My girlfriend discovered I was lying to her, now she doesnt love me, how do I get her back, what do I buy her?
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Nothing - you can't buy her love. Your question should have read 'how can I gain her trust again'? If you think you can just give material things to make up for your misdemeanor, then you are a shallow person, and I feel sorry for you. A bit harsh I know, but the truth.
Why do you think buying her something is going to change anything? Be honest with her, a gift is nothing compared to honesty.
Buy her a Brand New Boyfriend who doesnt LIE
Well i suppose it depends on what you were lying to her about!
orchids
Honesty is not for sale, trust cannot be bought.
That's a joke, right?
I don't think you can "buy" her back. You need to rebuild the trust. This is incredibly difficult. You need to tell her the truth about everything and don't ecpect her to trust you for a long time.
bring her fro a weekend a way and light loadsa candles and rose petal.that will defo get you in her good books again
you can't buy trust
I agree with Rapper_Malli buy her a bf that doesnt lie
love, care, attention, time
oh and they're not for sale!
You don't buy her anything. Your love & trust is worth more than any material possession. If you loose that then there's not much left to a relationship. If she was to consider taking you back, you would have to do alot of apologising & grovelling - & dont do it again!
you can not buy back love, reepct or trust, you need to earn it.
You can't buy her trust, it must be EARNED! Lying is easy fixing it is not. Just be honest with her from now on and hope for the best...
I discovered my Boyf lying to me.. wouldn't matter what he bought me , just couldn't look at him in same light again. Lesson learnt.. Don't lie.
nothing. lies are hard to get over
Get her some chocolate and she will forget everytime you lie to her. Tis true.
you don't
Listen mate just move on.. she is showing u bloody attitude! Kick her off & say her goodbye.
u r such a loser - u had her but u messed up now deal with it - the best thing u can do is let her move on without u
Sorry , but she won't & shouldn't take you back if you have lied to her. And why do you want to go back out with her ? If you aren't willing to take on the responsibilties of a relationship then don't have one.
For god sakes man apologise and stop lying. you can't buy your way out of it! but. buying something wouldnt hurt your cause. make it somethig special that is personal not generic like flowers, or just something expensive if she's shallow lol
Trust is something you have to earn. It will take you a long time to earn it back. The point of having a partner is so you can talk about things openly with them. Shame on you for lying. I don't know why you lied to her but I would buy her flowers and tell your her sorry and make her understand why you lied to her. Hopefully you lied to her about something because you wanted to protect her feelings. If it was something else then maybe your not mature enough to be in a real relationship.
depends what u lied about an what kind of person she is some people find it easier to forgive lies than others. write her a letter explaining why u lied an sayin that u know how wrong it was an that ur sorry an will never do it again. tell her u will do anythin to try to make things right between u again an send it with a beautiful bunch of flowers!good luck
I don't think buying a present is going to change things but you could do something nice like surprisingly send her flowers to her work place that always works for me with a nice card saying how sorry you are. I think you just need to be honest with her and talk to her about it. You obviously sorry so show her how much. But be romantic and i'm sure she will be change her mind.
Is she really that materialistic that buying her a present will solve everything? You both need to get new partners!
dude you so don't know how women work . er actually I don't either . but my point is you can't buy love back, you broke her trust, you need to start from the ground up if she'll give you the chance
just say you're sorry and never lie again and then give her big bunch of flowers..shell appreciate that!...
a ticket to Las Vegas so she can see some real losers
You cannot buy love, stupid.
IT DEPENDS WHAT YOU WERE LYING ABOUT! WAS A LITTLE WHITE LIE OR A BIGGIE? IT MUST BE A BIGGIE IF SHE DOESNT LOVE U ANYMORE. ASK YOURSELF THE QUESTION IF YOU REALLY WANTED TO KEEP HER THEN WHY DID U LIE. BUYING SOMETHING WONT CURE THE ISSUES THAT LIES WITHIN U. SOMETIMES U GOTTA LOSE IT B4 U REALISE WHAT IT REALLY MEANT.
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