Why does he want a one night stand,not a relationship?
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Because:
-he's waiting for something better.
-he's not feeling "it".
-he's getting what he wants (sex) without having to put the time into it.
-you are too clingy.
-you are moody.
-you are high maintainence.
-even though you want a relationship, he still gets what he wants by leading you on.
-you're both too young.
-he's had a bad experience before and doesn't want to go through it again.
-men are from Mars and women from Venus, therefore if he wanted the relationship, you'd have wanted the one night!
-he hasn't had time to get to know you (if you had a one nighter after a party/night out/etc).
Hold out, don't be tempted. The longer he waits for it, the more he'll want it, the more time he'll put in to get it, the more he'll get used to your presence, the less he'll think about sex and spend more time thinking about how much he loves you---then you give "it" to him, with interest! (Unless he's like me and gives up and finds another henhouse to raid--which sucks because you give up on your first true love to forever wander around searching for her equal)
He is a pig.
Cause he's a horndog.
Because relationships probably do his head in!
They do to me!
a lot of guys just want sex. if they can get sex from a girl in one night then they don't see any point in pursuing a relationship.
beasue you gave him an impression or that he does not really like you.
most men just want a piece thats it!
Simple.. He doesn't like you enough to have a relationship with but wants to have sex with you. Do you offer it to him on a plate? Men will usually sleep with girls even if they don't fancy them particularly. Sorry but it's true.
instead of looking at him look at yourself.
Is there something there that might make him want to run?
Why do you want a relationship with him if he won't go the first step? You're better off without him...
Since every thing is so easy and available in western community.. there are no social or religious rules to control the way you behave towards others, and therefore it is ok if somebody be sooooooo careless about otheres feelings and needs
Because people are going through different stages through their lives. You cannot force someone to WANT something. You can't change what he wants, unless he changes, some time.
It's just the way guys are built. We like sex, but don't necessarily want to turn it into a long-term relationship.
Yeah, we men are pigs, I admit it.
But if you look long and hard enough, you'll find a man who does want a relationship.
because he's a stupid idiot mother-******-son-of-a-*****
Because he is afraid of a relationship
There's alot of guys out there that are looking for relations not relationships why u ask? cuz that's how he feels
tosser dump him.
The heart wants what the heart wants! No explanation is necessary or possible. At this time of his life, he thinks he is a player. If you are looking for a relationship, then decline his offer. You will just get hurt if you believe there is a chance to make this into something deeper.
Just look around for a while. There are plenty of guys who would love to have a relationship with a nice woman. Don't waste your time and emotional energy on the players.
Because you wanted to open the door for yourself.
Or more specifically because your mothers couldn't abide a world where women and men were seperated by roles based on gender they became breadwinners and family decision makers and most importantly thet determined what was appropriate in courtship and the pursuit of a woman. With all masculine behavior scoundrelized it makes no difference to a man how he behaves. As he has no decisions or control in courtship he has not motivation to pursue anything serious with you. As Marriage has been changed from an admirable achievement in a man's life to a pitiable end to his manhood men will avoid anything that resembles the approach to this terrifying prospect.
He obviously does not like you enough for a relationship, I know this sounds harsh but it happens to everyone.
Stop the one night stands and find someone who is looking for a relationship.
he's a low down pig dog and he don't respect you. don't give him either, he's just thinking of himself the sexist pig, if your worth one then you're worth them all. get yourself a good bloke and then he'll see what a tw4t he's been and change his ways.
Well would you rather he lie to you and keep you hanging on and feeling all those things about him, to only find out one day he's been lying to you all this time? Accept it and move on, it's a good thing.
If you are a girl that is willing to have a one night stand there is the trickle down effect in this situation. A boy that doesn't have much respect for himself and others and is too insecure to form a relationship.will seek the one night stand type of girl because she also has no respect for herself and has low self esteem...If you are willing to put yourself out there sexually without expecting more for yourself in the first place then you have put yourself into this cycle of disrespect and one night stands..
Stop worrying about what he wants and why! What do you want? A relationship? Then don't start out with a man who doesn't want to be in one or you're handicapping yourself from the start.
I'll be the first to admit I can't really explain why we women seem to be addicted to changing men. Nine times out of ten it is NOT going to happen. Only you can decided, of course, but do you want a relationship or a project? Good luck!
because he wants every girl n u r on his list. leave him
because most of mens attention span last as long as the hard on
you see love, some times our tryst are made in such a place which are ,nowadays, more popular for such pleasure. your involvement and presence will categorise yourself into such group and vice-versa. the other reason is the social cycle thesedays has made people more aware of many situation and nobody wants to be a fool. you nor me. give it some good background and lengthy of time, i'm sure you will find something out of it. but quick decision are rarely accountable.
Great question!I will read all answers because I am in the same situation.I keep thinking of things like :we have a great chemistry but maybe he is scared to have a relationship because he will be stuck with one person and will have too much responsibility,maybe he doesn't know me too well to be sure I am the right one,maybe he just wants to f. me.Again,awesome question!!
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