Why do woman take longer to get a orgasm than men?
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For w*nking alone, I'd say this actually isn't usually the case. In fact, I can crack one off in well under a minute (and it's not bragging for me to say it because I know I'm not the only woman who can easily do this!).
I appreciate there has perhaps been a tendency in the past for women to take longer to come during sex with a partner than men. However, I'd say this gap is closing as women become more emancipated and our sexual pleasure is increasingly (and rightly) seen to be of equal importance to men's. I think we're more likely to explain and demonstrate what we want and, in turn, men are more motivated to pick up on our signals and work harder to find methods that can work quickly and effectively if time is lacking and a quickie is called for.
In my own experiences with men, slowness in either partner is mainly dependent on 3 factors: stress levels, wastedness and, most importantly of all, whether we've already come a few times that day.
Not that there's anything wrong with being slow. Sometimes you don't want to rush anyway.
Added: I like the majority of these answers. Very heartening!
Not all women are longer.. do your research!
I think this must just be your personal experience - trust me.
Try adjusting your technique or asking her what she likes. You should see your findings reverse.
Good luck!!
When I masturbate I can have an orgasim in less than a minute. I also orgasim a lot faster than my husband. I guess that comes from all those years before my husband, having sex with men that climax before me, I felt like it was a race, if I wanted to get off, I had to hurry. I think it's a mental thing. During sex, men are thinking about sex, women tend to get hung up on their performance or they way they look.
They are worried their husbands might walk in.
Because women are too busy thinking about shopping and not paying attentiion to you.
If you get her excited enough.it will take no time.
It's how you are approaching the area. It's easy for a guy to plug in and pop, but a woman's vagina has many sensitive receptive nerve endings all around it and the clitoris located top and center being the most sensitive part is most often not stimulated properly. Some women orgasm from outside touch, others from within the vagina. Look up sexual health topics and those on relationships and what experts say about achieving sexual excitement and fulfillment. You guys can just expect a girl to pop, thats why many fake it so that you can feel as if you did something.
we do.? hmm. ok.
Depends on what you are doing and how you are making her feel to how quick a woman orgasms.
'cause with men the the brain center that's connected to orgasm is in the area that controls hunger,thirst etc. while at women it's in the field of feelings -thst is love,happiness etc. that's why it's harder to get it and it's a greater experience!
Evolutionary defense mechanism. It signals that the male is taking too long to inseminate and will produce offspring that are inferior in there ability to pass on their genes. When a woman orgasms her body produces chemicals that make the vaginal environment more alkaline and less favorable for sperm to live.
speak for yourself!
maybe because it is mental and physicla with women, and if you don;t warm up the engine it aint gonna get you there...
It is the nature of the beast.
It depends how good the man is.
My girlfriend has had a dozen or so orgasms inside half an hour, and the first one was within 14 seconds of 'starting.'
How fast are you?
Sash.
It all depends on
A. The partner (if he's crap he's crap!)
B. The woman herself
If a womans not comfortable with herself she wont be able to relax and let go.
Not only that men are impatient, they seem to want to finish up too quickly. Where as women prefer to hang on to the feeling and let it build up into a big explosion :)
is that with men or than men? we can have them quicker by ourselves cos men don't know the right buttons to push
maybe you're just doing it wrong, mate
It's because you're not doing it right ;-)
because women are better at everything....lol.... how the men always come first
i don't take long time
Because men are very easliy pleased and us girls aren't!
cos women know how to get men to orgasm but men struggle to find what really gets a woman to orgasm
I don't know but by god it's frustrating!!
they dont. Everyone is different,the trick is to find two compatible people and you have it made!
Here is my thing. Hubby preheats the oven when he makes a pizza but never during sex.. he thinks i am a car and he can just get in a go. you need to "warm up a bit" first.
cus the person they are having sex with are crap at it
Because the purpose of the female orgasm is to promote absorption of sperm - coming before the man kind of puts the kibosh on that. At least, that's the theory.
they have more orifices
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