Auto-eroticism - am I a bad person?
If, hypothetically, a person was incredibly aroused by performing acts of self stimulation in front of a mirror, whilst wearing a a face mask of his own head and listening to a compelation of a mixture of the ecstactic screams of ex-girlfrinds and the voices of friends and relations saying his name, probably with something spicy inserted into his rectum, would this be morally objectionable from your point of view?
If so, why?
Answers:
This goes way beyond the grounds of taste and decency.
However I cannot call you bad that under the curcumstance would be wrong of me, I am not the one to judge you, it is not my right.
Usually I would say everyone has the right to do what they wish, but in this perspective it, really is pushing the psychological envelope.
I think these are issues that need to be discussed with a therapist, because by doing so someone is going very far, there are many facets to this eroticism, and when you combine them all it is far too much just to be aroused or have pleasure.
When ever someone, experiments with new sexual boundaries, they will eventually become tired and want to try something new, which can be okay, but the idea you describe, would require quite a lot to top it when it became no longer arousing, as we become de sensetised to the thing which had previously stimulated us, therefore we seek out a more intense experience, you could find yourself in a mentally and physically danerous place, by continually trying to further these acts just to achieve satisfaction.
I think a Psychologist or some sort of therapy would help unearth the underlying cause of these needs that you feel you have to satisfy to get pleasure and help would be very beneficial to you on many levels, that you may not even be aware of yet. You would not only be helped from the point of view that you had an illness that needed cured, but as someone who needs to get some of the issues out with a professional, who can guide and help you through the process of why your mind is working in this way, you sound like someone who has a lot to unload, you could trust these people in confidence, without the fear of judgement.
Regards Armand
Good luck.
not in the least, a number of leading republican congressmen do all of this daily, i've heard. and, since they are all "good christians", how bad could it be? :-)
Yes.Because its sick.
Nope that's fine, just don't get caught by your mother.
I am never one to judge what other people do in their lifestyles. Everyone is different and whatever you want to do to make yours better, go for it, as long as it doesn't involve rape, children pornography or is against the law.
whatever beats your drums, as long as children are not involved, and all participants are up for it but as your on your own, its fine..enjoy
bit narcissistic maybe.and a lot of prep time.
I wouldn't worry until asphyxiation came into play.
I would say you are impotent; I don't need any of that, just the other in my head, the one who *really* gets excited. Other than that I could be in a coma and ejaculate.
If your gran catches you, you gonna be in big trouble!
Each to their own.
Your not wrong, people are entitled to be aroused by whatever they want as long as it doesn't hurt others (unless you're into S&M, in which case pain is the theme!). People who think that fetishs are sick probably have really boring, ordinary sex lives and perhaps they should explore the subject a little and they'd probably end up not only with better sex but a more open mind aswell.
No, you know you've got a problem when your behaviour disturbs other people. Are you there yet?
you probably should be on sex-offenders list,or locked up somewhere secure!!
Morally objectionable.? My friend there is a reason why this may get you the thrill you seek, you are almost self diagnosing the fact that this is weird, you need weird, you know what weird looks like and you are getting off on it. You are cautious sharing it onll confirms the truth, you would not share this with a stranger, but thanks for sharing it with me bruv.
We all make mistakes. And remember Variety is the spice of life, you cannot insert that into your rectum. Thank God.
Auto -eroticism..
if cars turn you on, then so be it...!
Only because you have forced the disturbing image into my head.
I know strange stuff goes on behind closed doors and often imagine much worse than that, but till it is brought to life it is not a problem to me.
.as long as the mirror isn't in a shop-store window!...x
are you doing this before or after you perform mass on Sunday?.
Can you believe it? Isn't it the ultimate hypocrisy?
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Answers:
This goes way beyond the grounds of taste and decency.
However I cannot call you bad that under the curcumstance would be wrong of me, I am not the one to judge you, it is not my right.
Usually I would say everyone has the right to do what they wish, but in this perspective it, really is pushing the psychological envelope.
I think these are issues that need to be discussed with a therapist, because by doing so someone is going very far, there are many facets to this eroticism, and when you combine them all it is far too much just to be aroused or have pleasure.
When ever someone, experiments with new sexual boundaries, they will eventually become tired and want to try something new, which can be okay, but the idea you describe, would require quite a lot to top it when it became no longer arousing, as we become de sensetised to the thing which had previously stimulated us, therefore we seek out a more intense experience, you could find yourself in a mentally and physically danerous place, by continually trying to further these acts just to achieve satisfaction.
I think a Psychologist or some sort of therapy would help unearth the underlying cause of these needs that you feel you have to satisfy to get pleasure and help would be very beneficial to you on many levels, that you may not even be aware of yet. You would not only be helped from the point of view that you had an illness that needed cured, but as someone who needs to get some of the issues out with a professional, who can guide and help you through the process of why your mind is working in this way, you sound like someone who has a lot to unload, you could trust these people in confidence, without the fear of judgement.
Regards Armand
Good luck.
not in the least, a number of leading republican congressmen do all of this daily, i've heard. and, since they are all "good christians", how bad could it be? :-)
Yes.Because its sick.
Nope that's fine, just don't get caught by your mother.
I am never one to judge what other people do in their lifestyles. Everyone is different and whatever you want to do to make yours better, go for it, as long as it doesn't involve rape, children pornography or is against the law.
whatever beats your drums, as long as children are not involved, and all participants are up for it but as your on your own, its fine..enjoy
bit narcissistic maybe.and a lot of prep time.
I wouldn't worry until asphyxiation came into play.
I would say you are impotent; I don't need any of that, just the other in my head, the one who *really* gets excited. Other than that I could be in a coma and ejaculate.
If your gran catches you, you gonna be in big trouble!
Each to their own.
Your not wrong, people are entitled to be aroused by whatever they want as long as it doesn't hurt others (unless you're into S&M, in which case pain is the theme!). People who think that fetishs are sick probably have really boring, ordinary sex lives and perhaps they should explore the subject a little and they'd probably end up not only with better sex but a more open mind aswell.
No, you know you've got a problem when your behaviour disturbs other people. Are you there yet?
you probably should be on sex-offenders list,or locked up somewhere secure!!
Morally objectionable.? My friend there is a reason why this may get you the thrill you seek, you are almost self diagnosing the fact that this is weird, you need weird, you know what weird looks like and you are getting off on it. You are cautious sharing it onll confirms the truth, you would not share this with a stranger, but thanks for sharing it with me bruv.
We all make mistakes. And remember Variety is the spice of life, you cannot insert that into your rectum. Thank God.
Auto -eroticism..
if cars turn you on, then so be it...!
Only because you have forced the disturbing image into my head.
I know strange stuff goes on behind closed doors and often imagine much worse than that, but till it is brought to life it is not a problem to me.
.as long as the mirror isn't in a shop-store window!...x
are you doing this before or after you perform mass on Sunday?.
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