I'm 31 + still not had kids..will i regret if i don't have them?



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Depends if you want them, that's something you have to decide.
you might
Coming from me, I think you will regret it. Or you can just adopt.
i say do what you want to. and plus. you can always adopt.
I'd think you will regret it if you have them! Kids=no life!
I'm a bit older and in the same boat.
I don't know.. will you?
are you female?....children are the most fulfilling aspect of life .have some children!!
i don't know I'm 28 and have 4 but my sister is 37 and she regrets not having any
the world is your oyster my friend, no ties and nothing to hold you back. live!!
if you think you'll be happy without kids then dont worry about it!
It depends with the kind of person that you are. Do you like children? Do you think about ever having a child? i think at least one child would be good because there is nothing like the experience of having your own son or daughter and that love connection that you have with your kid is so special!
You might regret it, it depends a lot on your personality, your goals in life and if you are committed to someone who wants a family.

Even at 31+ you have a lot of time left to decide to have kids. After 35 or 36 your eggs start to degrade, but that doesn't mean you can't have a happy healthy baby.

Kids are great, but if it's not for you, don't feel guilty about it.
If you've wanted kids, you'll regret it.
I know I'll regret it if I don't have kids, I've always wanted them.
Yes. I think everyone should experience it atleast onces. If you don't have kids.. you need to pay life back by adopting or working in a care center at a hospital for newborns. To care and love a child is a life altering experience that can never be understood until you experience it yourself.
Depending on what you want out of life, it's a definite possibility. You still have plenty of time to work that one out though. Just weigh those pros and cons
You are still young enough to have kids. It really depend on you. Mostly you will b/c you took the time to post this. So mostly you will.
That is up to you. My wife and I do not have kids and we do not regret it. We are in our 40's.
why dont you adopt some kids maybe it is not meant for you to hace kids like me i want a lot of kids but with the way my life is going i can not have any so i am thinking about adopting. better to give love to some one instead of no one
You do not have to have kids just because you can.
If you think you might regret it, then you probably will. The thought would not have crossed your mind if you weren't already regretting it in some way. Think positively, you have many years of childbearing left but remember, the rate of premature birth and defects rises as the age of the mother increases.
My guess is that if you have the slightest misgiving now about not having had any, I'd say there's a very good chance that in the future, yuo will regret it quite a bit. It may even haunt you.
no kids cost alot of money keep you up all night and you have to keep them for years buy a nice sports car instead that the best thing to do
Well I am in the same boat as you, I am married and 28 and no kids, and I keep thinking. Geesh they are so hard to take care of, I love kids and have great nieces and nephews, but I do realize it is a lot of work. So I keep waiting, not sure what I am waiting on. Actually I would like to adopt. Goodluck and I believe you will know when the time is right have a sister in law who waited till she was 35 and a cousin who did also, and they are great parents I think age helps with raising them also, I am sure I will get to hear how a 18 year old is a great mother, but I think you appreciate them and have more patience when you are older, I believe if you are really young, you are still selfish. Which we are suppose to be. Goodluck!
It depends on your gender. Female usually wants kids.
Who say's you HAVE to have kids to be happy? I know quite a few adults, both single and married, who are perfectly fine without children. Of course, it also depends on the individual. Do you feel that having kids is the only way for you to love and nurture someone or something? Why not a pet or two?
you still have time! Plus, adoption is always an option. But only you know that answer to that!
That's all personal choice. Kids are not meant for everyone..
Depends. Do you think that you will want them?
if you're a woman then you'll regret it

if you're a man you'll eventually figure out that children are boring, expensive and annoying and that you're better off not having them because the world is already grossly over-populated
No-one can answer that for you. but I'm 33 and still dont regret it. I knew from a very early age that I didnt want them. If you are the same I would say no you wont regret it. Dont have them because you think you should. Thats why there are so many f*cked up kids on the streets!
We are all different. I would say that if you have no burning NEED to have kids, then don't.

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