Why is it some people get on really well in life,and find good things come to them very easily,?
i was just wondering why it is some people get on really well in life and seem to have great things happening and not really having to try to hard,
whilst other people try really hard and seem to struggle with having anything nice happening to them,
are there really winners and losers in life,are some people really blessed with good luck ?
Answers:
It does seem like some people just have bad luck. But, I think it comes down to choices people make in their lives. People make choices, and choices make people.
i have asked myself that question over and over again. i work 50 hrs aweek. work on a two unit in spare time as well as a house. dont drink or do drugs, treat people as they should be treated and i just dont seem to get the breaks when everyone else does. i dont get it either...so if you find the answer. lol.. let me know. i deserve a break today
things balance out in time. One life lead isn't better than another and the grass isn't greener. Just because you don't know what might be wrong with their life, before now, now or later doesn't mean that they have it so good.
I believe it is a matter of perception. The person next to you may appear to have everything in the world and could seem so lucky; but they may be feeling down and out and that they never get a break in life. I think it is just a matter of what you think is "good things" and doing "really well".
Is the glass half full or half empty?
Don't judge peole by what u see from outside. Yu never know what's going inside them. Actually a person's sucess depends on his peace of mind and satisfaction levels which can't be sensed by outsiders.
Because they are living in spiritual awareness and have learned how to manifest. Read Wayne Dyer or Deepak Chopra, then practice if you are having a difficult time.
yah man,,
& also the faith in god, which bless them all the very best into their lifes.
I figure its your outlook on life. Even if it does seem like you are constantly being knocked down, the idea is to feel blessed with what you have got and accept everything else as a challenge. Those who do seem to have it easy probably don't have as easy as it looks. They are just better at hiding how they feel about thier life. And don't complain anywhere near as much as other people about the **** stuff that does happens.
The key i think is not sweating the small stuff and not letting things bother you that you have no control over.
Everyone struggles at some point.
Even the rich and beautiful ( which i am neither by the way) have problems.
Its all about going about your day trying not to let the small stuff bother you.
I try to laugh the tough stuff away
People look at me weird sometimes but it works.
It is only appearances. Being famous is supposed to be successful and look at the mess many of these celebrities are in.
Good things come if you keep a simple eye and don't envy what other people have got.
Be happy with your lot.
Who says they get on really well in life, they may have problems that you do not know about, every one has troubles in life, some people may have more than others but that's just life.
I think it's not that some people are having an easy ride and others struggle, I think it's the fact that bad things usually happen all at once and it may seem like only bad things come to people. I believe that life is really like a roller-coaster: sometimes it's up sometimes it's down. Even unlucky people get good things in life, and those that are always lucky get some bad things in life. Just think about Kylie Minogue, she's had lots of good things in her life: fame, fortune, good looks, friends, excitement and then she got breast cancer! How awful is that! I'd rather have my boring 9-5 life than go through a life threatening illness.
its all about choices and lifestyle that people have. its about adapting who you are to what you want in life. you have to link your skills to a particular job then you will have the job that gives you satisfaction (personal happiness and self esteem), you will probably be more successfull at that job because it utilises your skills (more money than if you were in a job not suited to you), making appropriate friends and understand the consequences of things.
my favourite mantra is 'fail to plan and you plan to fail', everything is about choice and forward thinking, theres no such thing as lucky or unlucky people. its also about being internally driven rather than externally driven, ie doing or feeling things because people around you expect it.
God blesses the just as well as the unjust! He has mercy on whom he will. Some people works very hard to get what they have while others try to get by the easy way. Some people likes to free load off of anybody that they can. Many people don't try to use the brain, energy, common sense and intelligence that he has given them. Life is what you make it. You can make it good or you can make it bad. In this world we can be whatever we want to be whether we be successful with it or not. Where there is a will there is a way!
Always think positive in your life good thing happen to you.
Cos if you carry a smile, then good things come to see what your smiling about and bad things know they can't get in your way!
well i guess its all a matter of destiny.gud luck bad luck
sum ppl hav to struggle really hard for everythng n sum ppl get thngs easily..
I belive good things happen when you have a positive outlook on life its like the age old adage "is the glass half full or half empty" if your a half full person with a good positive mental attitude good things will be drawn to you..
some people are just luckier then others.fair noway.fact yes.why cause there have to be few winners and tons of losers thats just how the world works.like certain people are born wealthy in nice homes..the hilton sisters lucky yes..did they do something to deserve that i dont think so ..and same way millions of people are born in africa with aids.and poverty full of diseases.there own fault no one bit.beautiful smart kids just with no luck on there side..sadlyy!!
its not a question of luck. it's a question of taking control of your life and managing yourself correctly to achieve your goals. set your goals realistically and improve them further as you achieve them. make your environment a product of you, do not become a product of your environment
becouse there are white black people have to suffer longer
Maybe bcuz they're born that way. Like paris hilton 4 example. If not it may seem like they are but they really do have 2 work 2 get where they are.
