Why do women complain about Childbirth?
When 'Her indoors' was up the duff, i had to do the dishes, hoover and make the dinner, while she sat on the sofa watching Richard & Judy. Who's getting the bum deal out of that?
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I can see where you are coming from, in some ways. After I had my second child, we went home, picked up my other daughter, then I went home and cleaned. I knew people would be over there. This was the day after I had my daughter. But for some people, it can be rough on them, depending on how long the labor was, if this was their first child, or their pain tolerance, or just plain laziness. I have seen women who have sat on their butts, even two weeks after having the kid. Not all people are alike though. If it is within a week of her having the kid, then you should understand. Then if she still continues to sit around, you should stop helping so much. But when a woman is pregnat, it is tiring, and painful. It doesn't hurt for a man to help out sometimes, never asked my hubby to help much though..God, I got screwed on that deal! Please give me my 10 points now!
You are. But it's your fault anyway.
ummmm, WTF? I don't understand your question.
How about next time YOU have the baby?
ok well i would love to see a man actually go through the pain of labour. lets see who complains then!
lol imagine giving birth to a watermelon outta ur butt and u will know what we go thru.
You try carrying around 6-10lbs of baby in your abdomen and then answer your own question.
'Cause it hurts like hell. you big dummie. I glad she gets to rest some. :o)
Women aren't supposed to do more than they feel comfortable doing during the last trimester. I feel sorry for her to have such a nasty husband/boyfriend.
Ha ha its all about give and take! Just sympathise with your partner she has got to the point she has to watch Richard and Judy!!
i'll tell you what pixie!When you can push something the size of a melon out of hole the size off eggish, then you will get the bum deal until then shut up and hoover under the table!! MEN
Oh My God!!
Try squeezin a watermelon outta your *** after carryin it around for nine months, periodically kicking you and makin you need to wee!!
Let the woman complain if she wants and relax when she wants
Aww. Poor dear. Did you really have to do the dishes? Now that's just not right. I bet she wakes you up sometimes getting up in the middle of the night for feeds too.
I'd just move out till the kid's 20 if I were you
Because it HURTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
Its uncomfortable, tiring, constant back ache. You try carrying a bag of potatoes round ur waist for 24 hours and then try telling that u don't feel tired.
I pity ur missus. But good on her for resting. And why shouldnt u do the house chores anyway!!!!!
I hope she divorces you.
Still her. You had your 10 seconds of pleasure and thats it. She, on the other hand has 9 months of discomfort, pain, bad circulation and nausea and then there is the agonising pain of childbirth and the general feeling that all she is is a milk dispenser. And you are complaining about doing a wee bit of housework? and why are you only helping her when she is pregnant? why don't you help out all the time?
You try getting something the size of a melon, out of something thats 9cm and you see how much you'd complain!!
SO you had 9 months hardship - who looks after the baby now? I bet its not you!!
So caring and considerate partners will do the dishes, hoovering and make dinner. Just like you are. Well done you.
lets see.. right now my nipples feel like they are on fire, boobs weight about 30 lbs, my vaginal area feels as though there's a 25 lb. bowling ball sitting in it, which causes my thighs to ache NON-STOP, every 20 minutes or so my entire belly tightens up like a vice-grip is holding it, my feet don't even fit into my old navy flip-flops, my shoulders & neck hurt continuously from carrying the 30 lb boulders in my bra, ever time i eat i get heartburn, and I would LOVE TO HOOVER, do DISHES, and make DINNER if you could only be as strong as me & carry a baby.. but God has a reason for everything. Make dinner, vacuum, do some laundry & give your wife a great big kiss! She's doing a lot more work than you are right now.
Ha. Show your missus his question you asked, let her kick you twenty times, hard as she can, in your bollocks, then you see if you can understand the pain.
But I know you're havng a laugh.
Feel sorry for you, you had to put up with Richard Madely whining on in the background though (whining! Ha, remember when he got done fpr shop lifting, doing trolley dashes with bottles of wine? Apparently his wife was a bit of an alchy - maybe she was pregnant at the time, and craving.)
