How to overcome our weaknesses??
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How to overcome our weaknesses-fear, being disappointed, being shy, being chicken-hearted, being afraid to try new business, being broken-hearted, being always dizzy when reading or working on unfavorite stuff, being unorganized, ESPECIALLY being forgetful and so on ? Thank you for your sharing tips.
Answers:
Active listening, accepting positive criticism, fully aware of all weaknesses, positive attitude, ability to change and practice.
I always think about how relatively little time we really have here. To live, accomplish the tasks at hand. Do I really want to look back as they pull the plug and think " I should have given it another go."? No way. Seize it by the horns and make that heifer go where YOU want it to go.
confidence is required
Emotions are lovely, there are good and bad ones, but work through the bad ones and do not suppress them. A short course of counselling will help you to do this. You are normal for feeling like this, do not knock yourself over the head for being normal please.
All emotion stems from fear or love.."weakness" is subjective..but overcoming "weakness" is simple..you must make the shift from a place of fear to a place of love. Ask yourselfe, "Am I reacting out of fear or love?" If the answer is fear find a way to come at it from a place of love. Some times all you need to do is change your thinking, which is as simple as changing your language..to speak it is to make it so..Try this exercise.. think about a judgment you hold about yourself..figure out where you feel it in your body..then say, "I release the judgment that I am bad, because___________. I release the judgement that ____________is bad." You should start to feel the shift in your body. If you push through the fear this way you will find that on the other side is growth. Fear often means change, people often fear change, but change is good, it means we are growing.
First, you have to identify them, and admit that you have them. Mine, is relationships and money. People are just hard to trust. I have been alone for a long time and I am thinking that just maybe this might be a good time to venture out of my guarded emotional home. Still working in that one. My mind, just said hold it sharon, no way.
Then money. Man, it goes through my fingers like water. I don't have much of it and none to spare. The bills are getting paid, most of the time. I can't seem to save a damn dime. My 13 year old son, is the joy of my life. He wears a size 15 shoe. I just went yesterday to try to find shoes. I am rambling. I better finish before I hit cancel.
I have not overcome my weaknesses by any means, but they do not rule my life. I just take what life hands me and go on. I am actually pretty content, not a lot of tension in this home.
.by focusin on your strengths!!
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How to overcome our weaknesses-fear, being disappointed, being shy, being chicken-hearted, being afraid to try new business, being broken-hearted, being always dizzy when reading or working on unfavorite stuff, being unorganized, ESPECIALLY being forgetful and so on ? Thank you for your sharing tips.
Answers:
Active listening, accepting positive criticism, fully aware of all weaknesses, positive attitude, ability to change and practice.
I always think about how relatively little time we really have here. To live, accomplish the tasks at hand. Do I really want to look back as they pull the plug and think " I should have given it another go."? No way. Seize it by the horns and make that heifer go where YOU want it to go.
confidence is required
Emotions are lovely, there are good and bad ones, but work through the bad ones and do not suppress them. A short course of counselling will help you to do this. You are normal for feeling like this, do not knock yourself over the head for being normal please.
All emotion stems from fear or love.."weakness" is subjective..but overcoming "weakness" is simple..you must make the shift from a place of fear to a place of love. Ask yourselfe, "Am I reacting out of fear or love?" If the answer is fear find a way to come at it from a place of love. Some times all you need to do is change your thinking, which is as simple as changing your language..to speak it is to make it so..Try this exercise.. think about a judgment you hold about yourself..figure out where you feel it in your body..then say, "I release the judgment that I am bad, because___________. I release the judgement that ____________is bad." You should start to feel the shift in your body. If you push through the fear this way you will find that on the other side is growth. Fear often means change, people often fear change, but change is good, it means we are growing.
First, you have to identify them, and admit that you have them. Mine, is relationships and money. People are just hard to trust. I have been alone for a long time and I am thinking that just maybe this might be a good time to venture out of my guarded emotional home. Still working in that one. My mind, just said hold it sharon, no way.
Then money. Man, it goes through my fingers like water. I don't have much of it and none to spare. The bills are getting paid, most of the time. I can't seem to save a damn dime. My 13 year old son, is the joy of my life. He wears a size 15 shoe. I just went yesterday to try to find shoes. I am rambling. I better finish before I hit cancel.
I have not overcome my weaknesses by any means, but they do not rule my life. I just take what life hands me and go on. I am actually pretty content, not a lot of tension in this home.
.by focusin on your strengths!!
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