Why is it if a guys looks after himself people think he is gay?
So i'm 24, and take pride in my appearance and throw on a few designer labels, why do people automatically think i'm gay because i do my hair and wear Fendi, Gucci, Prada, Vivien Westwood? if girls do nobody thinks they are Lesbians?
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Maybe it's because they don't have the brain cells to pull it off. Women like well groomed men as apposed to the couch potato grunge. calling you gay is easier than getting out from in front of the T.V. and doing the same as you. Ignore them, women appreciate your effort.
Too much preening, too much thinking about fashions, too much wearing of pink
do wat u want say what u want and wear what you want ignore everyone eles its better then being scruffy and smelly lol
Well theres a lot of gay fashion designers isnt there?
I guess its just a stereotype.
You sound like a virgin..or you spend to much time looking at yourself or both.
Whats that petal
Fashion was designed with women in mind, so there is hardly a comparison there! As for lesbians, if a woman dresses slightly more masculine than is socially accepted she is considered to be gay too. People feel safer when they can fit people neatly into boxes, men are supposed to be masculine & women feminine. It's an old-fashioned way of thinking, but people [whethere they claim open-mindedness or not] will always return to widely accepted stereotypes. As for the brands you listed, I am female & only recognise a couple of the ones you listed.
people are afraid of what they don't understand. Take america and the fear Bush instills. Anyways, being a Metrosexual is not a bad thing. take care of yourself, your life will be better.
Good for you hon.
It's usually the jealous ones who make the snide comments.
You have the Narcissus problem,its falling in love with your self
I know! It's a shallow world we live in isn't it?
I think it maybe jealousy but i love guys that are clean cut but not more than me on the other hand a guy that doesnt shave in the morning is a big turn on. but 4get everybody else be yourself
Isn't it just other men who think you are gay? Most women prefer a well groomed guy to some slob. Just as long as you don't wear pink, and too much cologne!
The only reson the guys don't like it and call you gay is because the girls DO like it. The guys are just jealous of you. Don't even give it a second thought. :)
I would never give it a thought> Although if someone over does the self preening bit I might think them an vacuous air head
oh you are soo gay, maybe u just don't know it yet. don't be scared it's not necessarily a bad thing, in time you will learn to be flaming, its all good, move to Canada and get married
The pink dress could be a clue !
Hiya,
I think the more important question is - why do you care what people think?
Personally, I prefer men that spend less time in front of the mirror than myself!
;-)
- because they are simply narrow-minded.
- because they like stereo-typing people.
- because they are not used to see guys who are vain.
- because they have a different mind-set.
- because they are simply boring.
its called jealousy!people men and women wished they took as much pride in their appearencw as you do,but they either just dont have the time or are as i said before are jealous!dont mind them haters!
its a question of vanity.Girls are meant 2 speand hours on them self,not men.We can look our best in 10 min tops.
It's because they have no desire to look good and find that spouting out the gay crap will make them feel worthwhile when they really are just jealous!
who cares what ppl think? just go on with your business! It's just ignorance.
That's just what lazy slobs put round as an excuse for them not to bother
Why do you care, just be fashionble and see if your girlfriend likes your fashion.But wait, if you concentrate more on fashion that means you really love yourself, keep it up! Tell them that you are practising to be a celebrity.
Glad to hear you look after yourself.some men need to follow your lead!
Good on yer!
its just a macho thing..there's nothing wrong with a guy who takes pride in his appearance,more men out there should do the same..
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Maybe it's because they don't have the brain cells to pull it off. Women like well groomed men as apposed to the couch potato grunge. calling you gay is easier than getting out from in front of the T.V. and doing the same as you. Ignore them, women appreciate your effort.
Too much preening, too much thinking about fashions, too much wearing of pink
do wat u want say what u want and wear what you want ignore everyone eles its better then being scruffy and smelly lol
Well theres a lot of gay fashion designers isnt there?
I guess its just a stereotype.
You sound like a virgin..or you spend to much time looking at yourself or both.
Whats that petal
Fashion was designed with women in mind, so there is hardly a comparison there! As for lesbians, if a woman dresses slightly more masculine than is socially accepted she is considered to be gay too. People feel safer when they can fit people neatly into boxes, men are supposed to be masculine & women feminine. It's an old-fashioned way of thinking, but people [whethere they claim open-mindedness or not] will always return to widely accepted stereotypes. As for the brands you listed, I am female & only recognise a couple of the ones you listed.
people are afraid of what they don't understand. Take america and the fear Bush instills. Anyways, being a Metrosexual is not a bad thing. take care of yourself, your life will be better.
Good for you hon.
It's usually the jealous ones who make the snide comments.
You have the Narcissus problem,its falling in love with your self
I know! It's a shallow world we live in isn't it?
I think it maybe jealousy but i love guys that are clean cut but not more than me on the other hand a guy that doesnt shave in the morning is a big turn on. but 4get everybody else be yourself
Isn't it just other men who think you are gay? Most women prefer a well groomed guy to some slob. Just as long as you don't wear pink, and too much cologne!
The only reson the guys don't like it and call you gay is because the girls DO like it. The guys are just jealous of you. Don't even give it a second thought. :)
I would never give it a thought> Although if someone over does the self preening bit I might think them an vacuous air head
oh you are soo gay, maybe u just don't know it yet. don't be scared it's not necessarily a bad thing, in time you will learn to be flaming, its all good, move to Canada and get married
The pink dress could be a clue !
Hiya,
I think the more important question is - why do you care what people think?
Personally, I prefer men that spend less time in front of the mirror than myself!
;-)
- because they are simply narrow-minded.
- because they like stereo-typing people.
- because they are not used to see guys who are vain.
- because they have a different mind-set.
- because they are simply boring.
its called jealousy!people men and women wished they took as much pride in their appearencw as you do,but they either just dont have the time or are as i said before are jealous!dont mind them haters!
its a question of vanity.Girls are meant 2 speand hours on them self,not men.We can look our best in 10 min tops.
It's because they have no desire to look good and find that spouting out the gay crap will make them feel worthwhile when they really are just jealous!
who cares what ppl think? just go on with your business! It's just ignorance.
That's just what lazy slobs put round as an excuse for them not to bother
Why do you care, just be fashionble and see if your girlfriend likes your fashion.But wait, if you concentrate more on fashion that means you really love yourself, keep it up! Tell them that you are practising to be a celebrity.
Glad to hear you look after yourself.some men need to follow your lead!
Good on yer!
its just a macho thing..there's nothing wrong with a guy who takes pride in his appearance,more men out there should do the same..
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