Look no sympathy here!! Well i would say she may of taken advantage of you..
WOW you are going to be the worst father. EVER!
There isn't anything that they normally do that they can't do while pregnant, its laziness pure and simple, of course if its a high risk pregnancy then that's different.
Err hello, have you actually been through childbirth yourself? I guarantee you would complain if you had to push a baby out of you!!
First of all labor and childbirth takes so much physical energy and it is much like being worked to the point of death. It hurts, badly! And it takes up to 8 weeks for a woman's body to fully heal, especially after a C section. Don't complain about having to pick up slack around the house when your wife/girlfriend just pushed something the size of a small watermelon out of a space originally the diameter of a quarter. If you had to go through labor, you'd scream in pain.
and your sat on your **** asking stupid questions like this. The floor looks grubby, time for bleaching, you aint washed out the tide mark you left in the bath, the rim of the toilet could do with a good clean, tidy out the airing cupboard coz your wife cant find **** since you have been doing it. The cooker needs a clean, the dog needs walking...and make your woman and cup of tea you lazy piece of ****.
u should do all that ,after all she caring ur baby and is going to give birth and that's alot of work on its own,so let her rest,mined u i work up to the week b4 i had my son done me no harm
After giving birth a woman needs time for her body to heal. My sis in law had six children, did not complain about the births at all and she still needed a few weeks after to get back in the swing of things.
Grow up and be a man, stop whining.
So for 9 months in your life you had to do what she does for you on a daily basis I'm guessing. Dont be so selfish you have no idea (nor can you ever know) what it is like to be pregnant. Grow up, I feel so sorry for your wife, what a caring, sensitive, loving, understanding husband she has!!
it doesn't get any easier but i don't know what they complain about the missus was in labour for 3 hours gave birth to our lovely son and i didn't feel any pain whatsoever, they just use it as an excuse.
Because it hurts like hell! you have no idea, and cannot have any idea what it is like to hurt that much. so suck it up and help out and be thankful your wife is not in the hospital. Childbirth could kill her, and she could lose the baby if she does too much, be thankful for what you've got ok? honestly, you men never cease to amaze me
you are setting yousrelf up for some angry answers here i think...lol
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Answers:
I can see where you are coming from, in some ways. After I had my second child, we went home, picked up my other daughter, then I went home and cleaned. I knew people would be over there. This was the day after I had my daughter. But for some people, it can be rough on them, depending on how long the labor was, if this was their first child, or their pain tolerance, or just plain laziness. I have seen women who have sat on their butts, even two weeks after having the kid. Not all people are alike though. If it is within a week of her having the kid, then you should understand. Then if she still continues to sit around, you should stop helping so much. But when a woman is pregnat, it is tiring, and painful. It doesn't hurt for a man to help out sometimes, never asked my hubby to help much though..God, I got screwed on that deal! Please give me my 10 points now!
You are. But it's your fault anyway.
ummmm, WTF? I don't understand your question.
How about next time YOU have the baby?
ok well i would love to see a man actually go through the pain of labour. lets see who complains then!
lol imagine giving birth to a watermelon outta ur butt and u will know what we go thru.
You try carrying around 6-10lbs of baby in your abdomen and then answer your own question.
'Cause it hurts like hell. you big dummie. I glad she gets to rest some. :o)
Women aren't supposed to do more than they feel comfortable doing during the last trimester. I feel sorry for her to have such a nasty husband/boyfriend.
Ha ha its all about give and take! Just sympathise with your partner she has got to the point she has to watch Richard and Judy!!
i'll tell you what pixie!When you can push something the size of a melon out of hole the size off eggish, then you will get the bum deal until then shut up and hoover under the table!! MEN
Oh My God!!
Try squeezin a watermelon outta your *** after carryin it around for nine months, periodically kicking you and makin you need to wee!!
Let the woman complain if she wants and relax when she wants
Aww. Poor dear. Did you really have to do the dishes? Now that's just not right. I bet she wakes you up sometimes getting up in the middle of the night for feeds too.
I'd just move out till the kid's 20 if I were you
Because it HURTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
Its uncomfortable, tiring, constant back ache. You try carrying a bag of potatoes round ur waist for 24 hours and then try telling that u don't feel tired.
