment don't come from a roll in the hay, no matter how lofty it makes you feel for awhile. Even having children isn't going to make anyone stick with you if they don't want to..
So it becomes a question of learning to love yourself FIRST. Don't open yourself to more hurt and more responsibility than you are prepared to handle. Love yourself enough to find a young man who cares more for YOU than for his penis. If he can keep his pants on until he walks you down the aisle, then you know you've got a keeper! Someone who loves you the way God intended for you to be loved - not just physically, but in every way. And sacrificially - because true love doesn't take to satisfy only itself (as these boys are currently doing to you), but it gives up something to take care of and love someone else..a boy whose willing to wait on you isn't a boy, he's a man. And a man with the kind of heart it takes to make you feel truly cherished, loved, and respected. Everything you should have in this life!
And whether you think so or not, you ARE a special young lady worth loving and being treated with respect. But if you don't treat yourself with kindness first, then don't expect it to come from others around you. Be kind enough to yourself and to your children to break the current cycle and leave this sort of lifestyle behind you..stop having sex until you're married, and stop having children you aren't prepared to take care of.
I spoke with hard words to make the point in a short amount of time allotted to me here, but not with a hard heart. I care about you and hope you'll choose what is best for you AND these precious babies.
what do you want to do? after you have had this baby either stop having sex or take precautions there is no need for anybody to get pregnant if you dont want to there is plenty of birth control around USE IT!!
Learn how to use birth control or condoms. Better avoid sex.
You will always find a way to cope, challenges are what life is made of.
For goodness sake get some birth control after this child or stop having sex.
i knw ppl in school who are brothers or sisters or bro/sis in same yr but arnt twins. tahts coz thety have an 11mnths gap between em. knw like 5 ppl like that in school. brave to do so but are u up for caring fo rboth. can u manage financially and emotionally and physically. take care and good luck with ur choices.
try to be less of a stupid bi-tch next time
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