Why do most women fall in love with married men or men with girlfriends?
women are often attracted to men who are already married or who have girlfriends. is it because they love competition or they find something special in such men?
Answers:
Easy.Its natural selection.A large proportion(not all!) of women want the best mate ie the male who all other women judge as the most attractive and most likely to give them attractive children.These women face stiff competiton to get mates ,and this inturn drives them to take bigger risks to get them.As these men are usually taken then the women compete to displace eachother.If the guys not married or has not got a girlfriend then he is not judged to be worthy material and will be left alone,why bother with what nobody else wants.The same is true for women.A large proportion of men will compete for beautiful women,and rich or good looking guys usually stand the best chance of winning.The truth is a single male can father as many kids as he can find women who will let him.A woman can only have so many children and in this day and age where one or two are the norm the woman wants the best.Its risk verses reward.
Surveys of speed dating revealed that out of thirty males less than twenty percent scored significantly.When the women got together to discuss who they thought was the best and recast their votes less than five percent got any dates.Women significantly influence eachother verbally hence the proliferation of fashion ,celebrity and lifestyle mags.
No, it's because they are selfish and stupid and they get what they deserve.
They are sluts and only want one thing.
Maybe its cause these are the ones that are off limits? Perhaps there is a certain quality these guys possess by being willing to commit that other women find attractive.
becasue they are tramps
I am definately not one of them, why would i bother to waste my time?!
They are the good ones. They are not taken because they suck at being hitched.
its more exciting when u see someone from behind someone else's back
because unavailability is very tempting.
.women ALWAYS want what they can't have!!
Maybe I'm wrong but I don't think it's either. I think that they fall in love with the person.who just so happens to be married or taken. That's the main reason, in my opinion.
Its there Stupidness.Foolish people do that.They think there is no guy
Becouse if you are a girl and love a married man, you are absolutely shore that he wont tell another people what in going on!
I find this married man at my work very sexually attractive.
Its the whole 'naughty and restrictive' thing. If a man is taken - it makes him much more sexually appealing because its a no go zone. Its a challenge.
Going for married men means you personally have nothing to lose. Its not you thats going to get hurt. This sounds harsh but its true. You know where you stand. Its risky and just plain fun!
Getting that naughty feeling, gets me so sexually aroused for this man at work (he is 40 and I am 25).
Speaking of which..I havent come onto him yet. I know he likes me..by the way he glares at me. Should I make the first move?
No.
It's because they're idiots.
If a man is taken.Get your *** in gear to find a new one.
want what they can't have
the whole married man thing has a dangerous kinda will you get caught risk i suppose. its living dangerously for those with little imagination!
not most.
what you are seeing is women that want
what belongs to some one else!
fear of real commitment some, others just enjoy being homewrackers
because they know that a married person has a good experienced especially in romance. they know also that they knows how to care. woman liked a guy who will care for them no matter who is she. woman should be love not hurt especially their heart.
well this happen to me one time my bf was involve to a gilr and thier about to have a baby.. when this guy try to courts me and i feel a lilbit insecure about the girl so i say yes.. and we had some fun for a month then i realize that i don't want to ruin hes relation with hes gf and besides thier about to have a baby so i let the guy go.. so i think women love guys who are already commited to some one because of the competition.. and they really good in bed thou.. (-.-)
I am glad I am NOT among those most women you are refering to!
One more thing. Why point fingers on women! What about men who are easy and unfaithful! Men who have wives and girlfriends and are easily seduced by other women!!
They are usually selfish and disrespectful.
Is because the men who have these affairs are often out for all they can get and will lie, charm and connive there way into a woman's heart.panties.. or whatever. Women should always steer clear from men who are spoken for for 2 reasons. female solidarity and the simple fact that the men who are willing to have affairs are not worth having.
because you see these people with their partners and the way they treat them and its sometimes how you wish to be treated. also quite exciting to think that this person who is 'married' finds at interest in you. quite flattering really. makes you feel some confidence in yourself.. but really messes up both lives..
I also notice women flirt more if you are with a girlfriend.
hmmmmm..
They find more experience and variation with married men.Also they like competition and thrill.
I really don't think this is true, thinking of my personal experience and all the people I have known over the years.
But if I was looking for an answer could prove you right, I'd say the biological imperative to find a suitable mate. If someone is already taken it must mean they have the potential to be a good mate.
Also we are less restricted by social conventions now in the west, so there is more opportunity without the down side of, say, being stoned to death.
Interesting question.
It is more the allure of something they should not have (I would say cannot have but that is not the truth). There is only a small amount of competitiveness with the hunt and the chase. Women who pursue men who are taken have a destructive nature.
because sometimes its the men that flirt. They know they are safe and taken care of in a relationship so they think they can afford to flirt a little, play stupid games with women, tease them and then go home to their partners. If then men didn't give any vibes to women and have sexual banter with them the women would get a clear understanding that this man is not on the market and then she would stay away. Although she might just be a tart and thick skinned!!
maybe it's because these women seek men who know what love is.
