How should a girlfriend who has shattered her partners heart after being unfaithful restore his faith & love?
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She doesn't. She realizes what every man who has done it feels like. She gets her priorities in order, try to be a better person and not repeast her errors.
The answer must come from you, NOT her.
As I've already said.
It's either:
1) over, so move on buddy,
or
2) you REALLY love her, so if she did sleep with this guy then you'll forgive her (because it was just a bit of sex, OK) & forget about the vows (yours or hers?) and make it work.
You've been trying for nine years, you should know by now. Time to be honest with yourself, I think.
Good Luck.
HERE WE GO AGAIN. anaother female con artist
tell that man she' s done it before she will do it again , difficult to find one that you can trust , but when you know for sure then , it'll happen again. and again.and again its like a drug
my girlfreind did that to last friday and we broke up and i dont want to forgive her for betraying me instead of talking to me and telling me and im also pissed of at my best friend for going with her.they both btrayed me.
life if for livin, shite with everyone else. enjoy it while you have it.
Very difficult..
Long slow process and he will probably remember it forever.
I don't know if you can ever completely restore your love to what it was before..The damage will always be there.
A few people can completely put it behind them but for most, it is always a little bad spot.
You might be better off finding a new boyfriend and starting over
with a clean slate..
sorry hun but you have to play it by time n even then im still not sure if your relationship will ever be the same once the trust has gone its very hard restore it again
depending on the circumstances
the only thing you could really do is be there for each other
hope all goes well for u both
By your words 'shattered.. heart', 'restore his faith & love' I guess the situation is not that good.
Chances are the partner invested a lot of emotion, a large chunk of his heart into the relatiosnhip expecting reciprocity. But there was none.
If the girlfriend really cares about the partner, she should let the partner find himself without interference; apologise, explain if at all possible, and leave. Let him have the chance to be happy with someone else.
If the partner forgives, then it's the partner's choice.
you can't. It'll ALWAYS be there!!.You respect that person enough, and yourself, and have some class and maturity, along with knowing right from wrong, some self control, and ya' don't put yourself in the position to do it in the first friggen place!!..PERIOD!!!
This is a tough one. some people cannot restore the trust they once had in a partner who has been unfaithful. others can but need time to heal.
All I can say is that you can give him some time. there is no guarentee, but all you can do is try.
You should talk to him about it. that is, if he knows.
Good luck.
And next time, try and be a little less selfish about your actions.
leave her/him. I swear youll be so glad u did in future, rather than it happening again. He/She isnt strong enough to leave, show her you are. I was in the situation and i ignored it n carried on and i regret that several years down the line. Its not about who chaeted on who. its about what is for the best now.
It doesnt sound like shes/he begging you to stay, so dont.
You will find its for the best.
You probly dont believe me cos u have no self esteem right now.
She can't do to much unless he is willing to forgive her and then if he wants to forgive her then all she can do is never make the same mistake, learn from the first mistake and then go on.
I say if you really loved him you wouldnt have done it in the first place to begin with. So logically wouldnt you agree with me 100% that whatever comes after you prolly deserve it. Maybe its in your subconscous for wanting to regain his faith and love to shatter them again, i dont kno, only you kno the answer but i personally would recommend that you move on and find someone else. The best you can do for him is just remain friends but thats if he so much as wanna take it that far again with you.
You should always remember this one thing, its better to have put ur all into a relationship that didnt work out in the end than having to say am sorry in the middle of a relationship trying to win back his/her love!!
a threesome sometimes does the trick
Girlfriend -- "We can have sex anytime you want but please forgive me" lol. just kidding. That ain't actually gonna work.
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Not easily. Trust is very difficult to earn. too sensitive to break. Once somebody loses it, it'll even take the person a lifetime to rebuild it.
Unless, otherwise, the girlfriend suggests they move to another place where nobody knows them or nobody knows what they have been through. Then probably suggest a brand new start.
You are who you are.
If the guy accepts that a slapper is always a slapper, and will experience the same event again in the future at some point (guaranteed) then he should be happy. Well, not happy....he will always remember and always regret not sharing his lost time with a better person
beg and grovel like a dog and if it doesnt work accept it never will be restored and move on before you cause him anymore pain.
don't be a fool find another
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