Should i let her know?
i am married with a woman i don't love. i asked her the divorce, but she didn't want to accept it.
i fall in love with another woman who was my mate at work. i showed her that i had feeling for her, but i never told her anything. now she found another job and i don't know what to do, cause she knows that i am married. i don't want to lose her. what do you advice me to do?
Answers:
your situation it's pretty much delicate, cause you want to divorce and your wife doesn't. i don't know what kind of relationship you had with the woman you love, but it seems to me that you didn't let her know much about your feelings for her. well, does she know that you want to divorce or did you tell her anything about your current situation?
why don't you try to tell her about that and find out what she thinks about it? will she agree to be with you in this situation?
and as regards your wife, i don't know why you don't love her anymore, but she probably does love you as long as she doesn't want to divorce. you have to think twice before to make this step, cause you might regret later.
think about it. and tell the other one what you feel for her. it's the best way to see whether she wants you or not.
GOOD LUCK!
Well you need to first settle your divorce. Then I would let the other women come to you when she is ready, I would just be friends for right now.
do what your heart tells you - everything else will make you sick (mentally and physically.)
You should stay faithful to your wife. Until death do you part.
THINK- u r d one in d situation and will decide best.
if u dont listen to urself, ull regret it.
so its just ur choice.
its just another decision u gotta make.
In the first place, it is always the best to be an honest person. Once you start lying, it gets out of control. You have to lie more to cover your other lies.
Then, tell me how you would feel if you couldn't trust your wife or girlfriend? Do not ask from your wife or girlfriend what you are not willing to give from yourself.
I think you have done both ladies an injustice. You need to resolve your issues with your marriage before you jump into another relationship.
Ask yourself why you decided to start a different relationship while you are still married? The only thing that could come out of it was that you would get to indulge yourself at the expense of the other woman. I think the other woman was wise in leaving, and I think you should leave her completely alone, until you resolve your marriage.
You dont love your wife- but do you HATE her this much? Why would you put her through such agony? Why not try to work it out, if she isn't working at your marriage,tell her what you'd like and what not.And if it's you who hasnt put in effort into your marriage-maybe you should try to make things better. I really really hope you wont throw away something you have for something that may turn out to be a MISTAKE.
tell your wife, you want a divorce and that you don't love her any more, i know it sounds hard what with all the crying and screaming and crap. but thats your best option, you'll be free of the person you don't love and then you can be with the one you do love.
First you need to let the woman you love know that you have feelings for her, and know if she also feels the same way about you. Then, if she also loves you, you need to make your wife understand that things aren't working out for you guys and you two need to separate. But first, know if the other woman loves you or not.
no
Just do what your heart says man! Dont regret later.
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i fall in love with another woman who was my mate at work. i showed her that i had feeling for her, but i never told her anything. now she found another job and i don't know what to do, cause she knows that i am married. i don't want to lose her. what do you advice me to do?
Answers:
your situation it's pretty much delicate, cause you want to divorce and your wife doesn't. i don't know what kind of relationship you had with the woman you love, but it seems to me that you didn't let her know much about your feelings for her. well, does she know that you want to divorce or did you tell her anything about your current situation?
why don't you try to tell her about that and find out what she thinks about it? will she agree to be with you in this situation?
and as regards your wife, i don't know why you don't love her anymore, but she probably does love you as long as she doesn't want to divorce. you have to think twice before to make this step, cause you might regret later.
think about it. and tell the other one what you feel for her. it's the best way to see whether she wants you or not.
GOOD LUCK!
Well you need to first settle your divorce. Then I would let the other women come to you when she is ready, I would just be friends for right now.
do what your heart tells you - everything else will make you sick (mentally and physically.)
You should stay faithful to your wife. Until death do you part.
THINK- u r d one in d situation and will decide best.
if u dont listen to urself, ull regret it.
so its just ur choice.
its just another decision u gotta make.
In the first place, it is always the best to be an honest person. Once you start lying, it gets out of control. You have to lie more to cover your other lies.
Then, tell me how you would feel if you couldn't trust your wife or girlfriend? Do not ask from your wife or girlfriend what you are not willing to give from yourself.
I think you have done both ladies an injustice. You need to resolve your issues with your marriage before you jump into another relationship.
Ask yourself why you decided to start a different relationship while you are still married? The only thing that could come out of it was that you would get to indulge yourself at the expense of the other woman. I think the other woman was wise in leaving, and I think you should leave her completely alone, until you resolve your marriage.
You dont love your wife- but do you HATE her this much? Why would you put her through such agony? Why not try to work it out, if she isn't working at your marriage,tell her what you'd like and what not.And if it's you who hasnt put in effort into your marriage-maybe you should try to make things better. I really really hope you wont throw away something you have for something that may turn out to be a MISTAKE.
tell your wife, you want a divorce and that you don't love her any more, i know it sounds hard what with all the crying and screaming and crap. but thats your best option, you'll be free of the person you don't love and then you can be with the one you do love.
First you need to let the woman you love know that you have feelings for her, and know if she also feels the same way about you. Then, if she also loves you, you need to make your wife understand that things aren't working out for you guys and you two need to separate. But first, know if the other woman loves you or not.
no
Just do what your heart says man! Dont regret later.
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