I pity ur missus. But good on her for resting. And why shouldnt u do the house chores anyway!!!!!
I hope she divorces you.
Still her. You had your 10 seconds of pleasure and thats it. She, on the other hand has 9 months of discomfort, pain, bad circulation and nausea and then there is the agonising pain of childbirth and the general feeling that all she is is a milk dispenser. And you are complaining about doing a wee bit of housework? and why are you only helping her when she is pregnant? why don't you help out all the time?
You try getting something the size of a melon, out of something thats 9cm and you see how much you'd complain!!
SO you had 9 months hardship - who looks after the baby now? I bet its not you!!
So caring and considerate partners will do the dishes, hoovering and make dinner. Just like you are. Well done you.
lets see.. right now my nipples feel like they are on fire, boobs weight about 30 lbs, my vaginal area feels as though there's a 25 lb. bowling ball sitting in it, which causes my thighs to ache NON-STOP, every 20 minutes or so my entire belly tightens up like a vice-grip is holding it, my feet don't even fit into my old navy flip-flops, my shoulders & neck hurt continuously from carrying the 30 lb boulders in my bra, ever time i eat i get heartburn, and I would LOVE TO HOOVER, do DISHES, and make DINNER if you could only be as strong as me & carry a baby.. but God has a reason for everything. Make dinner, vacuum, do some laundry & give your wife a great big kiss! She's doing a lot more work than you are right now.
Ha. Show your missus his question you asked, let her kick you twenty times, hard as she can, in your bollocks, then you see if you can understand the pain.
But I know you're havng a laugh.
Feel sorry for you, you had to put up with Richard Madely whining on in the background though (whining! Ha, remember when he got done fpr shop lifting, doing trolley dashes with bottles of wine? Apparently his wife was a bit of an alchy - maybe she was pregnant at the time, and craving.)
Look no sympathy here!! Well i would say she may of taken advantage of you..
WOW you are going to be the worst father. EVER!
There isn't anything that they normally do that they can't do while pregnant, its laziness pure and simple, of course if its a high risk pregnancy then that's different.
Err hello, have you actually been through childbirth yourself? I guarantee you would complain if you had to push a baby out of you!!
First of all labor and childbirth takes so much physical energy and it is much like being worked to the point of death. It hurts, badly! And it takes up to 8 weeks for a woman's body to fully heal, especially after a C section. Don't complain about having to pick up slack around the house when your wife/girlfriend just pushed something the size of a small watermelon out of a space originally the diameter of a quarter. If you had to go through labor, you'd scream in pain.
and your sat on your **** asking stupid questions like this. The floor looks grubby, time for bleaching, you aint washed out the tide mark you left in the bath, the rim of the toilet could do with a good clean, tidy out the airing cupboard coz your wife cant find **** since you have been doing it. The cooker needs a clean, the dog needs walking...and make your woman and cup of tea you lazy piece of ****.
u should do all that ,after all she caring ur baby and is going to give birth and that's alot of work on its own,so let her rest,mined u i work up to the week b4 i had my son done me no harm
After giving birth a woman needs time for her body to heal. My sis in law had six children, did not complain about the births at all and she still needed a few weeks after to get back in the swing of things.
Grow up and be a man, stop whining.
So for 9 months in your life you had to do what she does for you on a daily basis I'm guessing. Dont be so selfish you have no idea (nor can you ever know) what it is like to be pregnant. Grow up, I feel so sorry for your wife, what a caring, sensitive, loving, understanding husband she has!!
it doesn't get any easier but i don't know what they complain about the missus was in labour for 3 hours gave birth to our lovely son and i didn't feel any pain whatsoever, they just use it as an excuse.
Because it hurts like hell! you have no idea, and cannot have any idea what it is like to hurt that much. so suck it up and help out and be thankful your wife is not in the hospital. Childbirth could kill her, and she could lose the baby if she does too much, be thankful for what you've got ok? honestly, you men never cease to amaze me
you are setting yousrelf up for some angry answers here i think...lol
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