I doubt that it is MOST women who do that, in fact a woman would never do that, but an adult female child would. It is a bit of the dangerous man syndrome, it seems exciting. but remember, dangerous "men" are only ever dangerous to women and children.
as to why they do it, it is because they have no sense of propriety, have low moral standards and are selfish self centered creeps. Just like the adult male children who do the same. Perhaps they may grow someday into men and woman, perhaps they never will.
married man are hot unlike those who are fresh & they drive you crazy.you see its really hard for a 'boy' to satisfy you & you end up teaching him how to do it
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Answers:
Easy.Its natural selection.A large proportion(not all!) of women want the best mate ie the male who all other women judge as the most attractive and most likely to give them attractive children.These women face stiff competiton to get mates ,and this inturn drives them to take bigger risks to get them.As these men are usually taken then the women compete to displace eachother.If the guys not married or has not got a girlfriend then he is not judged to be worthy material and will be left alone,why bother with what nobody else wants.The same is true for women.A large proportion of men will compete for beautiful women,and rich or good looking guys usually stand the best chance of winning.The truth is a single male can father as many kids as he can find women who will let him.A woman can only have so many children and in this day and age where one or two are the norm the woman wants the best.Its risk verses reward.
Surveys of speed dating revealed that out of thirty males less than twenty percent scored significantly.When the women got together to discuss who they thought was the best and recast their votes less than five percent got any dates.Women significantly influence eachother verbally hence the proliferation of fashion ,celebrity and lifestyle mags.
No, it's because they are selfish and stupid and they get what they deserve.
They are sluts and only want one thing.
Maybe its cause these are the ones that are off limits? Perhaps there is a certain quality these guys possess by being willing to commit that other women find attractive.
becasue they are tramps
I am definately not one of them, why would i bother to waste my time?!
They are the good ones. They are not taken because they suck at being hitched.
its more exciting when u see someone from behind someone else's back
because unavailability is very tempting.
.women ALWAYS want what they can't have!!
Maybe I'm wrong but I don't think it's either. I think that they fall in love with the person.who just so happens to be married or taken. That's the main reason, in my opinion.
Its there Stupidness.Foolish people do that.They think there is no guy
Becouse if you are a girl and love a married man, you are absolutely shore that he wont tell another people what in going on!
I find this married man at my work very sexually attractive.
Its the whole 'naughty and restrictive' thing. If a man is taken - it makes him much more sexually appealing because its a no go zone. Its a challenge.
Going for married men means you personally have nothing to lose. Its not you thats going to get hurt. This sounds harsh but its true. You know where you stand. Its risky and just plain fun!
Getting that naughty feeling, gets me so sexually aroused for this man at work (he is 40 and I am 25).
Speaking of which..I havent come onto him yet. I know he likes me..by the way he glares at me. Should I make the first move?
No.
It's because they're idiots.
If a man is taken.Get your *** in gear to find a new one.
want what they can't have
the whole married man thing has a dangerous kinda will you get caught risk i suppose. its living dangerously for those with little imagination!
not most.
what you are seeing is women that want
what belongs to some one else!
fear of real commitment some, others just enjoy being homewrackers
because they know that a married person has a good experienced especially in romance. they know also that they knows how to care. woman liked a guy who will care for them no matter who is she. woman should be love not hurt especially their heart.
well this happen to me one time my bf was involve to a gilr and thier about to have a baby.. when this guy try to courts me and i feel a lilbit insecure about the girl so i say yes.. and we had some fun for a month then i realize that i don't want to ruin hes relation with hes gf and besides thier about to have a baby so i let the guy go.. so i think women love guys who are already commited to some one because of the competition.. and they really good in bed thou.. (-.-)
I am glad I am NOT among those most women you are refering to!
One more thing. Why point fingers on women! What about men who are easy and unfaithful! Men who have wives and girlfriends and are easily seduced by other women!!
They are usually selfish and disrespectful.
Is because the men who have these affairs are often out for all they can get and will lie, charm and connive there way into a woman's heart.panties.. or whatever. Women should always steer clear from men who are spoken for for 2 reasons. female solidarity and the simple fact that the men who are willing to have affairs are not worth having.
because you see these people with their partners and the way they treat them and its sometimes how you wish to be treated. also quite exciting to think that this person who is 'married' finds at interest in you. quite flattering really. makes you feel some confidence in yourself.. but really messes up both lives..
I also notice women flirt more if you are with a girlfriend.
hmmmmm..
They find more experience and variation with married men.Also they like competition and thrill.
I really don't think this is true, thinking of my personal experience and all the people I have known over the years.
But if I was looking for an answer could prove you right, I'd say the biological imperative to find a suitable mate. If someone is already taken it must mean they have the potential to be a good mate.
Also we are less restricted by social conventions now in the west, so there is more opportunity without the down side of, say, being stoned to death.
Interesting question.
It is more the allure of something they should not have (I would say cannot have but that is not the truth). There is only a small amount of competitiveness with the hunt and the chase. Women who pursue men who are taken have a destructive nature.
because sometimes its the men that flirt. They know they are safe and taken care of in a relationship so they think they can afford to flirt a little, play stupid games with women, tease them and then go home to their partners. If then men didn't give any vibes to women and have sexual banter with them the women would get a clear understanding that this man is not on the market and then she would stay away. Although she might just be a tart and thick skinned!!
maybe it's because these women seek men who know what love is.
I doubt that it is MOST women who do that, in fact a woman would never do that, but an adult female child would. It is a bit of the dangerous man syndrome, it seems exciting. but remember, dangerous "men" are only ever dangerous to women and children.
as to why they do it, it is because they have no sense of propriety, have low moral standards and are selfish self centered creeps. Just like the adult male children who do the same. Perhaps they may grow someday into men and woman, perhaps they never will.
married man are hot unlike those who are fresh & they drive you crazy.you see its really hard for a 'boy' to satisfy you & you end up teaching him how to do it
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