It all depends on how you live your life. Do you listen to your parents and your teachers and follow their advise or do you go your own way. The people who go their own way seem to struggle more. The ones who budget their time well and go with the flow seem to do the best and have the best in life.
You have to play it smart. Work the established system, don't fight it. Treat people with respect and learn to laugh at yourself, then you will do well.
Yes, to a certain extent, I think some people are more lucky than others, but the wise person makes their own luck, strives to succeed, and enjoys the journey. I think the main difference is attitude. All too often, I see the strugglers bitter about their lot in life, and the winners happy with what they have and where they are going. Perhaps we make our own luck. The difference is, some people recognize a good thing when they see it, and others find excuses why good things are not good things. In fact, all success involves a great amount of work, and most are not willing to invest the effort.they want it handed to them and are unhappy that it doesn't happen.
I think we choose, before our souls come here, how much we want to learn WHILE we're here. People who 'have it rough'.wanted it that way. They wanted to experience heartbreak and sorrow, pain and disappointment, struggle and strife. so that they would be more capable of appreciating how wonderful things are wherever it is that our souls come from. And those of us who seem to 'coast' through life. they wanted a safe way to experience existence as a being with a body. Think of it as a human amusement park ride for the soul. some of us ride the merry-go-round. and others get on the big coaster. It all depends on how much you really wanted to learn when you decided to experience a physical existence. So. you can feel sorry for the orphaned refugee and jealous of Paris Hilton. but the truth is. in the end. the orphaned refugee is really the far more advanced soul.
It karma baby. karma can kick you in the a*ss or it can hand you the world. Life is what you make it. so if your doing mean and dumb things karma will be waiting around the corner.
Believe me i making up for a wopper.
all the good and probably correct answers are up here already! kudos & ditto!
My bf says, "I draw (to me) what I need." And he IS a lucky sonofagun! Also, I have known people that always expected the worst in everything, that were always just waiting for life to take the next crap on their head, and I think they draw bad things.
These people just might have been taught good life habits from the start (like attend school, dont use drugs,eat healthy ect)
luck might have a small part in it, but not all the time though.
It is my opinion that some people friend the right people or at the right place at times, others just have to work hard which helps them to become strong and appreciate what they achieve more.
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whilst other people try really hard and seem to struggle with having anything nice happening to them,
are there really winners and losers in life,are some people really blessed with good luck ?
Answers:
It does seem like some people just have bad luck. But, I think it comes down to choices people make in their lives. People make choices, and choices make people.
i have asked myself that question over and over again. i work 50 hrs aweek. work on a two unit in spare time as well as a house. dont drink or do drugs, treat people as they should be treated and i just dont seem to get the breaks when everyone else does. i dont get it either...so if you find the answer. lol.. let me know. i deserve a break today
things balance out in time. One life lead isn't better than another and the grass isn't greener. Just because you don't know what might be wrong with their life, before now, now or later doesn't mean that they have it so good.
I believe it is a matter of perception. The person next to you may appear to have everything in the world and could seem so lucky; but they may be feeling down and out and that they never get a break in life. I think it is just a matter of what you think is "good things" and doing "really well".
Is the glass half full or half empty?
Don't judge peole by what u see from outside. Yu never know what's going inside them. Actually a person's sucess depends on his peace of mind and satisfaction levels which can't be sensed by outsiders.
Because they are living in spiritual awareness and have learned how to manifest. Read Wayne Dyer or Deepak Chopra, then practice if you are having a difficult time.
yah man,,
& also the faith in god, which bless them all the very best into their lifes.
I figure its your outlook on life. Even if it does seem like you are constantly being knocked down, the idea is to feel blessed with what you have got and accept everything else as a challenge. Those who do seem to have it easy probably don't have as easy as it looks. They are just better at hiding how they feel about thier life. And don't complain anywhere near as much as other people about the **** stuff that does happens.
The key i think is not sweating the small stuff and not letting things bother you that you have no control over.
Everyone struggles at some point.
Even the rich and beautiful ( which i am neither by the way) have problems.
Its all about going about your day trying not to let the small stuff bother you.
I try to laugh the tough stuff away
People look at me weird sometimes but it works.
It is only appearances. Being famous is supposed to be successful and look at the mess many of these celebrities are in.
Good things come if you keep a simple eye and don't envy what other people have got.
Be happy with your lot.
Who says they get on really well in life, they may have problems that you do not know about, every one has troubles in life, some people may have more than others but that's just life.
