Trying to have a child?
Me and my partner have tried and tried. Can any one tell me why I can't consieve. We actually have been trying for like 6 months. He has had babeys befoure. I am 24 and he is 35. Sugeastions of why I cant or sugestions of how we can try harder. Tricks! Ways what ever somthing that works please.
Answers:
Good luck, but you may not be ready to have a child if you can't spell baby...
just a thought.
Well.. I can tell you that I tried for around three years without any luck then all of a sudden.. I'm with child for the second time! But I'm sure you dont want to wait even close to that long so my suggestion is to chart your ovulation at mymonthlycycle.com or buy a ovulation monitor. I didn't try this method which I hear works extremely well. I just thought I could not have children but my doctor informed me that unless you have very irregular periods or something abnormal about your uterus or something down there than you should be able to have kids that 9 times out of 10 its the male shooting blanks which in your situation is not the problem because your man has children. Also I have learned that there are some women who ovulate once a year or not every Month and that the time frame in a month to conceive is a small one any way it will happen good luck!
Oh and I want to appoligize for the rude comment the girl above me made. Dont listen to her it is amazing that people can think of something mean to say in every situation.
I got pregnant by a chainsmoking p*ss artist, so if I can do it, so can you :-) My top tip is to a) have sex on the day of ovulation, b) make sure you give yourself a decent orgasm stright afterwards to get those swimmers up there! Then don't get up for at least 8 hours.
If this is successful, do let me know ;-)
My other suggestion is that if you've just come off the Pill, it might take some time for your body to adjust.
The answer to your question is. DON'T TRY!!! My partner was 31 when we first met and i was only 20, he had a 9yr old daughter to a previous relationaship and we had unprotected sex for the first 3yrs and i never fell pregnant, and i wasnt on any form of birth control at the time either, then one rainy night he was (REALLY) drunk (i wasn't), and we conceived a beautiful little girl who is now 3 1/2yrs old. Both decided we werent going to have anymore kids and 2yrs later. on another night when he was "VERY happy"(drunk), we conceived again, this time a boy (now1) and am now preg with our 3rd due in 12wks time.
Moral to my story is get him really drunk on a rainy night and have your way with him then (as silly as this sounds) lay on your back with your legs straight up in the air for 5-10mins, thats how we conceived EVERY time. as stupid as it sounds it works as i have recommended this technique to friends of ours who were also having trouble conceiving and 7wks later i got a call from her saying she was 3wks pregnant. if your desperate anythings worth a try.. Goodluck. :-)
On average, couples will conceive 25% of the time the first month, 60% of the time within 6 months, and 80% of the time within the first year. It's never 100% guaranteed that you'll fall pregnant straight away, so don't stress yourself out if it hasn't happened for you yet. The best time to try is when ovulation has just happened or is imminent. Ovulation typically occurs on the 14th day of your cycle, although you can buy ovulation predictor tests/strips from most chemists if you're unsure or don't have regular periods. Good luck! :)
To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your fiance to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your fiance to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
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Answers:
Good luck, but you may not be ready to have a child if you can't spell baby...
just a thought.
Well.. I can tell you that I tried for around three years without any luck then all of a sudden.. I'm with child for the second time! But I'm sure you dont want to wait even close to that long so my suggestion is to chart your ovulation at mymonthlycycle.com or buy a ovulation monitor. I didn't try this method which I hear works extremely well. I just thought I could not have children but my doctor informed me that unless you have very irregular periods or something abnormal about your uterus or something down there than you should be able to have kids that 9 times out of 10 its the male shooting blanks which in your situation is not the problem because your man has children. Also I have learned that there are some women who ovulate once a year or not every Month and that the time frame in a month to conceive is a small one any way it will happen good luck!
Oh and I want to appoligize for the rude comment the girl above me made. Dont listen to her it is amazing that people can think of something mean to say in every situation.
I got pregnant by a chainsmoking p*ss artist, so if I can do it, so can you :-) My top tip is to a) have sex on the day of ovulation, b) make sure you give yourself a decent orgasm stright afterwards to get those swimmers up there! Then don't get up for at least 8 hours.
If this is successful, do let me know ;-)
My other suggestion is that if you've just come off the Pill, it might take some time for your body to adjust.
The answer to your question is. DON'T TRY!!! My partner was 31 when we first met and i was only 20, he had a 9yr old daughter to a previous relationaship and we had unprotected sex for the first 3yrs and i never fell pregnant, and i wasnt on any form of birth control at the time either, then one rainy night he was (REALLY) drunk (i wasn't), and we conceived a beautiful little girl who is now 3 1/2yrs old. Both decided we werent going to have anymore kids and 2yrs later. on another night when he was "VERY happy"(drunk), we conceived again, this time a boy (now1) and am now preg with our 3rd due in 12wks time.
Moral to my story is get him really drunk on a rainy night and have your way with him then (as silly as this sounds) lay on your back with your legs straight up in the air for 5-10mins, thats how we conceived EVERY time. as stupid as it sounds it works as i have recommended this technique to friends of ours who were also having trouble conceiving and 7wks later i got a call from her saying she was 3wks pregnant. if your desperate anythings worth a try.. Goodluck. :-)
On average, couples will conceive 25% of the time the first month, 60% of the time within 6 months, and 80% of the time within the first year. It's never 100% guaranteed that you'll fall pregnant straight away, so don't stress yourself out if it hasn't happened for you yet. The best time to try is when ovulation has just happened or is imminent. Ovulation typically occurs on the 14th day of your cycle, although you can buy ovulation predictor tests/strips from most chemists if you're unsure or don't have regular periods. Good luck! :)
To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your fiance to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your fiance to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
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