If you meet your Ex who has recently got married, and he/she looks terrible, should you feel happy or sad?
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If he/she dumped you then hell ya
jump for joy
but otherwise no
I would feel sad.
I would feel happy...for knowing that it wasn't me that was in that mess of misery with him. :)
I would feel sad for him, knowing that he's not happy.
Yes
Sad for his/her new spouse..overjoyed that you don't have to wake up to that sight every day.
happy if my life was better
Move on or go mad. It's up to you
Yeah. I have met many of my exes (many of whom messed me about) and it's great to see them stuck in hideous marriages. And I'm always looking FABULOUS when I see them, so yah boo sucks to them.
So I get to chuckle about how karma bites folk on the backside, and they get a lasting memory of fabulous me that they'll never have again :-)
Happened to me and I was freakin estatic. I had a hard time containing my joy.
The imediate reaction is to say it depends on the cirumstances that you split up but to be honest by saying she is your ex says that at sometime you had very strong feelings for her. In your shoes I would be sad.
You should never feel good about another persons misfortune's no matter what the circumstances. I wouldn't be happy about something like that because even if me and my ex didn't make it we still shared good times and at one time had love for each other.
Well I would feel a bit sad too, after all you had feelings for them once, I couldn't rejoice at some one Else's misery.
depends how you split, but you can feel how you want to feel.
If he was mean to me when we were together, then I would say to myself: "Serves him right."
Happy -- especially if he was the one who dumped you!! Serves him right! :)
if he dumped me id feel as happy as a pig in s--- if i dumped him i would feel sad
You should feel sad. I would feel sad, even if the relationship ended badly; it just isn't a good thing to see someone you know in a bad situation. That's just me, I'm the nice guy.
i think you shouldn't feel happy or sad if he/she looks bad you should be concerned weather you all splt on good terms or bad find out what the problem is that got him/her that way and see if you can help
i feel happy about all my ex no matter what, why should i be jelous., she is ex coz i left ;)
and yeah if she was pain in the a** than you might feel sad for guy who is getting married with her :D
If you genuinely loved them and want them to be happy, sad. If she/he was a total hag and dumped you, then happy.
I would be ecstatic
looks arent all that important, after all the person might be ill with a terminal illness, now that would make me really sad.
However, if he simply looked a mess cause he'd wasted himself, then.oh who am i kidding, i'd still feel sad cause s/he wouldnt listen when i had spoken to them about them not looking after themselves. (i feel this is the case with my current hubby, he is wasting away and i think i might have to move on.i dont think anyone else apart from someone who's mad in the head, will take him as he is.)
i dont like seeing people hurt, i'm perhaps a sucker in the eyes of some people, cause i've been hurt by an ex i had for 7 years as a boyfriend, then when his new girlfriend dumped him big time, with no explanations, he came crying to me, about her, it was awful!! i still love dhim, and there he was crying over her. i was so confused but i learnt how to put aside my own needs to help him cause he felt suicidal and it seemed selfish of me at the time to nurse my wounds and not see to his desperate cry for help.
based on all of this, i wouldnt feel joyful at seeing someone else suffer, no. lastly, i always remain friends with past boyfriends, there's only one out of the 3 that i seriously dated who has gone completely AWOL cause he travels a lot and i did a bit myself. i always feel that because they'd shared happy times filled with love at some point in my life, they'd helped to enrich my life, and for that i'm grateful. Even if they served no other purpose than to help me learn something the hard way, i still benefitted cause i learnt something from it. I value friendship more than a short vindictive feeling of glee when someone else is down, u never know when you might need that person again, even if only for a shoulder to cry on yourself.
I really don't know, but I felt really happy when I last saw my ex looking really-really bad! I would have walked through fire for her before she cheated on me, gave me the clap, and spent my life's savings, so now when I see her looking like "ten miles of dirt road," I can't help but feel really great inside! Yay! It's the best!!
you spend time with someone,you share a lot of things,feelings being one of them,nothing wrong wishing a former mate "well"
You should feel sad, but unless you are a saint there will be at least a little element of joy in your heart.
It is called schadenfreude, and we are all subject to it from time to time.
yes it is
What, are you for real? Laugh your C*CK off!
Happy.
Hands down.
No question.
Can't believe you had to ask, but it's OK that you did...but what is key here is that you don't let on like you are happy about this, no, no, never, ever, gloat...always take the high road, or at least appear to, be gracious, even concerned...always leave them wondering.
You shouldn't feel anything. But, I would have to say happy!
tell her to stop being selfish and cook you a nice meal before giving you a bj
it depend on how much you like them!
i like my ex to look sad, cos he was a bully!!
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