I think it's not that some people are having an easy ride and others struggle, I think it's the fact that bad things usually happen all at once and it may seem like only bad things come to people. I believe that life is really like a roller-coaster: sometimes it's up sometimes it's down. Even unlucky people get good things in life, and those that are always lucky get some bad things in life. Just think about Kylie Minogue, she's had lots of good things in her life: fame, fortune, good looks, friends, excitement and then she got breast cancer! How awful is that! I'd rather have my boring 9-5 life than go through a life threatening illness.
its all about choices and lifestyle that people have. its about adapting who you are to what you want in life. you have to link your skills to a particular job then you will have the job that gives you satisfaction (personal happiness and self esteem), you will probably be more successfull at that job because it utilises your skills (more money than if you were in a job not suited to you), making appropriate friends and understand the consequences of things.
my favourite mantra is 'fail to plan and you plan to fail', everything is about choice and forward thinking, theres no such thing as lucky or unlucky people. its also about being internally driven rather than externally driven, ie doing or feeling things because people around you expect it.
God blesses the just as well as the unjust! He has mercy on whom he will. Some people works very hard to get what they have while others try to get by the easy way. Some people likes to free load off of anybody that they can. Many people don't try to use the brain, energy, common sense and intelligence that he has given them. Life is what you make it. You can make it good or you can make it bad. In this world we can be whatever we want to be whether we be successful with it or not. Where there is a will there is a way!
Always think positive in your life good thing happen to you.
Cos if you carry a smile, then good things come to see what your smiling about and bad things know they can't get in your way!
well i guess its all a matter of destiny.gud luck bad luck
sum ppl hav to struggle really hard for everythng n sum ppl get thngs easily..
I belive good things happen when you have a positive outlook on life its like the age old adage "is the glass half full or half empty" if your a half full person with a good positive mental attitude good things will be drawn to you..
some people are just luckier then others.fair noway.fact yes.why cause there have to be few winners and tons of losers thats just how the world works.like certain people are born wealthy in nice homes..the hilton sisters lucky yes..did they do something to deserve that i dont think so ..and same way millions of people are born in africa with aids.and poverty full of diseases.there own fault no one bit.beautiful smart kids just with no luck on there side..sadlyy!!
its not a question of luck. it's a question of taking control of your life and managing yourself correctly to achieve your goals. set your goals realistically and improve them further as you achieve them. make your environment a product of you, do not become a product of your environment
becouse there are white black people have to suffer longer
Maybe bcuz they're born that way. Like paris hilton 4 example. If not it may seem like they are but they really do have 2 work 2 get where they are.
It all depends on how you live your life. Do you listen to your parents and your teachers and follow their advise or do you go your own way. The people who go their own way seem to struggle more. The ones who budget their time well and go with the flow seem to do the best and have the best in life.
You have to play it smart. Work the established system, don't fight it. Treat people with respect and learn to laugh at yourself, then you will do well.
Yes, to a certain extent, I think some people are more lucky than others, but the wise person makes their own luck, strives to succeed, and enjoys the journey. I think the main difference is attitude. All too often, I see the strugglers bitter about their lot in life, and the winners happy with what they have and where they are going. Perhaps we make our own luck. The difference is, some people recognize a good thing when they see it, and others find excuses why good things are not good things. In fact, all success involves a great amount of work, and most are not willing to invest the effort.they want it handed to them and are unhappy that it doesn't happen.
I think we choose, before our souls come here, how much we want to learn WHILE we're here. People who 'have it rough'.wanted it that way. They wanted to experience heartbreak and sorrow, pain and disappointment, struggle and strife. so that they would be more capable of appreciating how wonderful things are wherever it is that our souls come from. And those of us who seem to 'coast' through life. they wanted a safe way to experience existence as a being with a body. Think of it as a human amusement park ride for the soul. some of us ride the merry-go-round. and others get on the big coaster. It all depends on how much you really wanted to learn when you decided to experience a physical existence. So. you can feel sorry for the orphaned refugee and jealous of Paris Hilton. but the truth is. in the end. the orphaned refugee is really the far more advanced soul.
It karma baby. karma can kick you in the a*ss or it can hand you the world. Life is what you make it. so if your doing mean and dumb things karma will be waiting around the corner.
Believe me i making up for a wopper.
all the good and probably correct answers are up here already! kudos & ditto!
My bf says, "I draw (to me) what I need." And he IS a lucky sonofagun! Also, I have known people that always expected the worst in everything, that were always just waiting for life to take the next crap on their head, and I think they draw bad things.
These people just might have been taught good life habits from the start (like attend school, dont use drugs,eat healthy ect)
luck might have a small part in it, but not all the time though.
It is my opinion that some people friend the right people or at the right place at times, others just have to work hard which helps them to become strong and appreciate what they achieve more.
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