Is it just me and every man I know but are women very selfish. whats the deal with you never help when we do?
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OK..here is the scoop. Men never offer to help another man with anything.because if they do then they are implying that the man is not capable of fixing a problem by himself. If a man wants help..he will ask.
Women do NOT like to ask for help. They feel that you can see them struggling and if you do NOT offer to help it is only because you are a lazy SOB and just enjoy watching them struggle. If they actually have to ASK you to help.you just lost points. It does not count as helping if they had to ask. So I am willing to bet you are helping..when asked..and you are not getting any points for it in fact you are going further and further into negative numbers.
Just to set your own mind at rest.make a list of EVERYTHING that has to be done to run your home. Including paying bills, taking care of children, shopping, cooking, cleaning, yard work everything .name each and every item individually like clean toilet, clean sink, clean bathtub. Then mark off all the items that you do every time..she never does them. I am willing to bet that your wife's list is at least 3 or 4 times longer than yours.
If you want to get a HUGE amount of bonus points, when you are done with the list..take it to your wife and ask her what are the 5 things on the list that she is already doing that she hates the worst and offer to start doing them always.
Im not selfish :D
,,,,,,,,no.their not selfish.its just that they cant think of too many things at once, it hurts their pea sized brains..so if I were you I wouldnt even consider helping the next time you see the most gorjush creature on two legs.trying to change a tyre at the side of the road..nah mate.drive straight past if I were you..
maybe its just you
its just w/e our definition of "help" is
Not all women are selfish. If you're judging all women by the few you know that is sad.
most yes but not all.
Please don't put us all in that category please. I am very giving.
Pffft. Show me a man that willingly helps out! I'd like to meet one!
Not all women are, Ive met some right selfish and some far from selfish women. keep looking!
women are all selfish and totally absorbed - im beginning to think the gays have the right idea. chicks fool you by being nice to begin with then they turn evil
So strange that women feel you feckers are the selfish ones!!
Since you begin with a negative attitude, it's difficult to find someone who isn't also negative. Of course there are selfish women, just as there are selfish men (yes.hard to believe, but true!) There are also women who care very much. I think you should focus on different women. Obviously, the ones you're attracting aren't the ones you want. Also, remember "like attracts like." You might want to think about how you respond, too.
is it me or are all men dumb? hhhhhhhhmmmmm answer that then we'll give u an answer
I really don't like it when people generalize like this. I'm not selfish. Neither is my husband. I've helped my husband many times and he's helped me. Being selfish is neither a female trait or a male trait. Both can be selfish.
Woman are a bit selfish but it is usually because we are so independent and always are trying to fix ourselves that we forget about others feelings. We usually don't do it intentionally we are just busy in our minds. You need to elaborate a bit more to get a better answer. Be a little more specific on the situation.
I've seen very little men that want to "help out". But I will admit that I can be selfish in that I want to be on the receiving end of emotional bliss and yet I'm not great at giving it. I'm working on it!
Maybe there is something about that type of woman that attracts you. Here's an example: when my husband was in his 20's he drove a corvette. One of the reasons he liked the car was because it was a "babe magnet". Yes, he attracted women, but he attracted women who were interested in his car and money. Then, he was turned off.
oy you ********
youre soooo stereotypical gosh get a life
have you got a wife or girlfriend?
with that attitude you wont be
Could be the type of person you are attracting. Communication is a two way street, do you tell your potential others your feelings (like, gee I feel like I'm getting the short end of the stick)? Women are generally more giving than men. It is the way we are made.
Nobody can make a generalized statement/question like you have above and expect people to believe it. Different cultures create different sorts of people. I would look inside yourself and every man you know, for why you all feel this way. Perhaps you have been hurt in the past?
It is time to dust yourself off and move on! There are plenty of nice women out here! :)
WOMEN ARE NOT SELFISH IT'S JUST THAT IF YOU LIVE EAT SLEEP IN THE SAME HOUSEHOLD MEN SHOULD SHARE THE HOUSE LOAD, IT SHOULDN'T BE THAT THE WOMAN HAS TO ALWAYS PICK UP THE MESSES YOU LEAVE BEHIND. MEN SHOULD NOT BE WITH A WOMAN JUST BECAUSE HE WANTS A MAID SO HE CAN SIT BACK AND RELAX AND I'LL DO IT LATER WHEN I'M READY AND NEVER GETS DONE. I DON'T THINK WOMEN ARE SELFISH, IF YOU COME TO THINK OF IT MOST MEN ARE SELFISH.
don't judge everyone!get a life
selfish? uh who are the ones who always try and force oral sex on their spouces.YOU.who are the ones who would rather watch the game on TV than spend time with the kids outside?.YOU..who are the ones who constantly check out younger ladies while in the store or out shopping with the mrs..YOU.you see, women are not selfish, we buy what we need and boys like you, we hit it and quit it, is that why we "use " you. you aren't marriage, or even b/f material because the only thing you will do is ***** and complain about where the money is going and how much we are spending on whatever. I'm not sure what women you are talking about, but i have sacrificed a lot for my b/f, and he has done the same for me.obviously you have been searching for a partner in all the wrong places because nobody seems to know that a relationship is 50%-50% and if you love that person enough, you will not take that as being selfish, just compromising. you obviously do not know the tedious work that women face every day. so basically you are saying your mother never raised you and never
*cleaned the house
*went to work
*washed the dishes
*make your food...EVERY DAY
*drive you to and from to school
*sewed your clothes when you made a hole on the knee
and you are telling me women are selfish.look back on everything women have brought into your life..if it wasn't for us, you would still be a virgin
Pull your head out from up your **** and you might learn something. Why do men always cause war, famine, suffering and general hatred towards others?
ahhhh please dont put us in a category - see us as individuals and dont generalise. we are all different, men can be the same so look beyond our sex and see an individual being.
Why is it that this Question of battle of the sexes comes up in the first place?. I don't consider it to be one sex or the other at fault, i think its a trait of the persons personality, that applies to both sexes
Women selfish compared to men?
Are you running a fever?
just as not all fingers are the same not all women are the same either!
the ratio of selfishness ,i don't think is unique to the female population , i think it is an undisirable human trait and not gender biased -- you and your friends obviously go for the wrong type of girls , ask yourselves why?
Women and men are both selfish. Humans are selfish. Men want things. Women want things.
Men like to call women selfish and women like to call men selfish. Bottom line, both sexes are extremely selfish. You just haven't dated alot of men. But if you do, you'll find that men are just as selfish, if not more, than women.
U could have a point there. Obviouslt cant tar them all with the same brush as they say but i have found that to be true.
It makes you feel big to help a helpless woman
It makes us laugh to see men tripping over themselves to help us
It's not selfishness. just a sense of humour
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