How do you cope with people that you cannot stand?
was brought up to be very honest and if that if you did not like someone then do not be false/make an effort with them.
I am finding that this is not really working as an adult as it comes across as being aggressive/childish.
Anyone any tips with handing people who really get under your skin?
Thanks in advance.
Answers:
You bite your tounge to spite your face. Tips? Kill em' with kindness, do not let them even for a second think they've pushed your buttons! Smile at them on the outside while your giving them the finger on the inside. Confidence in your dimeaner and blow them off like what they do or say doesn't bother you..It will drive them crazy!! I have a mother in law of almost 30yrs who is a #1 beoch, and I have my power that she can't take from me and it eats her ---! You do not have to tolerate such pety B.S. and it took a long time for me to get that way! I stay away, and don't give a rats *** what Anyone thinks. You get one ride on this planet and I'll be damned if someone is going to try to make me miserable just so they can feel superior! NO WAY!!
ignore then, walk away
Smile, laugh and walk away.
They'll get the idea.
stear clear of this person if you can
kill them
ignore em and wat they do
ignore it... thats the best way to keep up with ur bussiness...
Stay away from them.
slap tha **** out they ***
leave them alone. Just do your business.
just ignore them, there not worth the stress and the worry
Just Pray !!!!
I'd answer your question, but I just can't stand you.
As hard as it is, it is possible to look at someone you can't stand, smile, and wish them well. It won't kill you to do it. It may seem totally distasteful, but you can do it. And it may not make you like them any better, but it will probably make them like you better.
avoid them and avoid conversation
i just dont pay them any mind.
Smile and nod and then walk away!
Don't hang around with them.
I smile and tolerate them, then get them moving as qucik as I can.
just ignore them
First I try to see what makes them tick; see why they act the way they do. If I can, and it's understandable, I'll feel differently. After all, it's too easy to hate them and walk away not understanding them. If I did that everytime, I wouldn't know many people.
However, if they are complete nut jobs, then I simply avoid them.
breathe in, breathe out (repeat)
Just disassociate yourself with ppl you don't like. Why waste your time?
if they get to unbearable just tell them what you think of them
Kill them with kindness
I deal with this same problem. The best you can do is be civil, but not fake. Wish I could offer something better.
i generaly avoid them
Just be nice, and accept people for who their are. You are looking at this all the wrong way! Some people can be very entertaining in all of the idiosyncrasies. Try to repeat "don't sweat the small stuff" and just move on. That doesn't mean you need to befriend them, just accept them as there.
Turn it around.make it to where they can't stand you.
It's possibly not the best way to deal with them, but I ignore them. To the point that if they're standing in front of me, I do not see them. It drives people crazy so in the long run it helps ;)
Dont go near them. Or grit your teeth, smile at them and make them wonder what you are up to.
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I am finding that this is not really working as an adult as it comes across as being aggressive/childish.
Anyone any tips with handing people who really get under your skin?
Thanks in advance.
Answers:
You bite your tounge to spite your face. Tips? Kill em' with kindness, do not let them even for a second think they've pushed your buttons! Smile at them on the outside while your giving them the finger on the inside. Confidence in your dimeaner and blow them off like what they do or say doesn't bother you..It will drive them crazy!! I have a mother in law of almost 30yrs who is a #1 beoch, and I have my power that she can't take from me and it eats her ---! You do not have to tolerate such pety B.S. and it took a long time for me to get that way! I stay away, and don't give a rats *** what Anyone thinks. You get one ride on this planet and I'll be damned if someone is going to try to make me miserable just so they can feel superior! NO WAY!!
ignore then, walk away
Smile, laugh and walk away.
They'll get the idea.
stear clear of this person if you can
kill them
ignore em and wat they do
ignore it... thats the best way to keep up with ur bussiness...
Stay away from them.
slap tha **** out they ***
leave them alone. Just do your business.
just ignore them, there not worth the stress and the worry
Just Pray !!!!
I'd answer your question, but I just can't stand you.
As hard as it is, it is possible to look at someone you can't stand, smile, and wish them well. It won't kill you to do it. It may seem totally distasteful, but you can do it. And it may not make you like them any better, but it will probably make them like you better.
avoid them and avoid conversation
i just dont pay them any mind.
Smile and nod and then walk away!
Don't hang around with them.
I smile and tolerate them, then get them moving as qucik as I can.
just ignore them
First I try to see what makes them tick; see why they act the way they do. If I can, and it's understandable, I'll feel differently. After all, it's too easy to hate them and walk away not understanding them. If I did that everytime, I wouldn't know many people.
However, if they are complete nut jobs, then I simply avoid them.
breathe in, breathe out (repeat)
Just disassociate yourself with ppl you don't like. Why waste your time?
if they get to unbearable just tell them what you think of them
Kill them with kindness
I deal with this same problem. The best you can do is be civil, but not fake. Wish I could offer something better.
i generaly avoid them
Just be nice, and accept people for who their are. You are looking at this all the wrong way! Some people can be very entertaining in all of the idiosyncrasies. Try to repeat "don't sweat the small stuff" and just move on. That doesn't mean you need to befriend them, just accept them as there.
Turn it around.make it to where they can't stand you.
It's possibly not the best way to deal with them, but I ignore them. To the point that if they're standing in front of me, I do not see them. It drives people crazy so in the long run it helps ;)
Dont go near them. Or grit your teeth, smile at them and make them wonder what you are up to.
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