If you were 13 years old and someone told you that you looked 18 what would you think?

do you think that looking older as a young girl is a good or bad thing?

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"Where's the nearest bar?"
i'm in
or go to the pub
its allright. but u should think 13 not 18
A good thing, but why would you want to look older before your time, life your life.xxx
lets face it you are only 13 so even if you are told that you look 18 makes no difference why do you want to wish your life away ?
I've been told the same thing. Just don't think anything about it.
its bad
i would borrow my mums anti aging creams

or make a profit selling teenagers that cant get served alcohol! £1 a bottle..
Hmmmm..
I guess it is good.but if someone is telling you thirty when you are twenty only..then be careful..
Been there. I was always told I look 5-6 yrs older that what I was. As I aged, people now are shocked to find out how old I am. They tell me you don't look like you that old. I've been told in the last couple of months, What are you about 36-37? I am going on 46 yrs. So it's not a curse. Just take care of yourself and you skin..And ENJOY being 13. It goes by really really fast..
It would depend on who said it. My first thought was of a pedophile trying to impress some poor kid.
Id think he was trying to get into your knickers!
BAD THING!. if it is a guy, he is after something. I would run the other way. Enjoy being 13, it only happens once and you will be 18 soon enough. Besides should you act 18 and you end up pregnant, then you will wish you had never listened.
When I was 13 I thought that was a good thing - always a compliment to look older. Now that I AM older, its always a compliment to look younger. But being young goes by so fast, dont try to act older than you really are. You'll get there all too fast without hurrying.
well. I was 14 and had a 25 year old guy try to buy me a beer. i guess it would depend. if it was a guy/lesbian then i would hink that i am very good looking. if it was a straight woman then i would think that i should look at myself and see if i am dressing just a little too mature formyself..

looking older is a good and bad thing. looking older can get you into some sticky situations, where as it can help you out too (people tend to respect women more than young girls)

just be careful about how you use this double edged soward.
i got that alot because i was tall i take it as a compliment my brother once was 12 and if you want to drink at this bowling ally you have to get a wrist band and when the guy asked him it he wanted on he told the guy he was 12 and the guy was amazed
if it was a man telling you that , stay away from him his only after one thing and at 13 your to young for what he wants!
i think looking older as a young girl isnt good you should look your age dont rush to look older than you are, i have just turned 28 and still get asked id when i go out for a night out, it gets on my nerves abit but i love looking 10 years young than i am.
i would think yyyeeeesss, im goin out clubbin. but also dont grow up so fast, enjoy bein a kid whilst u still can as u will regret it later.
bad thing
if it is a man that told me that I would thing that he is trying to pick me and is using that as an excuse so he is not appear sick
but other wise if someone told me that and I use to wear maycup I would stop
I would change the way I dress and do my best to look my age
at least not 18
for a woman looking older is not a compliment
I was 30 and was being ask for ID
I am 37 now and finally made it where I am told that I am 28
If I was 13 years old, I would have the thinking of a 13 year old, which means I would not be thinking very clearly or with any real wisdom, so I would p robably be flattered. But I am waaaaaay older than 13 so I know that when somebody tells a 13 year old girl that she "looks 18" (usually it will be a guy) it means that the guy is wanting her to act like18, and we all know what that means. It also tells me that he is thinking ahead, and just in case he gets found out doing something he wasn't supposed to be doing with that girl, he is getting ready to say that the girl TOLD him she w as 18.

Unfortunately 13 year olds are not able to see these things for what they are. But being much, much older, I can tell you right now, if any guy EVER starts sweet-talking you and telling you that you look 18, he's a low-life who is up to no good bigtime.

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You are about to hear the opinion of a 30 year old ok? I would think he is a child molester, or he wants to make you feel good so you do something with him, I would also think about myself as..what am I doing wrong that I look older? have you consider the kind of clothes you wear? the people you hand out with? the TV shows you watch? I remember when I was 13 years old, I was still playing with dolls, I was really into school and sports, I tried to keep myself busy away from "adult stuff". You are a child only once and you have hte chance to enjoy it only once. There is nothing wrong with looking older as a young girl, it happens all the time now a days but it has a lot to do with how you dress, how you wear your hair, at that age girls are using make up and well there will be a time for that trust me, once you get older you'll see how there is a time for everything, enjoy your childhood, you don't want to be 18 and look like 40 do you? I would stay away from those guys who are telling you this things, just tell your parents, believe me, they wont get mad, they like it when you have the confidence to get close to them and let them know what is on your mind.
it's okay but don't start thinking you can go to bars!! lol!!!!
anyways think like a 13 year old not n 18 year old!!!
It's OK to look 18 but the problem is that grown men will then look at you like a woman and that's not as cool as you might think.
I wouoldn't really like to look THAT older but there isn't really anything bad about it that's just the way you are. If it bothers you, try to dress diferent or something to make you look younger.
I was 13 and someone told me I looked like I was 24. I'm 15 now but I never really thought much of it. Looks are of no importance. Just remember you are 13 so act like it not 18.
"holy **** im aging fast!!"

its not nessecarily a good thing. imagine wat ud look like when u were 30 yrs old.
if a 13 year old is being mistaken for an 18 year old then she probably needs to ease up on the make up a little
when your young you will prefer to look older as it makes you feel more mature, but as you get older you dont want to lose your youthfull looks, so dont be bothered by it unless by the time your 18 you look 30 lol
I don't really pay much attention.When I was 12 this guy from the local university came up to me and thought I was 23.I just shrugged it off.It's not bad unless you try really hard to look 5-6yrs older.
Firstly, I'd think they were trying to get into you're pants.
and 2ndly, looking older at a young age, does have its pro's and cons, pro's as you can sometimes get alcohol (ha ha) but a con as people will expect you to be as wise and mature as an 18yr old and expect you to act and think a certain way.

I think its better to look your age and to keep to a really good skincare regime,k DON@T SMOKE (gives you premature wrinkles !) and have a good healthy diet so that when you get older (late 20's/ 30's/40's) you look younger.

I was like you..looked older when I was in my teens, but kept a good diet, don't go over board on the drink, keep a good skincare regime and have NEVER SMOKED and now I'm in my early 30's, people think I am about 22-23, Which is Great ! :)) (have even been asked for ID in shops and pubs once or twice which I suppose you could take as a complement at my age - but embarrassing for those that have asked once they found out he he!)
If it's a boy I would think he was trying to get something from you like sex. You are going to look how you look. are you tall? It's not a bad thing, it's just the way it is.
Enjoy being thirteen. Be a child because life flies by way to fast. One day you look in the mirror and you are someones mother. Thirteen was a good year for me. I played with dolls, rode my bike and did chalk drawings.
he is a dirty pg tell him to fu..ck off

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